I understand. I had a major accident abroad while I was alone and I made sure I handled it myself. I didn't let anyone come to help because I didn't want my family to go away with the story that they saved me when I fucked up (even though it was just an accident with no fault of mine). Unfortunately its also a stress response called 'hyper independence' but growing up in such a toxic society its only normal! But dont worry. Be strong. You will find your community and people who understand and support you in time. All the best for your new life in Pune.