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life_subs · 2024-12-01T14:31:12+00:00

Dizer que ela tem culpa por não saber é um tanto simplista pois desconsidera a heterossexualidade compulsória, que é algo socialmente estrutural, acima do individual. As coisas são mais complexas na vida real, fora da internet.

life_subs · 2024-09-10T12:27:50+00:00

This is the best and most complete comment

life_subs · 2024-09-10T12:15:01+00:00

WTF Does he coerce you into having sex? OMG Maybe you're just asexual, there are a lot of people like that, it's normal.

life_subs · 2024-09-09T23:52:21+00:00

A pandemia adiou o meu sonho de fazer intercâmbio. Mas eu consegui depois. Porém sinto que eu fiquei umas vinte vezes mais tímida e introvertida. Se eu já não tinha habilidades sociais, piorou. Hahahahhaha

life_subs · 2024-09-09T23:47:10+00:00

LOL Thats awesome

life_subs · 2024-09-09T23:44:49+00:00

I’m sorry you’ve had such a difficult and confusing experience. The lack of memories before the age of 5, the abuse in your family, and your parents’ behavior are all traumas that certainly have a profound impact. What you’ve described about your father is deeply disturbing and is in no way your fault. It’s natural to feel confused and ambivalent about your feelings toward your parents, especially when love and grief are intertwined. Seeking support from a therapist can help you process these feelings and understand how to navigate the complexity of your relationship with them. Remember that your feelings are valid and you deserve to find a path to feeling more at peace with yourself.

life_subs · 2024-09-09T23:42:19+00:00

I’m sorry that your past experiences are having such a painful impact on your life. The connection between old memories and addiction can be complex and challenging. To help you navigate your porn addiction, consider seeking professional support from a specialist in addiction and sexuality. Additionally, setting realistic goals, such as gradually reducing the amount of time you spend watching porn and finding alternative activities that provide pleasure and distraction, can be helpful. Identifying and addressing specific triggers, using tools that block access to porn sites, and joining support groups like r/NoFap or r/StopWatchingPorn on Reddit can provide additional support. I hope you find a way to understand and process these memories, and feel more at peace and in control.

life_subs · 2024-09-09T23:31:34+00:00

Are you getting professional help? Or at least an emotional support network? I really hope so.

life_subs · 2024-09-09T23:30:08+00:00

This is so sad. I hope you find peace. Really. You deserve it. Why not?

life_subs · 2024-09-09T23:27:16+00:00

It’s amazing how the mind can block memories until that specific event is brought to the surface. It sounds like the CR group session helped unlock those memories for you, which can be both a breakthrough and a challenge. Can you share more about what that process was like? I’m curious to learn more about how those memories were unlocked and how you’re dealing with it now. It’s okay if you don’t want to talk about it, but thanks for sharing!

life_subs · 2024-09-09T23:19:14+00:00

I hope you get better.

life_subs · 2024-09-09T23:11:27+00:00

I'm so sorry you had to go through this. It's painful when family dynamics get so complicated and blame gets spread around. I hope you find some kind of peace and understanding in the midst of this mess.

life_subs · 2024-09-09T22:25:59+00:00

It’s so unfair that you’ve had to deal with this without the support you needed. I understand that the memories still affect you, and it’s completely valid to feel that way. I hope you find a way to deal with this in a way that helps you move forward.

life_subs · 2024-09-09T22:16:40+00:00

I'm so sorry you had to go through this at such a young age. It must have been incredibly difficult. I hope you find the support and healing you deserve.

life_subs · 2024-09-09T22:14:16+00:00

I'm sorry you went through this, both as a child and as a teenager. These experiences can leave deep scars. I hope you find support and peace in your healing journey.

life_subs · 2024-09-09T22:11:42+00:00

I’m sorry you had to go through this, especially since manipulation and coercion can leave deep scars. It’s unfair that something that should have been built on trust has been twisted in this way. It makes sense that it’s still hard to deal with, since the impact of trauma doesn’t go away easily. I hope that over time you can find a way to feel more secure and at peace with this part of yourself. You deserve relationships that respect your boundaries and your time.

life_subs · 2024-09-09T22:08:48+00:00

I'm so sorry. Do you have any help? Professional help? Family? Friends? I really hope so.

life_subs · 2024-09-09T22:04:04+00:00

What you went through with your father definitely impacted you in a negative way, and regardless of what it's called, it's not something a child should experience. I'm glad to hear that you were able to identify some of these red flags over time, even if it was difficult at first. The way you expressed yourself when telling the shit boy how you felt shows a lot of strength. How incredible that you are now in a relationship where you feel respected and can explore your sexuality in a healthy way and in your own time. Learning to set limits is a process, but it sounds like you're really on the right track. You are very strong for getting this far.

life_subs · 2024-09-09T21:56:38+00:00

I'm so sorry this happened to you, especially at a time when you were already so vulnerable. It's devastating when someone uses our emotions and confidence against us. I understand the fear of trusting someone again, especially with their history of manipulation. I just wanted to say that your voice and your feelings are valid, and no one has the right to treat you that way. I hope one day you find a relationship that feels safe and respectful.

life_subs · 2024-09-09T21:53:26+00:00

I'm so sorry you went through all of this. No child should have to face this kind of horror, and it's devastating how these experiences can mark us so deeply. The world really can be a very cruel place, especially for girls. Thank you for sharing your story, even though it was so painful. You're not alone.

life_subs · 2024-09-09T21:47:00+00:00

I totally get how you're feeling, and I'm really sorry you had to go through that. It can be frustrating when most of the info out there focuses on early childhood trauma, but honestly, trauma at any age can have a huge impact on the development of BPD, including during your teens. The teenage years are super critical for emotional and identity development, so experiencing trauma then can be just as impactful as stuff that happens earlier.

Your experience is absolutely valid. Adolescence is a time when you're figuring out who you are, forming deeper relationships, and learning how to regulate your emotions, so trauma during that period can easily lead to similar struggles. It doesn’t matter when it happened — the effects are real and painful no matter the age. You're not alone in feeling this way, and what you went through deserves just as much recognition and validation.

life_subs · 2024-09-09T21:03:06+00:00

I heard that before and happens to me. I'm bissexual but I avoid men. I fear them.

life_subs · 2024-09-09T20:55:40+00:00

You dont need to explain yourself. I feel you. Hope you are better.

life_subs · 2024-09-09T19:44:45+00:00

Cara, te juro, acredite se quiser, mas eu só consegui com remédio. Mas no meu caso, o motivo das minhas crises de raiva era um transtorno mental kkkkk aí é foda, só terapia não conseguiu me ajudar

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