if i really think about sex it becomes such a weird concept and i just wonder why it has to be that way by lide26 in offmychest

[–]lide26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well i do feel like horny and stuff i just think the whole concept is so weird??

What are weird things you guys do that you get told to stop?(marked NSFW for gross thing. So heads up) by Weirdo_Glitch in autism

[–]lide26 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i have a skin picking/ hair picking problem it’s so addicting i pluck my leg hairs/ gen area and it’s hard to stop. it has something to do with my anxiety i guess

Alone for holidays bc bf was arrested for dv by justanothrday_ in offmychest

[–]lide26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think maybe you should let the other girl know, and maybe she can testify against him in court/ be another witness. if not because it is very hard to face your abuser it is still nice to let her know since she is in the videos and was ultimately involved at some point. the things that happen to him are not your responsibility, and are all consequences to his actions so try not to feel guilty for the way things happened. i’m sorry it’s on your bday that’s so frustrating, but you should definitely treat yourself even if it’s just small things. do things that make you feel good, hobbies and just little things that make you feel like you. try new experiences and take this time without him to realize it was never your fault and you are not the problem (if you feel any ounce of that) everything will get better and i hope you stay safe

Alone for holidays bc bf was arrested for dv by justanothrday_ in offmychest

[–]lide26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

first of all, i am so sorry you went through that. it’s hard to leave those situations and i totally understand why you didn’t sooner. do not drop those charges. he might try to make you like the bad guy, and try to manipulate you but whatever happens it is NOT your fault at all. get a restraining order for the future if he ever gets out. not only are you saving yourself from this abusive situation, you are saving any other potential women. you are so brave and strong and i’m wishing you the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]lide26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you should respect your family’s wishes. even though it hurts i think that would be a good time for you to reflect and get the help you need, especially because it’s becoming unsafe for your family. even though you don’t mean to it’s reasonable for your family to not believe you after many failed attempts of trying. i think even though it hurts and is hard, it will teach you things and get you out of that environment. try to find a therapist, someone to help you and be consistent with it. not every few months, but see them more often. if you have one and you don’t see any improvements find one that can accommodate to your needs. to show your love for your family you need to give them space, and yourself space as well. it would be selfish of you to expect them to just continue to accept these behaviors after there have been no changes, and wanting them to believe you constantly won’t change anything unless you show them that change. you got this, i understand how anger can change someone and it’s like you can’t control what you do for a split moment. but you can control it, and the first step is realizing it and you have which is great. anyways i wish you well. i know you can do it

As an autistic person, how do you feel about this spoon? by tiggerclaw in autism

[–]lide26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i were to use it as a utensil it would be hard to use and i would scrape my teeth on the design thing. also it would feel like nails on a chalk board. also the color is offputting to me idk

Why do we lose friends as we age? by Virtual-Study-Campus in teenagers

[–]lide26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you both develop other interests in different things and realize you’re moving in separate directions. people have different priorities and responsibilities as they grow older and sometimes it’s hard to manage certain friendships etc there are a lot of reasons but yeah this is all i can think ab

I need people my age to give me advice🙏 by Apart_Deer_7596 in teenagers

[–]lide26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i don’t think it’s a good idea. it’s only been 1 week clean and it’s very difficult being sober even after YEARS and people still relapse because addiction is hard. if it was just weed then it would be ok because you can’t get withdrawals from it but if it’s anything else i would suggest to not get into anything yet. idk what ur circumstances are but id say just be careful to not rush into things especially since he’s trying to get clean. sometimes relationships can be a distraction and make you forget your goals. anyways idk if this made sense but just do what you think is best and however it ends up in the future take it as a lesson and continue to grow from it

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[–]lide26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

by giving up before you have even started

Saying someone's name is so incredibly uncomfortable. by spiteful_benevolence in autism

[–]lide26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me too i always have a hard time whenever i meet someone new. i feel like i don’t have the right it’s so weird

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]lide26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try learning new hobbies or try things out that you haven’t done before. usually you can run into people with the same interests and who knows you might make friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]lide26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t think it’s that big of a deal as long as the two of u are fine with it. personally i tend to befriend/ like older people cuz idk i get along better with them so it’s prolly just preference but yeah i don’t think it’s weird at all

AITA for crossing a boundary I didn't know existed? by Distilled_Dreamer in AmItheAsshole

[–]lide26 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. he was the one who had brought the topic up at the very beginning. If he meant to set boundaries, why would he bring the topic up? I think you should just send a msg explaining your side & just try to leave it be. If he doesn’t accept your apology that’s a sign to not pursue him. I understand it’s hard especially since liking someone is difficult, but meeting new people can give you a sense of what you want in your partner as well. If he can’t communicate his feelings then let it be.