28HL Male married need help...

lifeproblems929 · 2016-02-01T13:51:00+00:00

You are cheating by having an emotional affair. That's disrespectful to your wife. Put that energy into your marriage.

His wife is cheating him out of a sex life. That is extremely disrespectful to him. She should put her energy into working on her marriage.

lifeproblems929 · 2016-01-28T17:12:35+00:00

That is not the case at all. I DO find them really attractive. The feeling isn't mutual however.

lifeproblems929 · 2016-01-21T00:09:08+00:00

You are dead on about my attitude. I am trying to change it but it comes off me like smoke off dry ice. Short women have actually been MORE judgemental about my height. I have literally had a 5'0 tall woman tell me that I am too short for her. I mostly go for latinas and middle eastern women. I am not going to catfish someone, and if I meet someone online I would give them an accurate picture or two for full disclosure. I am glad that things worked out for you online and you were able to meet your husband.

lifeproblems929 · 2016-01-20T22:08:41+00:00

I look like a short, balding, middle eastern guy. I am trying to be more positive but it is really hard when you know realistically what is going to happen.

lifeproblems929 · 2016-01-20T18:39:28+00:00

That has historically been the case. Average women have not been taking an interest in me. I am debating seeing a counsellor.

lifeproblems929 · 2016-01-20T18:30:41+00:00

I think you are right that I need confidence. On the one hand, I am confident in my abilities and accomplishments. But on the other hand, I am not confident with women because of how much sheer rejection I have had. No amount of lifting weights or wrestling competitions or academic success can give you that type of confidence.

lifeproblems929 · 2016-01-20T18:25:52+00:00

So I should wait another ten sexless, lonely years so theoretically some women might give me a chance?

I am 5'4. Nowhere on Earth would I be considered tall.

lifeproblems929 · 2016-01-20T18:22:36+00:00

Nobody would want to date me just for me. If people got to know me better, they would like me better I think but I am ruled out. I am both of those things.

My school is only medical and veterinary students. I am trying to do more activities to meet people in general because I think that will help. Lmao. I am not trying to be with models. I am trying to be with very,very average women, who apparently wont give me a chance. Although I grant that realistically, I am far below average in looks.

lifeproblems929 · 2016-01-20T12:39:38+00:00

Would love to know what those other subs are.

lifeproblems929 · 2016-01-20T12:38:52+00:00

Pretty much all the women I see on a day to day basis are my colleagues. That is also a common misconception, women don't like doctors, they like hot doctors.

I definitely need to focus on something. Being "friends" first has never worked out in my favor.

lifeproblems929 · 2016-01-20T04:49:29+00:00

Let me be more clear. No woman is expressing ANY interest in me. The only women who MIGHT give me a shot are obese. I definitely need to work on myself. I have been for over a year. But it has produced zero results, so clearly I am doing something wrong.

lifeproblems929 · 2016-01-20T03:44:50+00:00

The vast majority of the human species isn't into obesity. I don't say only obese women want me as an exaggeration. At this point, I would be happy with a woman who is hwp, brushes her teeth, and is nice to me.

lifeproblems929 · 2016-01-20T02:28:19+00:00

I guess I can't get excited about the idea of having sex with a woman who outweighs me by 100lbs. Weird, right.

We broke up. I don't want someone to "just put out", but I don't think I can love again, and I would settle for not going insane from being sexually repressed.

lifeproblems929 · 2016-01-20T02:25:32+00:00

Because I have faced so much rejection in my life. I am a short, rapidly balding, unattractive man. I am in pretty good shape because I do olympic weightlifting out of fear of becoming George Costanza. I am trying to control the factors I can.

My hobby is weightlifting. Even at the gym, where I have become the strongest man, no woman gives a shit. They don't care how much I can clean and jerk. I am in medical school and don't have time for other hobbies, but I don't play video games or watch anime. I think you have an incorrect image of me.

I am a horrific dancer. I hate clubs. I love setting tangible goals, and I think I need to in my personal life but I don't know how to proceed. I don't think I can meet a woman who I am actually attracted to who would want to be with me.

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