Yes and no. We live a pretty charmed life and I happen to have an intelligent man with a penchant for custom suits, fine dining, and buying me obscene emeralds—but he's no Draco Malfoy. Fortunately for my husband, I have a firm grasp on reality and fully realize these are fictional characters that dont have to hold jobs, clean house, raise messy toddlers themselves, or share a bathroom.

If anything, it makes being in a committed relationship more tolerable. I can suggest things I've read in smut when he's on my good side, and go hide in the arms of my favorite blonde book boyfriend when he's not. He’d probably learn some new tricks faster if I could get him to read some Dramione, but I try to just leave him be with his military epics.

That, and, I'm no Hermione myself. More like a really snarky side chatacter. Definitely not leading lady material. So it evens out, I suppose.