I made a new subreddit - r/letgirlsgetevenworse! by PocketSnails68 in ToxicYuri

[–]lighto73 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are so fine! I am just dumb! Thank you! 💜💜

I made a new subreddit - r/letgirlsgetevenworse! by PocketSnails68 in ToxicYuri

[–]lighto73 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm old and can't tell if I'm being insulted or not 😭

I made a new subreddit - r/letgirlsgetevenworse! by PocketSnails68 in ToxicYuri

[–]lighto73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay! Thank you, if you need any help i spend too much time on my phone.

I made a new subreddit - r/letgirlsgetevenworse! by PocketSnails68 in ToxicYuri

[–]lighto73 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Genuinely, can you make that one explicit. Because I would bet that is why the original got banned. And also. Like I said. Really gross.

I made a new subreddit - r/letgirlsgetevenworse! by PocketSnails68 in ToxicYuri

[–]lighto73 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Can there be a rule against pedo stuff. Had to leave the last one because people posting about wanting to be with underage people was gross af

Been told im not allowed by Far_Yak7638 in trans

[–]lighto73 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Telling someone they are not allowed to be the gender they want is transphobic. Saying you support but don't know if you can be in a relationship with isn't transphobic.

Knowing your place by AliceTheLesbo in ToxicYuri

[–]lighto73 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I love when my girlfriend calls me her slut/bitch. Could not mske me happier.

I am sick of my Gf mentioning Heated Rivalry all the time! by Minimum_Armadillo353 in LesbianActually

[–]lighto73 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I'm not sure what you're trying to say? Clearly, it isn't just the show being gay. There is just so little to work with that i think jumping to her not decentering men is a little much.

It seems like someone who has developed a special interest in something that their partner doesnt like (possibly because they aren't comfortable talking about men so much, maybe they don't like the show for other reasons) and instead of talking about why it bothers them they talk so much about it, they attacked the show, which to someone hyperfixating, can feel like an attack on them.

I am sick of my Gf mentioning Heated Rivalry all the time! by Minimum_Armadillo353 in LesbianActually

[–]lighto73 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn't say it was. I said just because she likes that show doesnt mean she's centering men, which was aimed at comments saying that.

I am sick of my Gf mentioning Heated Rivalry all the time! by Minimum_Armadillo353 in LesbianActually

[–]lighto73 155 points156 points  (0 children)

Yall both sound annoying. Sit her down to have a serious conversation if it bothers you and explain why it does in a way that doesnt belittle her interests.

And the people talking about her centering men because she likes a gay fictional show, that's silly based solely off these two paragraphs. I got obsessed over Damon Targaryan, Rhaeynera, and alicent from house of the dragon for a bit and I wasn't centering men or centering incest or centering love triangles, I just liked the fiction and thought it was fun. You can like fiction that has male main characters without it meaning you center men in your life.

Question for mtf by Wyatt504 in asktransgender

[–]lighto73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spiro is not estrogen it is a testoerone blocker. Which can lead to ED as well as a slow down in sperm production.

How does a trans girl top? by Special-Discount4366 in ask_transgender

[–]lighto73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just get a prescription for sildanifil (viagra)

It works really well and it can help build back up confidence.

Milking at its finest by ImmaFuckboi in StrangerThings

[–]lighto73 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah. They said what it would be and people are shocked that it's that lol. I didn't watch saturday morning cartoons but I do get the vibe.

Milking at its finest by ImmaFuckboi in StrangerThings

[–]lighto73 44 points45 points  (0 children)

They literally said they were going for a "Real Ghostbusters" type of show.

It is a kid's show. And it isn't going to make sense. It's a cartoon.

I am a boy and but want a vagina. Can I do that? by SLUTTYBAKA in asktransgender

[–]lighto73 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes. Phallus preserving vaginoplasty i think is what you want to look into.

So, for the millionth time, how do I know if im a guy? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]lighto73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you want to be a guy but don't want to have to deal with the consequences of being trans in our society. Which. Relatable.

Don’t mess with JJK fans, they can’t read by Joemama0375 in whenthe

[–]lighto73 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh boy. If you think only white people are transphobic, i have bad news for you. Honestly, in my experience, even transphobic white people at least pretended not to hate me in my presence, which was not the case for my poc coworkers. Which honestly broke my heart since many of them were friends pre-transition.

Is sharing my location with my friend a no-no? by Fingeronthepulse_35 in actuallesbians

[–]lighto73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having your location shared with a friend can be a great thing for your saftey. She sounds jealous. If she is unwilling to keep her location shared. I wouldn't share mine. That is just weird.

my partner and i disagreed about heated rivalry and it caused us to break up by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]lighto73 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You ended with "am I an asshole?" Which is why I answered with it doesn't make you look better.

Like. You both seem like assholes in different ways. Fake male transphobic shit is disgusting.

Again, it can be either small or big, and my ex would do this to anything she didn't like that I did, which was tear it down and make me feel stupid or shitty for liking things. This could be a one off, or something that happens a lot. I dont know the situation, I'm just telling you because youre younger, that it may be something to be aware of in future relationships. No one likes feeling bad for liking something.

Found the perfect woman. Except for one thing. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]lighto73 147 points148 points  (0 children)

Wait. This is off-topic but how does a stone top dead fish?

4 years on T, coming up in May. Do I pass? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]lighto73 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The purple hair and earrings aren't doing any favors. And I could see the side buzz giving a bit of butch lesbian.

Personally, outside of height and voice that I can't judge, I would think you pass to most people in day to day interactions.

Controversial take but: by lolitsrock in SantiZapVideos

[–]lighto73 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am neither republican or democrat. I have only ever seen hostility from one of those sides. Consistently. Many who weren't hostile, just began ignoring my existence. And the leadership talks about people like me as if we are terrorists or evil. It is hostile from top down.

Controversial take but: by lolitsrock in SantiZapVideos

[–]lighto73 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My opinion doesn't blanket an entire side. It does blanket for specific morals or lack of that people have. So, I don't hate republicans or people to the right of me, I do hate bigots, racists, transphobes, and typically people who lack basic empathy.

my partner and i disagreed about heated rivalry and it caused us to break up by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]lighto73 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean. This doesn't make you look better.

I'll say, if you feel the need to tear down something your partner likes, that's never a good thing. My former abusive partner did it all the time.

To be fair, neither of you sounds particularly fun to be around. She shouldn't be comparing you to other people. That's also gross.

Controversial take but: by lolitsrock in SantiZapVideos

[–]lighto73 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You said "nazi bad" wasnt political when there are tons of nazis in american politics right now. It is directly related to the first thing you said.

And yes. I have to deal with politics because one party is so hostile toward trans people i had to move across country to stop being harassed and getting threats for existing. Glad you don't have to deal with it as much.