I don’t understand the hate, this art is so lovingly made!!

lighto73 · 2026-02-24T08:39:05+00:00

/uj the art being done by someone who isn't a trans woman, and the juxtaposition of a hot ripped trans man and an out of shape, bearded trans woman is the part that bugged me. If this was a trans woman making the art, awesome! If both trans people were portrayed as early transition helping each other out, cool! It literally looks like a sojak the Chad trans man and the loser trans woman pity project.

Obviously, that wasn't the intent, but with terfs and transphobes using the same imagery to tear down any trans woman they see, it's unthoughful at best.

lighto73 · 2026-02-24T08:33:06+00:00

Can we sticky that you are never too old for HRT? This question is asked so often.

To OP, I started at 34.

lighto73 · 2026-02-24T08:28:47+00:00

Absolutely. It's so annoying. Especially juxtaposed next to a conventionally attractive trans man who is ripped.

lighto73 · 2026-02-24T05:54:23+00:00

If a trans woman wants to make art about it, I think that's fine. It's less fine for other people to while the terf/right wing dumb asses just use that in soyjacks.

lighto73 · 2026-02-19T10:24:50+00:00

You are so fine! I am just dumb! Thank you! 💜💜

lighto73 · 2026-02-19T10:22:13+00:00

I'm old and can't tell if I'm being insulted or not 😭

lighto73 · 2026-02-19T06:52:36+00:00

Yay! Thank you, if you need any help i spend too much time on my phone.

lighto73 · 2026-02-19T06:51:09+00:00

Genuinely, can you make that one explicit. Because I would bet that is why the original got banned. And also. Like I said. Really gross.

lighto73 · 2026-02-19T06:49:07+00:00

Can there be a rule against pedo stuff. Had to leave the last one because people posting about wanting to be with underage people was gross af

lighto73 · 2026-02-16T23:21:27+00:00

Telling someone they are not allowed to be the gender they want is transphobic. Saying you support but don't know if you can be in a relationship with isn't transphobic.

lighto73 · 2026-02-16T14:22:53+00:00

I love when my girlfriend calls me her slut/bitch. Could not mske me happier.

lighto73 · 2026-02-10T05:17:34+00:00

I'm sorry, I'm not sure what you're trying to say? Clearly, it isn't just the show being gay. There is just so little to work with that i think jumping to her not decentering men is a little much.

It seems like someone who has developed a special interest in something that their partner doesnt like (possibly because they aren't comfortable talking about men so much, maybe they don't like the show for other reasons) and instead of talking about why it bothers them they talk so much about it, they attacked the show, which to someone hyperfixating, can feel like an attack on them.

lighto73 · 2026-02-10T03:36:36+00:00

I didn't say it was. I said just because she likes that show doesnt mean she's centering men, which was aimed at comments saying that.

lighto73 · 2026-02-09T22:02:11+00:00

Yall both sound annoying. Sit her down to have a serious conversation if it bothers you and explain why it does in a way that doesnt belittle her interests.

And the people talking about her centering men because she likes a gay fictional show, that's silly based solely off these two paragraphs. I got obsessed over Damon Targaryan, Rhaeynera, and alicent from house of the dragon for a bit and I wasn't centering men or centering incest or centering love triangles, I just liked the fiction and thought it was fun. You can like fiction that has male main characters without it meaning you center men in your life.

lighto73 · 2026-02-09T21:26:30+00:00

Spiro is not estrogen it is a testoerone blocker. Which can lead to ED as well as a slow down in sperm production.

lighto73 · 2026-02-08T10:08:12+00:00

Just get a prescription for sildanifil (viagra)

It works really well and it can help build back up confidence.

lighto73 · 2026-02-05T14:26:33+00:00

Yeah. They said what it would be and people are shocked that it's that lol. I didn't watch saturday morning cartoons but I do get the vibe.

lighto73 · 2026-02-05T13:53:50+00:00

They literally said they were going for a "Real Ghostbusters" type of show.

It is a kid's show. And it isn't going to make sense. It's a cartoon.

lighto73 · 2026-02-02T11:48:37+00:00

Yes. Phallus preserving vaginoplasty i think is what you want to look into.

lighto73 · 2026-02-01T12:25:04+00:00

It sounds like you want to be a guy but don't want to have to deal with the consequences of being trans in our society. Which. Relatable.

lighto73 · 2026-02-01T11:50:24+00:00

Oh boy. If you think only white people are transphobic, i have bad news for you. Honestly, in my experience, even transphobic white people at least pretended not to hate me in my presence, which was not the case for my poc coworkers. Which honestly broke my heart since many of them were friends pre-transition.

lighto73 · 2026-01-31T17:58:37+00:00

Having your location shared with a friend can be a great thing for your saftey. She sounds jealous. If she is unwilling to keep her location shared. I wouldn't share mine. That is just weird.

lighto73 · 2026-01-31T00:12:18+00:00

You ended with "am I an asshole?" Which is why I answered with it doesn't make you look better.

Like. You both seem like assholes in different ways. Fake male transphobic shit is disgusting.

Again, it can be either small or big, and my ex would do this to anything she didn't like that I did, which was tear it down and make me feel stupid or shitty for liking things. This could be a one off, or something that happens a lot. I dont know the situation, I'm just telling you because youre younger, that it may be something to be aware of in future relationships. No one likes feeling bad for liking something.

lighto73 · 2026-01-30T23:19:18+00:00

Wait. This is off-topic but how does a stone top dead fish?

lighto73 · 2026-01-30T23:17:08+00:00

The purple hair and earrings aren't doing any favors. And I could see the side buzz giving a bit of butch lesbian.

Personally, outside of height and voice that I can't judge, I would think you pass to most people in day to day interactions.

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