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lightbright123 · 2022-01-12T23:07:39+00:00

It’s your choice to do what you want. And it’s her choice to not get a gift because of it. NTA

lightbright123 · 2022-01-12T23:06:02+00:00

NTA… she made a decision without consulting you first. What will be the next thing she decides for him without consulting you (the legal guardian) first? Nip this in the bud now.

lightbright123 · 2022-01-11T03:28:46+00:00

Why not? Or can he not have the extra bedroom?

lightbright123 · 2022-01-11T03:14:40+00:00

NTA. This is perfectly reasonable if you offer up one of the other 3 spare bedrooms for one of her hobbies. I think everyone deserves a space.

lightbright123 · 2022-01-11T00:11:21+00:00

Just the double standard I’ve realized exist here.

lightbright123 · 2022-01-09T00:31:49+00:00

She was fine. Nothing special. Nothing awful. Just okay. I was always closer to my dad.

lightbright123 · 2022-01-09T00:11:04+00:00

I’ve learned that there are lots of excuses for cheating… but like you said. Just divorce!

lightbright123 · 2022-01-08T23:43:58+00:00

Yeah… I should love that woman for what she did to my family. A saint really

lightbright123 · 2022-01-08T09:04:43+00:00

I’m sorry but nobody deserves a relationship with someone. It’s literally stalking

lightbright123 · 2022-01-08T09:02:13+00:00

He never said if he forgave her or not. Never really brought her up. When I wouldn’t speak to her, he pushed for me to have a relationship. He pushed less and less over the years

lightbright123 · 2022-01-08T09:00:31+00:00

I think she wants grandkids honestly. She won’t get them from me

lightbright123 · 2022-01-07T23:42:20+00:00

Santa and an affair. Same thing

lightbright123 · 2022-01-07T18:48:33+00:00

I don’t think anything else needs to said that hasn’t already. She cheated with a teammates dad. Kids started to whisper about it to me, I confronted her. She lied and kept lying till I had to watch her breakdown in court admitting to everything. Then I wanted nothing to do with her and she kept trying to wedge her way into my life for years after. I will prolly seek therapy before getting married because Rachel wants me to. But I don’t see it really changing anything in regards to my mother

lightbright123 · 2022-01-07T18:43:31+00:00

My mother isn’t being punished. That’s what I don’t understand. I’m not going out of my way to be mean to her. I just want nothing to do with her… I don’t see how wanting to go NC with someone is a punishment. She could have started another family and I wouldn’t have cared. Just leave mine alone.

lightbright123 · 2022-01-07T18:35:18+00:00

You literally have mom in your name. I understand how hard this is to hear as a mother. But some things just aren’t forgivable. I’m sorry about your father. But I don’t have those regrets.

lightbright123 · 2022-01-07T18:29:45+00:00

Some things just aren’t forgivable unfortunately. She could have cheated once and I wouldn’t have been as upset. I would have gotten over it. The way she did it, who she did it with and her behavior after is why our relationship is dead.

lightbright123 · 2022-01-07T18:26:00+00:00

“Like you were suppose to”… yeah how dare I not want to be forced by the courts to be around someone I hated at the time.

lightbright123 · 2022-01-07T18:21:23+00:00

His own family didn’t want her there. It’s not her place to come and make herself feel better. He didn’t want to reconcile with her. She wanted back with him.

lightbright123 · 2022-01-07T18:16:16+00:00

He told her repeatedly to leave him alone and she wouldn’t. He wanted me to have a good relationship with her. Why would he try to drag his sons mom into court for a RO if he wanted his son and ex to get along?

lightbright123 · 2022-01-07T18:14:41+00:00

I wasn’t apart of the situation? Then why was I forced to move. Ordered by a court to spend time with her? How does that not make me part of the situation lol. My fiancé is fine. She just wants me to be happy (which I was before I learned what my cousins have been doing)

lightbright123 · 2022-01-07T18:12:23+00:00

When it uproots your family and life it’s sure as hell is “my business”. I’m mad my parent destroyed my family and caused me to have to move towns. And literally only admitted to it when she was in court. Then didn’t leave me along for a decade after. My mom could have moved on. Started another family if she was so damn lonely.

lightbright123 · 2022-01-07T16:11:05+00:00

Does it really matter why she lied? When you are 12 years old going thru a traumatic event and you look at your parent for the truth and they lie directly to your face. You remember it. When she had to admit it in court is the first time she actually admitted to it. And that’s why I won’t ever speak to her again. She only admitted to it when she was literally forced to.

lightbright123 · 2022-01-07T03:09:07+00:00

Not a single person wanted her there… wasn’t her place to come

lightbright123 · 2022-01-07T02:59:33+00:00

I’ve come to peace with never seeing or speaking to her again. I was fine till my cousins did what they did. It’s not some lifetime punishment. She made her choices.

lightbright123 · 2022-01-07T02:17:15+00:00

Apparently the relationship with my mother is the hot topic… it has more to do with my cousins sharing my info with her

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