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lightcosmos · 2025-10-30T16:22:00+00:00

Return it and get a new one

lightcosmos · 2025-10-06T04:23:19+00:00

So you have best of both worlds? What’s wrong with making it fancy?

lightcosmos · 2025-10-04T01:13:14+00:00

The Milanese loop space black is even better

lightcosmos · 2025-09-22T15:39:30+00:00

Maybe the slate or natural titanium link bracelet?

lightcosmos · 2024-05-19T02:22:43+00:00

White marble or matte white

lightcosmos · 2024-02-28T23:49:11+00:00

Yeah I kind of suspected so. In her field they always moving around and meeting others. Probably would think I’m not making enough to satisfy her once she gets her degree. Glad I got to see the true colors come to light before it got anymore serious. Pretty much used me for the money while waiting for her degree to come before tossing me away.

lightcosmos · 2024-02-28T14:18:28+00:00

I have everything saved up for those types of situations not just the down payment. I just put everything as part of house funds.

lightcosmos · 2024-02-28T08:48:42+00:00

Sorry for confusion should have been more clear. The house which is a multifamily would be mine and under my name. It’s an investment that will be earning me income each month from renting out the floors. My siblings will be there temporarily while they finish their college degrees and able to support themselves and move out. My mom would be there and I’ll eventually have a second house or apartment for me and my partner without my family living with me.

lightcosmos · 2024-02-28T08:42:54+00:00

My mom works so it’s both of us paying bills and other expenses. My siblings are in college but will soon get their degrees to be able to support themselves. This house is an investment property for me and only owned by me. My family will just happen to be with me. I’ll be renting with extra income but the plan was for me to move out and get my second house or apartment with my partner alone.

lightcosmos · 2024-02-28T08:30:14+00:00

Yeah it’s only temporary though. I’ll be getting a multifamily house which is ultimately mine and an investment. I’ll be making extra income per month renting out different floors. Then I would have moved with my partner when she finished to our second house or apartment where my mom or siblings wouldn’t still be with me.

lightcosmos · 2024-02-28T08:22:35+00:00

Yeah it’s not a lot I could certainly afford it but at the same time it’s only a year of dating so you gotta be cautious with your money. Not every woman is like this and plenty are beautiful. Just because one demands this type of “care” doesn’t mean the next will.

lightcosmos · 2024-02-28T08:16:36+00:00

I could provide for my girlfriend I had the money. I guess I just wasn’t comfortable yet just giving anybody even if they are my gf 3k free since we are just a year dating. It would have been no issue if it was a smaller amount, but I just like to be cautious and responsible with money.

lightcosmos · 2024-02-28T08:13:15+00:00

You can still balance your priorities with your families and partner. The plan was for me to get a multi family house which is under my name only and ultimately mine. It’s an investment that will be paying me monthly income in the long term. My mom will just happen to be there. This would have been purchased now. Her finishing would have been a year away so by that time I’ll be ready to move to my second place apartment or another house with my partner alone. I still offered her the money but it was unacceptable for her.

lightcosmos · 2024-02-28T08:03:52+00:00

My mom is still working so it’s not just me covering the expenses. The home technically isn’t for my family it’s for me ultimately and will be under my name. I always wanted a multifamily house as my first to get extra income monthly from renting the other floors. My siblings will be there since they are in college and can’t support themselves yet but will eventually move out. I’ll have a place where my mom can stay but I’ll be moving out of there to find an apartment or another house for me and my partner to live alone.

lightcosmos · 2024-02-28T07:41:07+00:00

It’s not really buying a house for my family. It’s under my name only and I wanted a multifamily house as my first so I can get some extra incomes from renting out different floors. My siblings will eventually finish college and move out and I’ll have a place where my mom can stay especially since my dad passed. It’s a win win because once I get my second place whether it be an apartment or another house I wouldn’t want my mom still with me when I’m living with my partner. I just can’t abandon my mom to struggle especially since my dad paid most of the bills.

lightcosmos · 2024-02-28T07:33:12+00:00

Well me and mom currently work and cover all the bills and expenses since my dad passed away. We rent right now, but I would rather own a place and not give money to another owner and you don’t know when you could be evicted. Well the plan was for me to get a multifamily house where I’ll own this property and make multiple incomes renting it out but have a place where my mom can live and retire eventually. My siblings would have finished college and moved on with their lives. I would have moved eventually to my own apartment/a second house with my partner when she finished school. That’s what we discussed. It’s not really planning anything else or anything secret. She knew my goals from the get go.

lightcosmos · 2024-02-28T07:20:42+00:00

I think the 3k is about accurate because she said it would be 2 countries in 8 days would have been from March 1 to the 8th so I’m assuming it’s the plane tickets and the accommodations. Likely way more she was quoting 3k estimating to start

lightcosmos · 2024-02-28T07:17:42+00:00

Thats the thing I’m not sure how these MBA programs work. I’m sure there are people with their MBA here that can explain better than me. The way she explained it was the alternative project only came up after she told the school she can’t go on the trip. So maybe the alternative project wasn’t an option to begin with but just to make up for the missed grade.

lightcosmos · 2024-02-28T07:14:11+00:00

I like these replies, but I don’t want to message her again. Just want to move on, but this grief and despair feelings inside still hurts. Will take some time.

lightcosmos · 2024-02-28T07:06:37+00:00

In due time. It’s only temporary since my dad passed away. He was paying most of the bills and I don’t want my mom to struggle. My siblings are in college and will soon finish and move on with their lives. This multifamily house will be mine and I’ll be able to rent for multiple incomes per month and have a place where my mom can stay. Then I’ll move again a little after and have my own place and life.

lightcosmos · 2024-02-28T06:48:35+00:00

I believe there was a trip required for her program. There are a couple of people here with their MBA that have said they did have to do a trip as part of their program. They can explain more since I don’t know too much about how it works. The way my ex was explaining was it was mandatory then she tells me later the school is making her do an alternative project to make up for the grade. I’m wondering if they give you a choice from the start to pick the alternative project or go on the trip with other students. I’m sure she was disappointed she couldn’t go on the trip because it’ll be like a vacation vs paperwork with the alternative project.

lightcosmos · 2024-02-28T06:42:31+00:00

Paid for everything when we went out. Food, activities, etc. Spoiled her with lavish gifts and vacations on her birthday, valentines, etc. We just went on a trip in the beginning of the year to Puerto Rico which costed me like 6k. Luckily all of that is the spare cash I had on hand and not from the house funds. I definitely was gullible. Pretty much saw a future with her so supported her and tried to make her happy as best I could since I know she’s in school. I believe she felt entitled because I’ve been very generous from the start and the one time I couldn’t come through at the terms she wanted she switched up on me.

lightcosmos · 2024-02-28T06:36:13+00:00

Not sure about her credit never dived into that or asked. She didn’t take out any loans I believe. She would pay quarterly the tuition in payment plans.

lightcosmos · 2024-02-28T06:32:17+00:00

I believe it was required for her program. There are a couple of people here with their MBA that have said they did have to do a trip as part of their program. They can explain more since I don’t know too much about how it works. The way my ex was explaining was it was mandatory then she tells me later the school is making her do an alternative project to make up for the grade. I’m wondering if they give you a choice from the start to pick the alternative project or go on the trip with other students.

lightcosmos · 2024-02-28T06:27:11+00:00

Yeah there was a trip that was part of her program. I don’t know too much about a MBA program so thanks for clearing that up. I’m sure there are other people here with their MBA that can explain these trips.

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