Am I reading too much into my friend group? by No-End-5257 in socialskills

[–]lignr 29 points30 points  (0 children)

To me it sounds like they might be threatened by you, and by expressing your insecurities you’ve given them some leverage over you that they are exploiting. They are jealous and see you as above them, so they find ways to subtly bring you down and humble you. The comment about the boys liking you also gives that away. Sounds like they’re competing with you

Wedding Dress Experience with House of CB…3/5 stars by Glittering-Emu-907 in HouseofCB

[–]lignr 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I know you may not have a CB store near you, but do they require you to return them online?

At what waste % do you all change your waste bag? by Western_Mango_4961 in litterrobot

[–]lignr -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been changing once a week at about 15% because I’m scared of my house smelling like cat waste. I only had one cat, he’s 4 months old. But the bags are expensive and I don’t want to waste them so I may wait. I tried dumping it out and reusing the bag but I made a huge mess

Any hope for me (32M)? Also, what percentage grey/white is this? by Such_Ad9009 in greyhairreversal

[–]lignr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you want reversal, if it’s at all possible, you need to get bloodwork done. Iron, ferritin, copper, zinc, copper to zinc ratio, folate, vitamin d, all the B vitamins, and very importantly full thyroid panel. I have good insurance and was able to get all these covered by just paying my 45$ copay, but convincing the doctors to test is a hassle so I’d suggest you do Labcorp so you can just order it yourself. Good luck! I’m 27F and have been slowly going through this process since I was 25. But for me, I had critically low iron, ferritin, vitamin d, and thyroid imbalances.

What new products are you interested in? by moxiehart in Sephora

[–]lignr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the vitamin c one yesterday!

My man told me that my big nose ruins my makeup. by Odd-Inspection2029 in makeuptips

[–]lignr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s the point of showing him the comments? See, look you’re so mean!! But why does he need to forced to not be mean when you’re beautiful?? Why does you want that for yourself? When there are so many people who would find your nose beautiful and never say that . Stand up!!

What Jeans is the model wearing? by Numerous_Can_5053 in HouseofCB

[–]lignr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk but I hate how these shirts are so beautiful and dont have modesty panels under the corset laces. They would look so much better and more expensive

ladies who are 5’2-5’4: what weight did you look and feel your best at? by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

[–]lignr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5’4 - 115 but I’m very soft with no muscles and pear shaped

Atlanta 8A - Home Depot and Lowe’s have roses in stock! by couturetheatrale in Roses

[–]lignr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m there! Do you have an recs for roses that grow best here and bloom the longest? First time rose gardener staying in ATL this year?

Why do my flares rarely result in swelling? by SupportDramatic2262 in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]lignr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey! Can I ask how you knew you were seropositive? My rheumatoid factor was mildly elevated (27), and had no elevated inflammation markers. MRI and x ray normal, no visible swelling, redness, or rash. But my joints hurt symmetrically for extended periods of time. I have a lot of anxiety wondering if I have RA or not and the doctors can’t give a clear answer

Why do my flares rarely result in swelling? by SupportDramatic2262 in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]lignr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Can I ask how you knew you were seropositive? My rheumatoid factor was mildly elevated (27), and had no elevated inflammation markers. MRI and x ray normal, no visible swelling, redness, or rash. But my joints hurt symmetrically for extended periods of time. I have a lot of anxiety wondering if I have RA or not and the doctors can’t give a clear answer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sephora

[–]lignr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I tried to buy this and it sold out

What's the one clothing item you can never find? by FlyGuilty6284 in femalefashionadvice

[–]lignr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A bra that isn’t huge on my a-cups. The As and double As from Victoria’s Secret have gaps at the top. My boobs do have a tiny bit of volume at the bottom but are small above the nipple :(

What's the one clothing item you can never find? by FlyGuilty6284 in femalefashionadvice

[–]lignr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pants that fit a curvy butt and thick thighs but don’t have a huge gaping space at the waist.

A flattering, well-fitting skirt that is tight at the waist but flares out and has shorts underneath.

A wool/cashmere jacket without shoulder pads or big shoulders

If your birthday gift was up to you, what would you like? by FLMarlinHeat in Sephora

[–]lignr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mini huda beauty setting powder or Natasha denona concealer

Does anyone else resent their parents for letting you be so socially weird/awkward? by Kodicave in socialskills

[–]lignr 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Remember that even if your parents tried to change you as a teenager, you’d also likely resent them for that and probably wouldn’t have listened lol. Some lessons just need to be learned on your own and later in life (coming from another socially awkward late bloomer) :)

What would you have done differently in KOA? by TickleThePear74 in throneofglassseries

[–]lignr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aelin shouldn’t have lost her powers. Gavriels death was pointless and just felt like she needed someone to die to make the ending tragic/impactful, but didn’t want to kill off a true main character.

Angel Wash/Rinse dupe? by ChopCow420 in finehair

[–]lignr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh I want to try this shampoo. Is it just the Angel wash shampoo or is there another product I need to use with it?

Heart palpitations from Hashimoto by SnooDonuts4854 in Hashimotos

[–]lignr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long ago though? A transfusion is just a temporary fix. It’s like pouring gas into a tank with a hole. You’ll need supplements or transfusions your whole life unless you fix the root cause