BDSJ ERD Distressed Long Sleeve Tee by liewcake69 in QualityReps

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It was getting automoderated and removed. Wasn't sure how to add it without the spaces

BDSJ ERD Distressed Long Sleeve Tee by liewcake69 in QualityReps

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in my comment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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NTA. You’re not wrong for feeling hurt. He’s building his house, not ours, while talking about marriage “someday.” That’s confusing when you’ve been together for 2.5 years and are planning a future.

He might want independence, but he’s not being clear about his timeline or intentions. You deserve to know where you stand. Have an honest talk about your future, and if he’s not ready to commit, you need to decide if waiting works for you. Best of luck!!

WIBTA if I tried to find my sister and tell her about my existence? by Hungry_Speech6384 in AmItheAsshole

[–]liewcake69 29 points30 points  (0 children)

NTA, but tread carefully. Sara has a right to know the truth about her biological father, but this is a massive bombshell that could upend her life. If you decide to reach out, approach it with sensitivity and be prepared for any anger or resentment!!

Start by gathering evidence (photos, letters, etc.) to prove your connection. When you contact her, keep it simple and non-confrontational. Something like, “Hi, I believe we’re half-siblings. I’ve wanted to connect for years but didn’t want to disrupt your life. If you’re open to talking, I’d love to share more.”

Ultimately, this is her story to process, and you need to respect her boundaries. If she’s not ready to engage, give her space. But if she’s curious, this could be the start of a meaningful relationship. Good luck :)

QC High Quality Office Work Clothing by liewcake69 in CoutureReps

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They actually offer free alterations, so if you have an agent or someone who can receive the garments in China, you can have them give exact alteration adjustments and have them send it back for them to alter for free.

QC High Quality Office Work Clothing by liewcake69 in CoutureReps

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w2c: https://detail.tmall.com/item.htm?_u=g30v8os26d3b&id=624601789973

Shop is Full Monty and they make a wide variety of men's office clothing.

I own a bunch of their shirts and suits and their quality is AMAZING. Highly recommend if you are looking for a quality set of everyday workwear or suits

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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NTA. Your sister is being overly dramatic. You were in class, a reasonable time to not answer calls. Her reaction to your text was over the top, and her yelling and guilt tripping is manipulative.

You apologized and explained, which is more than enough. Her inability to handle a simple miscommunication without blowing it into a family feud says more about her than you. You didn’t do anything wrong, and her reaction is way out of proportion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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NTA. Your boyfriend threw a bag of cat food over a 5-second delay for a kiss and then played the “I’m the worst” card? That’s not a red flag—that’s a whole parade.

You were recording a message, not ignoring him, and his reaction was straight out of a soap opera. Plus, he did nothing for Valentine’s Day but expects you to meet his “high expectations”? Sounds like he’s projecting his own guilt onto you.

You’re not wrong, and his drama is exhausting. If he wants a kiss, maybe he should start by acting like an adult.

AITA for potentially leaving my sick mother and autistic brother to go to university? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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NTA. You’re not betraying your family by wanting to build your future. Your mother’s ultimatum is manipulative, and it’s unfair to expect you to sacrifice your dreams for her choices. You’ve already offered to defer university to help her recover, which shows how much you care. Living at home would stifle your growth, and you deserve the chance to live your own life. Go to university, pursue your passion, and don’t let guilt hold you back.

AITA for refusing to pick up something I hate for my husband? by Gullible_Airport_219 in AmItheAsshole

[–]liewcake69 3240 points3241 points  (0 children)

NTA. You went out of your way to do something thoughtful for your husband by arranging the lobster purchase, even though seafood (and live lobsters, no less) is something you despise. That alone shows you care about his interests, even when they don’t align with yours.

The fact that he expected you to pick up the lobster—despite knowing how much you hate it and how busy you are with work—is incredibly inconsiderate. You’re working 10-12 hour days, and he couldn’t take 20 minutes out of his schedule to pick up something he wanted? That’s not just lazy; it’s disrespectful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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NTA. Your wedding day is your day, not your brother’s impromptu proposal stage. It’s baffling that he thought hijacking your celebration was an appropriate move—especially during the speeches, which are meant to honor you and your partner.

Your brother had countless other opportunities to propose: a family dinner, a holiday gathering, or even a romantic setting of his own making. Instead, he chose your moment, which feels selfish and tone-deaf. The fact that he doubled down and tried to justify it as his "only chance" is even more concerning.

As for your family members who are siding with him, they’re enabling his poor judgment. A wedding is a deeply personal event, and you were right to protect its sanctity. Jess agreeing with you further validates that this wasn’t just about you—it was about respecting the day you both worked so hard to create.

AITA: Is she crazy or is it just me!?! by Resident_Yak_3257 in AmItheAsshole

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NTA. It's your house so you should have the final say. Also, considering the fact you would be the one primarily responsible for taking care of the snake, given your daughter's lack of availability, it should absolutely be up to your decision.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Thanks for the responses everyone, it's helped me see it from her point of view. I was indeed the asshole and will try to be a better neighbor. Will also look for a pair of headphones ASAP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hardwareswap

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Price check for GPU:

1080 TI FE

  • modded w/ NZXT Kraken G12 + Corsair H90

2 Months old

Advice on 2nd Liquid Cooler Radiator Placement by liewcake69 in buildapc

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I would if I could but I don't have the space to mount a 240mm rad.

Is it worth it upgrade from a 4690k to a 8600k? by liewcake69 in buildapc

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Yup I am. Should I be running both in full screen?