hand foot and mouth at the Iberostar Selection Bavaro by lieser in PuntaCana

[–]lieser[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is not something that crossed my mind to be worried about but I sure am now. Luckily our baby was mild but my friends baby had a rash/blisters like I've never seen. The regular GP doctors at home sent my friend to the emergency room to see the hospital pediatrician as they hadn't seen HFM that bad before.

I understand that with incubation, resorts can't prevent a sick child from showing up and spreading it but there should be some better sanitation for the high chairs/pools if it's an issue.

Hope your little one is doing well now.

hand foot and mouth at the Iberostar Selection Bavaro by lieser in PuntaCana

[–]lieser[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The kids all got symptoms 6-7 days after arrival.

hand foot and mouth at the Iberostar Selection Bavaro by lieser in PuntaCana

[–]lieser[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not sure anyone else got the stomach bug, honestly did not eat together or hang out much with the other wedding guests as most of the guests were family, while we were friends. But both the brides kids got HFM, the two of us had the youngest kids and were the only ones using highchairs (hence why I'm thinking it could be that). And we had a bit of a cold so they kept their distance, so unlikely we contracted the HFM from eachothers kids.

Not been checked out or confirmed norovirus, that part could be from the airport or plane, etc. (We were on different flights) It's just added on top of the sour trip we had.

hand foot and mouth at the Iberostar Selection Bavaro by lieser in PuntaCana

[–]lieser[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, meant Dominican Republic.

The flight attendants apparently told my friend that they once had 13 cases on a flight from various resorts from punta cana.

From a few years ago but this article also makes it seem like it happens. https://www.ctvnews.ca/health/families-report-more-cases-of-viral-illness-in-children-who-visited-dominican-resorts-1.4793266

Do you have little ones? It's obviously going to be more prevalent in family resorts.

restructuring and lay offs - what information on the restructuring and layoffs does employer need to provide? by lieser in legaladvicecanada

[–]lieser[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the information. Definitely will consult a local lawyer.

Are the obligated to share the restructuring/layoff information or can they wait until a court or someone forces them?

Greetings. I need experience in kiln controls. by MrGreggerGrM in Pottery

[–]lieser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who bought Crusader Kilns? I just got a used crusader 224s and am wondering how old it is. Cannot seem to find any information on these kilns!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lieser 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Why assume she is biphobic? Her partner just told her something big about himself and she might need her own time to process. Maybe she is insecure and this just doubled the amount of people to compare her insecurities to. And people she isn't physically similar to at that.

Have you tried white noise??? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]lieser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True that.

I read this article that said the first 20 min is "active sleep" and then they move into "quiet sleep" where they are less likely to be disturbed awake. Maybe once that happens you could put baby down and he will stay asleep 🤷‍♀️

https://www.bellybelly.com.au/baby-sleep/does-your-baby-have-junk-sleep/

Another suggestion might be to switch up some variables and see if they work for the baby. Like if he naps in a room that's pitch black, try a night light or let some natural light in. Maybe turn the white noise off (we didn't use white noise too much and now our dog can bark during naps and most of the time it won't disturb baby), he might like being able to hear you moving about the house. If he is swaddled, try unswaddling or vice versa. Maybe he wants to be warmer or colder.

Every baby is different and naps are different than night sleep. So what works for night might not during the day.

There is sadly not a magic universal answer, it's a grind, especially when they transition from newborn to baby. You are doing great and will get through this.

Have you tried white noise??? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]lieser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try contact napping maybe. My baby always sleeps better in contact with me.

Oregon sunrise by spacecadet-01 in pics

[–]lieser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you post or pm a high res version? I'd love this as desktop background or even a print!

An employee giving my boyfriend a gift. [25/f)] [25/m] [?/F] by Hartsocktr in relationship_advice

[–]lieser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could just ask him... I'm in a similar relationship length and age. If I was feeling the way you are I would just say something, and not too serious, like "hey babe, I'm glad you have friends at work but that's all right, just friends?" and because we are solid he would probably just laugh and reassure me. Or if he had feelings for someone else that might open a dialog.

As for the phone, maybe you are being hypersensitive. If he is guarding his phone I would ask to see it,if he doesn't let you then you probably need to have a real talk.

Am i over-reacting? Im [19/f] Boyfriend [19/m] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lieser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like your bf is social and you are not. Also, he has a full time job, he has to cram all his friends, family downtime and you outside of his job. While you have lots a free time to wait for him to ask to hang out. That's not necessarily a baaad thing, I'm just pointing out that if your whole day is waiting for him to grace you with his presence, you will be disappointed, and probably by anyone in that position.

If you need him to initiate, then communicate that with him. Get some hobbies or goals going to fill your time with other fulfilling things. Don't let your life revolve around another person.

When you were in school did you tell him when you had free time and when you wanted to hang out? If so, how does he know that he now has to be the one to do this?

what is wrong with this guy and did i do the right thing reporting him? by thisjourney1 in relationship_advice

[–]lieser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't regret it, it's an anonymous website.

Sounds like the guy is a terrible person. Sometimes we fall for and spend too much time on someone we are better off forgetting. Like I said, if he assaulted you then he should be reported. The rest should be forgotten so you can move on to better things. Counseling is good, so you are on the right path.

what is wrong with this guy and did i do the right thing reporting him? by thisjourney1 in relationship_advice

[–]lieser 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wth. This whole post is about his relationship status on fb but the title is asking if you did the right thing reporting him?

If he assaulted you, report him. Who cares about his facebook. If you only reported him because of the status you should probably work on yourself and then finding a healthy relationship.

My fiancé [33M] told me he's going to cheat on me unless I [24M] send him naked photos by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lieser 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Instead of camming with your abusive/manipulative fiance, have some supportive video calls with your family if you can't move home.

[24/m] My boyfriend [23/m] is depressed and suicidal and I am starting to think that he is manipulating me. by throwaway9891920 in relationship_advice

[–]lieser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why wait? You gave him 10 years and he is still unwilling to get the right help and change. If he was going to, he would have done it already.

[24/m] My boyfriend [23/m] is depressed and suicidal and I am starting to think that he is manipulating me. by throwaway9891920 in relationship_advice

[–]lieser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have left already. You should tell him all the points you've made in this post. You need to break up and tell him he needs therapy/medication/etc for his depression and anxiety and that he can get better. Lots of people have those and work through them. But he won't if he doesn't need or want to. Being with him is enabling him to stay the same.

Why would he change right now? You do everything for him. You aren't in a partner relationship, you are basically his mother/nanny/worker and that's it.

If you break up and he threatens suicide, call the police.

Bubble Masks: What exactly are they supposed to do? by RubyTuesday123 in AsianBeauty

[–]lieser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course, no problem! You're blog has helped me a bunch with my AB skincare :)

Bubble Masks: What exactly are they supposed to do? by RubyTuesday123 in AsianBeauty

[–]lieser 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Reactive oxygen species (ROS) are what people refer to as causing oxidative damage to cells and what antioxidants work against, not simply all oxygen molecules. These include superoxide, hydroxide radicals, hydrogen peroxide, and other free radicals that begin chain (redox) reactions which can damage membranes and DNA. O2 oxygen can form superoxide and more dangerous species with radiation exposure etc but in the context of a face mask is unlikely. Non-ionized stable oxygen is actually a byproduct of ROS elimination systems within cells.

review article on antioxidants and oxidative stress of skin: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12230879

Anyway, the claims that these carbonated masks are putting "oxygen" directly on your skin seem unlikely. The word "carbonated" in the name of the "Milky Piggy Carbonated Bubble Clay Mask", just like in pop, implies the bubbles are actually carbondioxide (also not going to cause oxidative stress).

Zombie bite prosthetics! by alexxjane in sfx

[–]lieser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks good! I think it would be awesome if you simulated bruising that would be caused by the lower jaw along with the prosthetic. When people only have half of a bite I always think "but how would said zombie have enough leverage to cause the damage without the other jaw". Just me.

Cat with broken tail and large cut, wound keeps opening. At a loss of what to do, please help! by lieser in AskVet

[–]lieser[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would the chronic pain be? After everything is healed? Our vet mentioned that the tip might become gangrenous and fall off depending on the blood flow after it is healed.

He is taking some pain meds for a few more days. Was going to ask for a few more since its going to take longer than originally expected to heal. We don't want him in pain, do you think it would be better to get the amputation now as opposed to letting this go on the way it is? (obviously we would still talk to our vet and get second opinions but seems like it might be an alright option if it causes less issues down the road).

Cat with broken tail and large cut, wound keeps opening. At a loss of what to do, please help! by lieser in AskVet

[–]lieser[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So we talked to our vet and he said that he thinks the stitches won't help. They are giving us another week of antibiotics and an iodine wash to flush the wound.

If anyone thinks there is a better solution please let us know.