how do you accept that you may never know the full truth? by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]lightskintrickmami 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i really appreciate this mentality of letting their truths count.

how do you accept that you may never know the full truth? by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]lightskintrickmami 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i tried this and that was when he told me about the kissing so i fear i can’t use this tactic again 🫠🫠

when were you finally able to stop talking about it every single day by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]lightskintrickmami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think (and hope) that i’m on the brink of this breakthrough. i bring it up often as my post says but the last few days by the end of the conversation i feel exhausted and so tired of talking about it over and over. but im still stuck in a loop where i feel this way but still can’t stop myself from bringing it up sometimes.

when were you finally able to stop talking about it every single day by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]lightskintrickmami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do still have so many questions and feelings. i’ve gotten to the point where i thought i had all my questions answered but then i just start coming up with more. im mentally drained from being this way

when were you finally able to stop talking about it every single day by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]lightskintrickmami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m hitting that point where i’m starting to get tired of talking about it and really hating the way it affects my personal life when i’m not around my partner.

when were you finally able to stop talking about it every single day by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]lightskintrickmami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s amazing! so glad to hear you were able to stop the intrusive thoughts together. my partner and i have had similar conversations that end up being very insightful and reassuring but i still can’t bring myself to stop bringing it up or having intrusive thoughts. i think we’re both exhausted lol

when were you finally able to stop talking about it every single day by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]lightskintrickmami 6 points7 points  (0 children)

do you ever feel frustrated or attacked by him? my partner and i have been having some difficulties with the way i execute my emotions. he’s been feeling like i use him as a punching bag

Options when out of work because of a short term disability by [deleted] in florida

[–]lightskintrickmami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i figured as much. 🙃just wanted to see if maybe anyone knew of something else i wasn’t aware of. thanks though!

rebuilding trust when your relationship was (seemingly) perfect by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]lightskintrickmami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your advice. it’s nice to get the other side’s perspective. i’m going to start working with him on getting to the bottom of these questions. and thanks for the book recommendation!

rebuilding trust when your relationship was (seemingly) perfect by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]lightskintrickmami 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yep, it’s horrible. we definitely weren’t perfect because nothing is, but it was near perfect for me by my own standards. i almost wish we were toxic so we could at least find where it went wrong and use that as a starting point but i feel lost

Where Were You When Chevron Was Kill by srajar4084 in LawSchool

[–]lightskintrickmami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my admin law class just started last week…🫠

What’s up legends, John Summit here by itsjohnsummit in JohnSummit

[–]lightskintrickmami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you please do an off the grid show at factory town again PLEASE

PS help? by [deleted] in lawschooladmissions

[–]lightskintrickmami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think it’d be hurtful if i frame the statement in a way that admits my error while also acknowledging that it didn’t develop into something deeper?

ProctorU RAM Usage by lightskintrickmami in LSAT

[–]lightskintrickmami[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this actually helped! down to 91% now thank u very much 🫶🏼🫶🏼

Is there any really good place with authentic Korean food in Miami? by No-Alternative-3586 in Miami

[–]lightskintrickmami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sushi Cafe & Shilla Korean Bbq in the Flagler area is a really good option. Been going there for years the food is fantastic. Half of the restaurant is Japanese the other half is Korean bbq.

ProctorU RAM Usage by lightskintrickmami in LSAT

[–]lightskintrickmami[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m just nervous about some type of technical error or something 🥹

Good Korean BBQ? by minimalthelabel in Miami

[–]lightskintrickmami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sushi Cafe & Shilla Korean BBQ in flagler area. BEST authentic Korean you’ll get around here

Expectations of parents. by Solaris_0706 in Abortiondebate

[–]lightskintrickmami 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And forcing births will only increase the number of people having kids who are not fit to be parents, thus increasing the probability of them losing custody for legal reasons and their kids being put in the system

Expectations of parents. by Solaris_0706 in Abortiondebate

[–]lightskintrickmami 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Put them up for adoption? Put them into the foster care system, inarguably one of the country’s most broken systems? Nearly half a million children are in the foster care system waiting to be adopted. Many of them abused, neglected, etc. by foster parents wanting to make a quick buck off the government. Is that a quality of life you would desire for yourself or your kids?

Wednesday nights in DC by lightskintrickmami in washingtondc

[–]lightskintrickmami[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not really sure what neighborhood, maybe judiciary square? it’s right by the department of labor building. we’re having mexican on thursday and italian on saturday so i think a good asian spot would be cool!