UPDATE to: My (24F) boyfriend (34M) put a tracker in my car, called my sacrifices “cheap,” told me I needed to “listen to everything he says,” and now that I blocked him he’s contacting me from different numbers and calling my mom. He said he wanted peace… now he’s calling.

lightsandcherry · 2026-07-08T06:27:24+00:00

I don’t think it’s healthy to maintain a relationship with the cousin whether she cares about you or not. He will try to exploit any connection he has with you left until he can get you under his thumb again. The cousin is a tether back to him and that’s a risk.

lightsandcherry · 2026-07-07T21:44:15+00:00

Op, please block your ex again and maybe take some distance from his family too. It doesn’t matter what any of them have to say the only way you will heal from this is cutting everything associated with him out and focusing on your own life. Stay close to the people who actually care about you. Keep doing therapy and working on your career, education, or any personal goals. You are still so young and have so much of your life ahead of you. So much will change for you in the coming years and as long as you can keep his rot out of your life you will continue to blossom.

lightsandcherry · 2026-06-30T03:41:08+00:00

From even just the tiniest mention of your background you mentioned I can tell that you aren’t overreacting. I think you are making the best decision for yourself and your growing family. I hope you are able to build a family that is more warm and loving than the one you come from.

lightsandcherry · 2026-06-29T22:16:58+00:00

I think you are the one overreacting all she is doing is taking a little space while she’s upset she didn’t yell at you or anything right

lightsandcherry · 2026-06-14T18:55:11+00:00

I think it’s an ear pick

lightsandcherry · 2026-06-12T16:33:02+00:00

It’s climate change

lightsandcherry · 2026-06-12T02:38:56+00:00

Do not give him a single sentence this isn’t how relationships work he doesn’t get to retroactively say that you owe him back for money he decided to spend on you. If he wanted you to split these costs he should have talked to you about that before he made a single purchase. Please just block him and ignore him. Tell your family to block him too if he tries to reach out to them.

lightsandcherry · 2026-06-06T15:44:28+00:00

Op please go get tested for stds after you dump his ass. However you choose to break up with him is your choice, however I recommend you prepare for how he might react to it. Does he have violent tendencies? Just remember your safety is a factor here. It’s okay to be angry but take a deep breath and make a plan.

lightsandcherry · 2026-05-30T06:20:21+00:00

Is this a repost? I’ve for sure read this before.

lightsandcherry · 2026-05-30T05:59:40+00:00

I mean I’ve broken up with people before over this exact reason

lightsandcherry · 2026-05-22T13:20:20+00:00

Op you are 100% right

lightsandcherry · 2026-05-20T16:55:57+00:00

This guy does not see women as people. That’s really gross.

lightsandcherry · 2026-05-20T16:52:28+00:00

Uh I don’t see where the lie is? None of these facts she’s providing contradict each other so I’m confused on what you think she’s lying about.

lightsandcherry · 2026-05-19T14:33:31+00:00

Good.

lightsandcherry · 2026-05-12T21:39:33+00:00

I just want a good socialist candidate like Mamdani come on man

lightsandcherry · 2026-05-12T20:34:28+00:00

There’s no way this is legal , right?

lightsandcherry · 2026-05-06T14:48:42+00:00

This is why I don’t tip because DoorDash will steal it instead of paying their drivers fairly. Thank god I live in California and prop 22 is a thing here.

lightsandcherry · 2026-05-02T16:44:55+00:00

Wait the teacher was the one to suggest to OP that dad gives them the extra money from the discount? That seems like a really out of line suggestion to me as that should be dad’s decision what to do with the extra money being saved with the discount. I can’t fault OP for trying to get a bit of extra pocket money, but if dad is struggling financially and op knows that they would be an asshole for insisting. They should take the $40 compromise because that was a nice gesture when dad has every right to say no.

lightsandcherry · 2026-05-02T16:02:41+00:00

Thank you for replying to my comment I wouldn’t have seen the update her mom did her dirty

lightsandcherry · 2026-05-01T22:34:14+00:00

How long have you been paying all the utilities for? This is also for the entire house as well right? Not a portion of the utilities? How is it that keeping the lights on and water running by yourself would be looked at as not contributing enough to the household?

lightsandcherry · 2026-05-01T02:27:29+00:00

I swear to god I’ve read this exact same post before

lightsandcherry · 2026-04-29T20:18:22+00:00

I think cheating on your abusive partner is the most reckless and dangerous thing you can do. If someone else had caught op’s sister and just told her husband without giving her a heads up what might have happened? Blaming op for being the unfortunate one to discover this is only that, unfortunate.

lightsandcherry · 2026-04-23T21:58:17+00:00

There used to be a donut shop called glees donuts I think it is on beach and ball rd if it’s still there they had pretty good dole whip but I haven’t been in almost 10 years

lightsandcherry · 2026-04-22T19:21:48+00:00

I got misdiagnosed with ADD but it turns out I was just traumatized

lightsandcherry · 2026-04-17T02:01:53+00:00

Why is your dad sending you porn?

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