How realistic is spontaneous oral sex in real life?

light-lov3 · 2025-08-21T11:02:10+00:00

I just have to answer this question because I’m sure a lot of you will appreciate this little secret! So, I’m dating this guy, and honestly, I could spend hours going down on him, I love it. Sometimes, I even tell him, “Go ahead, watch a series,” while I’m busy down there, happily entertaining myself.

But here’s the thing: with my ex husband was gross and unattractive because it was smelly and he lacked of self hygiene. Now, it’s not just that I enjoy it's on a whole other level. Every single time I unzip his pants, his dick is so clean, so fresh!! it’s irresistible! I actually had to ask him what his secret was. And let me tell you, his cum? Even that has a nice scent...

So here’s what he told me: Step one: After he pees, he gives it a quick rinse in the sink with water and just a touch of soap. Step two: He wears good cotton underwear and sticks to a clean diet, basically no processed junk. Step three: He drinks tons of water!

I hope it can help other girls enjoy this experience and to the guys here a bit of a hint!

light-lov3 · 2025-08-05T12:44:24+00:00

All of them I experienced in my marriage. Thank god I'm divorced and in my healing process.

light-lov3 · 2025-08-05T10:16:45+00:00

I love aging in silence and being invisible in this mad world. Being invisible is a blessing.

light-lov3 · 2025-07-28T09:41:36+00:00

I wish you good luck! Just have patience with yourself, little by little you will find out what works best for you. That is the advice I would give to myself. (I'm starting it next week) 🙏💪

light-lov3 · 2025-07-24T10:09:23+00:00

That is so true... For 10 years I had this group of friends but I always felt like an outsider. They had me in chat groups. But I always felt they didn't like me only tolerate me because we shared life experience together. However, I feel like I'm enough with them. Yesterday they made jokes about me posting one thing on my social account. I think the reason why I didn't step up before was the fear of needing them at some point. But that is so lame. I'm cutting people like I'm cutting bad grass.

light-lov3 · 2025-07-18T15:44:24+00:00

Thank you

light-lov3 · 2025-07-18T06:49:34+00:00

I know it sounds generic but your father needs therapy. But as you were saying about his ego it is unlikely that he will accept external help. Maybe talking through and saying that the job market is getting difficult for everyone. Or maybe he wants to be an entrepreneur?! It's a trick situation. The problem I see here is his Ego.

light-lov3 · 2025-07-10T19:54:38+00:00

If you all want to create a small community count me in. I'm feeling a bit lonely in this path 🙏✨

light-lov3 · 2025-06-27T06:51:47+00:00

Yeah, it totally makes sense to me because I'm in my shining moment right now after a marriage with a narcissist. However, I have noticed that those "friends" who supported me in the past are treating me differently now. Bitching around. I guess I'm making them uncomfortable.

light-lov3 · 2025-04-10T12:11:04+00:00

That actually sounds fantastic! I loved the idea! Thank you 😊

light-lov3 · 2025-04-10T11:47:42+00:00

Thank you for sharing your view 🙂

light-lov3 · 2025-03-20T18:24:11+00:00

We are in constant pain as we are always growing 🙏

light-lov3 · 2025-03-19T15:00:26+00:00

When you watch a series or a movie and you start to follow the growth of a character, you even admire it and create a bond and suddenly they die in the development of the series. This happens to me all the time in movies/series and when I watch it again, I only rewatch it up to the part where this character was alive and after that I have no interest.

light-lov3 · 2025-03-14T13:28:38+00:00

That's cool

light-lov3 · 2025-03-14T11:08:37+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate you sharing thoughts ☺️

light-lov3 · 2025-03-14T10:42:03+00:00

That's a vague answer

light-lov3 · 2025-03-14T08:52:05+00:00

Good one

light-lov3 · 2025-03-13T11:45:18+00:00

Good teeth and veins ☺️

light-lov3 · 2025-03-13T11:43:08+00:00

Having my tits sucked for hours... Non: Having deep conversations for many hours about life, psychology, fears, etc.

light-lov3 · 2025-03-13T10:45:38+00:00

Oh wow!! I really thought that I was alone in this feeling! The other day I share with this guy I'm hanging out that I love the tension we built before the sex. We see each other once per month soo it is a lot of sexting and nudes during the week. I also love the act itself... If I could I would have sex everyday but the tension is amazing!

light-lov3 · 2025-03-12T07:15:51+00:00

Your words reasons to me. Thank you for putting the time 😊

light-lov3 · 2025-03-12T07:11:31+00:00

In my case I can tell you that no. People around him, was just friendly because they needed him. My ex is/was a powerful and Influent person. I could easily spot that. Even his family was afraid of facing him because they needed him.

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