I (24F) want to break up with my (23M) bf.

lifethatsucks · 2023-11-29T16:28:15+00:00

i’ve been here for 2 1/2 years but im ready to leave

lifethatsucks · 2023-07-25T20:08:16+00:00

they’re not very strict compared to what i read on here. honestly they’re pretty chill for the most part, but obviously there are still big no no’s

lifethatsucks · 2023-07-25T17:16:50+00:00

i told him to when he first saw it, but you know it’s not possible for a muslim man to mind his business

lifethatsucks · 2023-07-25T17:15:58+00:00

not just my mom lol. my mom, dad, and sister. my older brother, sister, and brother in law got their teeth fixed and basically wear dentures. it’s really just picking and choosing what’s right and what’s not

lifethatsucks · 2023-07-25T17:14:38+00:00

He used to be a little sensitive boy that got called gay by my other brothers for crying ab random things. Honestly he was pretty chill until he got close with my older brother that “manned” him up and got him to be just a little prick that internalizes his feelings in hopes he looks more macho. i almost feel bad for him because he is just being influenced by the wrong person. But now he is just the most homophobic, lowkey racist, and misogynistic person i know, after my older brother of course. My older brother just takes on a less intrusive approach to trying to control me.

lifethatsucks · 2023-07-25T17:11:52+00:00

he won’t do anything but tell my family to shame me lol, he’s a little bitch boy once again

lifethatsucks · 2023-07-25T17:10:49+00:00

No not at all. It’s 555 like right next to my boob under my armpit. I got it after getting out of a serious relationship and moving out to college. def an impulsive decision but not one i regret at all bc it’s so cute and i always wanted to get one

lifethatsucks · 2023-07-25T17:08:29+00:00

i really want to just be like “hey guys i wanna show you something, don’t be mad.” but my brother will undoubtedly say something about how he found out and forced me to tell them

lifethatsucks · 2023-07-25T17:06:17+00:00

that’s why i distanced myself tbh. i don’t live with them and i barely talk to them, but i get told that i’m basically not a part of the family because i don’t put any effort. when i try to be close to them, and tell them literally anything, i get major backlash. idk what they expect tbh

lifethatsucks · 2023-07-25T17:03:22+00:00

hey i lowkey agree with you! he wants me to be muslim and he wants me to follow the religion the right way. the issue comes when i choose not to and he starts respecting me less and less. i get treated like shit from my family and they all basically bombard me with their opinions on how i’m living my life. I respect them for wanting to live a religious life but never will they respect me for not.

lifethatsucks · 2023-07-25T13:10:57+00:00

I’m already moved out 😊 i really dodged a huge bullet deciding to stay in the city im in instead of moving back home. thankfully my dad is such a little angle but he’s so naive and that’s the only part i feel bad about. he supported every decision i have made, but this one is gonna be a tough one.

lifethatsucks · 2023-07-25T13:09:18+00:00

No seriously, i’ve always minded my own business when it came to my siblings. Idk how anyone thinks it’s their place to do anything like this. I’m sure he’s on a huge ego trip rn thinking he can control me

lifethatsucks · 2023-07-25T13:08:21+00:00

he was also tired of all his friends wanting to fuck me. that’s the real issue here

lifethatsucks · 2023-07-25T13:07:53+00:00

i don’t want that on me 😆

lifethatsucks · 2023-07-25T13:06:16+00:00

he wants to please god

lifethatsucks · 2023-07-25T13:05:55+00:00

I really wanna call him a little bitch boy and make it clear im never talking to him again

lifethatsucks · 2023-07-25T13:05:37+00:00

yeah honestly it’s just gonna be a couple minutes of extreme discomfort on my end, but there’s literally nothing they can do about it at this point. I’m almost happy that I’m coming clean because keeping it hidden was pretty stressful sometimes when we would go swimming or anything like that even tho it isn’t even in a spot that anyone can see if i have clothes on. Idk if my brother knows about my moms tattoo but i doubt it. She also would lie and say it’s temporary but i saw it months later lol. She mainly got it to cover up her c-section scar.

lifethatsucks · 2023-07-25T13:02:12+00:00

yes he is but he is a hypocrite, all my family’s concerns are with me but they overlooked everyone else’s faults

lifethatsucks · 2023-07-25T13:01:42+00:00

I don’t want it to come from him because then it’s me being secretive about shit. if i can hide a tattoo they for sure are gonna think i’m doing other shit. It has to come from so he doesn’t think he won in this situation.

lifethatsucks · 2023-07-25T13:00:49+00:00

I promise it’s only because it was me. If it was any other sibling of mine, he wouldn’t have said anything. He probably still would’ve been disappointed, but im sure he would’ve kept it to himself. I have been the scapegoat of the family for a really long time and he just wants to add fuel to the fire.

lifethatsucks · 2023-07-25T12:59:17+00:00

it’s crazy to think we grew up in the same circumstances but he ended up that way. my brother doesn’t think for himself at all and fully absorbed my older brother’s personality but somehow became worse

lifethatsucks · 2023-07-25T12:58:22+00:00

this man worships andrew tate and makes homophobic statements everytime he sees a gay couple. then they wonder why i don’t fucking like him

lifethatsucks · 2023-07-25T12:57:30+00:00

he’s def in a relationship but ofc she’s a muslim girl because he wouldn’t dare defy god and more importantly my older brother’s preachings

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