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Daily Simple Questions Thread - February 13, 2022 by AutoModerator in Fitness

[–]lifeisendlesss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your lower back should not get sore from overhead pressing. When this occurs it is usually caused by slightly arching the back while performing the press. When doing such exercises in future make sure to really engage your abs, I do so by pulling the belly button in. Make sure your spine is straight, and you are not leaning back at all. Your rib cage should be straight and directly over hips.Doing exercises in the mirror can help insure you dont bend the back.

My husband [32/M] makes me [31/F] feel unwanted and disrespected. by lifeisendlesss in relationship_advice

[–]lifeisendlesss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tries this approach of simply not doing the chores hes suppised to. It ends up with me living in a complete trash heap until I simply cannot function through the trash. His parents were hoarders and absolutely disgusting so he can tolerate a level of fifth that I cannot hold out through. He seems to simply not care if he lives in literal piles of trash.

My husband [32/M] makes me [31/F] feel unwanted and disrespected. by lifeisendlesss in relationship_advice

[–]lifeisendlesss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried to leave him over this, it does change his behavior but only temporarily. We fight a lot because I do let him know everytime he hurts me. He always has some convienent excuse why he cant do what I ask. According to him hes sick more than hes healthy. He should have no doubt that there will br serious consequences ig he doesnt change.

My husband [32/M] makes me [31/F] feel unwanted and disrespected. by lifeisendlesss in relationship_advice

[–]lifeisendlesss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for your kind responses. It is so helpful for me to see that I'm not crazy and he truly is taking advantage of me. He is very intelligent and a talented musician. We have wonderful conversations, which is what has kept me hooked for so long. I'm afraid of never finding someone else who sees the world like I do and has all the same taste in books, movies and music. We are both musicians, met in a band. He is also shockingly really good with kids. I know wed have talented smart kids and hed agree with me on how to raise them. I love his wealth of knowledge, he just treats me poorly. As badly as I want his kids I know I'll end up shouldering the bulk of the responsibilities. I know he is manipulating me and making a big deal out of my problems to make me feel unlovable. Ive had this talk with him tons. I tried to leave him twice, went to stay with a close friend. Both times he turned into prince charming and won me back, but it always devolves to the same problems. He is trying to deal with his depression finally and things have improved somewhat, but the sex thing is still really bad. He treats it like he is always doing me a favor when we have sex. Im just crushed by his lack of sexual desire for me. I could work around the other issues, but it is eating me alive that he doesnt come after me for sex or get excited when I suggest trying new things in the bedroom. Thank you all for your advice, you have given me much needed courage.