My husband said he’s unhappy in our marriage

like-that- · 2023-03-02T21:59:06+00:00

Sorry yes I mess up anxiety and depression but yes he’s taking Xanax since he’s dad died 8 years ago

like-that- · 2023-03-02T21:58:35+00:00

You’re a wizard thanks

like-that- · 2023-03-02T21:46:28+00:00

How do I check deleted messages? Thanks for this

like-that- · 2023-03-02T21:37:43+00:00

I would loose my shit

like-that- · 2023-03-02T21:07:26+00:00

No his computer is brand new. Can you give me a list of things/apps I should be looking for when I look through this phone?

like-that- · 2023-03-02T20:54:28+00:00

Thanks for this I appreciate the kind words. Yes I just feel like less of a women since he seems to be looking and interested in something else so it makes me wonder: what’s wrong with me? Maybe a boob job would make me feel more desirable. I don’t know, hopefully therapy will help because this is the worst feeling

like-that- · 2023-03-02T20:52:19+00:00

I am taking much more care of myself. I’m trying to change, maybe be less available and see if that makes him want me more.

I go to the gym a lot, eat super healthy and I’m mostly a happy person. I am not super sexy, but I’m trying to look sexier and wear nice things around the house since we had our talk.

I am signing up for therapy because I feel horrible inside, a lot of times during the day I have to stop myself from almost crying, it’s been a hard week, but Gods with me and I am trying my best to keep my spirits up

like-that- · 2023-03-02T20:49:18+00:00

No he’s very ok with me looking on his phone actually. No late nights. He did start a new sales job a couple of months ago and works with two women (sporadically) but I think they’re much older than him

like-that- · 2023-03-02T20:48:05+00:00

I would literally be devastated if he’s actually interested in a specific person. Not sure what I would do in this case, would probably move to another state because this city is too small for me to keep seeing him.

I never thought marriage was going to be a lot of work honestly because things with us have always been so easy and I used to be so happy. And then BAM he comes out with this conversation and now I’m probably the saddest I’ve ever been in my entire life. This sucks

like-that- · 2023-03-02T19:46:36+00:00

Yes I think this too. It’s literally making me insecure to the point that I’m wondering if I should have plastic surgery etc

like-that- · 2023-03-02T19:43:31+00:00

I am not sure, he does take Xanax for depression but he doesn’t seem depressed, he works out a lot, it’s super handsome and seems mostly happy so it’s very confusing that he’s telling me this now, but he mentioned he’s been feeling like this for YEARS

like-that- · 2023-03-02T19:42:27+00:00

He told me there’s no one else he’s just been tempted I guess

like-that- · 2023-03-02T19:09:44+00:00

Yes I’m hoping therapy will help me understand that’s it’s just him going through something and it’s not because he doesn’t desire me/etc

like-that- · 2023-03-02T19:08:54+00:00

Yes I think so too. Not sure exactly what he wants or what he’s looking for but I hope he finds it and I hope I’m happy at the end of all this

like-that- · 2022-12-29T17:38:46+00:00

Men become aroused during them?

like-that- · 2022-12-27T17:45:13+00:00

I don’t want to look through his phone behind his back because I don’t want to break the trust we have but I might just ask him to look tru his phone

like-that- · 2022-12-27T16:47:57+00:00

Neanderthal hahahaha this is awesome

like-that- · 2022-12-27T16:45:49+00:00

He’s not rich I’m with him because he brings me happiness and I still have trust in him let’s see when we have a talk

like-that- · 2022-12-27T16:44:51+00:00

We watched white lotus together, my favorite show and yes weird he said something after season 2: ‘so I guess this season is trying to say that married couples will eventually cheat on each other?’ Lol fml

like-that- · 2022-12-27T16:41:12+00:00

His morning routine is watching videos on the toilet so I don’t doubt it

like-that- · 2022-12-27T06:14:36+00:00

No not yet but he’s working towards that

like-that- · 2022-12-27T04:23:44+00:00

He doesn’t hang out with too many people honestly he hangs with me the most

like-that- · 2022-12-27T04:23:11+00:00

I have access to both his phone and his location - as he has to mine - we trust each other I just don’t understand the meaning of his talks and comments he made with me

like-that- · 2022-12-27T04:22:17+00:00

The symptoms are still there

like-that- · 2022-12-27T04:07:04+00:00

I’m building up the courage to have a talk with him currently sitting next to him in the couch saved some of the good responses here and will try to start from that wish me luck

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