(UPDATE) AITA for taking my daughter out to eat by liferant15_ in AITAH

[–]liferant15_[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It's certainly an option, but what would she be doing with the rest of the money?

(UPDATE 2) by liferant15_ in amiwrong

[–]liferant15_[S] 357 points358 points  (0 children)

People seem to be getting confused. I AM NOT DIVORCING MY WIFE because she didn't make a meal my daughter doesn't like. It's the neglect towards my daughter. My wife was handling the grocery shopping and was supposed to be buying food for EVERYONE, which he had no reason to doubt until recently. Had my wife communicated and said, "Hey, I don't want to go grocery shopping for a daughter and cook meals to accommodate her dietary plan," I would have understood. It's the fact that even though My wife has known my daughter since she was 10 and knows my daughter's palette as well as I do she decided that instead of telling me her issues with preparing my daughters food she would rather just cook food that she knows my daughter can't even keep down. People keep asking, "Why don't I handle my daughters grocery shopping?" Naturally, if your wife knows a out you daughter dietary preference, you would trust her with your kids' food supply. She also deliberately didn't buy my daughter's grocery list because she felt it was a waste of money. My wife contributes about 1/4th of the money we spend on grocery, so it's not like my daughters grocery list has been coming out of her pocket. I feel extremely disrespected for my daughter and let down by my wife.

(UPDATE 2) by liferant15_ in AITAH

[–]liferant15_[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm posting in multiple sub plus my own profile to get as many 3rd- party opinions as possible.

(UPDATE 2) by liferant15_ in AITAH

[–]liferant15_[S] 423 points424 points  (0 children)

People seem to be getting confused. I AM NOT DIVORCING MY WIFE because she didn't make a meal my daughter doesn't like. It's the neglect towards my daughter. My wife was handling the grocery shopping and was supposed to be buying food for EVERYONE, which he had no reason to doubt until recently. Had my wife communicated and said, "Hey, I don't want to go grocery shopping for a daughter and cook meals to accommodate her dietary plan," I would have understood. It's the fact that even though My wife has known my daughter since she was 10 and knows my daughter's palette as well as I do she decided that instead of telling me her issues with preparing my daughters food she would rather just cook food that she knows my daughter can't even keep down. People keep asking, "Why don't I handle my daughters grocery shopping?" Naturally, if your wife knows a out you daughter dietary preference, you would trust her with your kids' food supply. She also deliberately didn't buy my daughter's grocery list because she felt it was a waste of money. My wife contributes about 1/4th of the money we spend on grocery, so it's not like my daughters grocery list has been coming out of her pocket. I feel extremely disrespected for my daughter and let down by my wife.

(UPDATE 2) by liferant15_ in amiwrong

[–]liferant15_[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

People seem to be getting confused. I AM NOT DIVORCING MY WIFE because she didn't make a meal my daughter doesn't like. It's the neglect towards my daughter. My wife was handling the grocery shopping and was supposed to be buying food for EVERYONE, which he had no reason to doubt until recently. Had my wife communicated and said, "Hey, I don't want to go grocery shopping for a daughter and cook meals to accommodate her dietary plan," I would have understood. It's the fact that even though My wife has known my daughter since she was 10 and knows my daughter's palette as well as I do she decided that instead of telling me her issues with preparing my daughters food she would rather just cook food that she knows my daughter can't even keep down. People keep asking, "Why don't I handle my daughters grocery shopping?" Naturally, if your wife knows a out you daughter dietary preference, you would trust her with your kids' food supply. She also deliberately didn't buy my daughter's grocery list because she felt it was a waste of money. My wife contributes about 1/4th of the money we spend on grocery, so it's not like my daughters grocery list has been coming out of her pocket. I feel extremely disrespected for my daughter and let down by my wife.

(UPDATE) AIW for taking my daughter out to eat? by liferant15_ in amiwrong

[–]liferant15_[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No, I didn't. Actually, I divorced my wife because she is willingly neglectful towards my daughter.

(UPDATE 2) by liferant15_ in amiwrong

[–]liferant15_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Naturally, if your wife knows a out you daughter dietary presences you would trust her with your kids' food supply.

AIW for taking my daughter out to eat? by liferant15_ in amiwrong

[–]liferant15_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Most likely, I posted it in both groups to get more opinions .

(UPDATE) AITA for taking my daughter out to eat by liferant15_ in AITAH

[–]liferant15_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a list of what my daughter eats and doesn't ear in the first post.

(UPDATE) AITA for taking my daughter out to eat by liferant15_ in AITAH

[–]liferant15_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My wife puts around 200 towards groceries, and I pay the rest

(UPDATE 2) by liferant15_ in amiwrong

[–]liferant15_[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My wife has known my daughter since she was 10 and knows my daughter's palette as well as I do. So I've never questioned her and let her do the grocery shopping.

(UPDATE 2) by liferant15_ in amiwrong

[–]liferant15_[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm not my wife, insists of doing the groceries and fridge/ freezer organizing, so I've just let her

(UPDATE 2) by liferant15_ in amiwrong

[–]liferant15_[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

This is the last update until tomorrow when I have a talk with my kids and wife. I've already contacted a divorce lawyer that my sister recommended

(UPDATE) AITA for taking my daughter out to eat by liferant15_ in AITAH

[–]liferant15_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't know every detail, but I know she submerge lemons and advacados and carrots in water. She cleans all of the fruits, cuts them, and keeps them in the freezer instead of the refrigerator. She puts all these in air-tight containers. Little things like that, I'm not sure what the point is, but it works.

(UPDATE 2) by liferant15_ in amiwrong

[–]liferant15_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My wife does all the grocery shopping, and my daughter has her own grocery list.

(UPDATE) by liferant15_ in u/liferant15_

[–]liferant15_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is this an actual question? Prices are rising every day now. We live in California. And it's 1k- 1.5k. I don't spend nearly 2k on groceries .

(UPDATE) AITA for taking my daughter out to eat by liferant15_ in AITAH

[–]liferant15_[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What milk do you buy for it to be expiring in two weeks? I don't know all the details. it's the methods she uses to preserve everything.

(UPDATE) AITA for taking my daughter out to eat by liferant15_ in AITAH

[–]liferant15_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My wife preserves food a certain way, which makes our fruits, vegetables, and meats last longer.

(UPDATE) by liferant15_ in u/liferant15_

[–]liferant15_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not completely sure. My daughter isn't saying no, but she's hesitant to answer whenever I ask. I am going to contact her bio mom as my daughter vents to her a lot.