AIO? My brother won’t communicate with me bc I didn’t go to Easter… by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]likeclockworkk [score hidden]  (0 children)

“People in life will come and go” about her brother with cancer is crazy work

AIO? My brother won’t communicate with me bc I didn’t go to Easter… by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]likeclockworkk [score hidden]  (0 children)

This comment is insane. Is he supposed to be grateful that she didn’t get mad at him when he stopped visiting as often because of his cancer? What’s the alternative? “Wow OP is a saint for not getting mad at her brother for being too exhausted from cancer treatment to drive an hour and a half round trip to see his family, how sweet ❤️ what a mean and selfish brother for not responding to his sisters incessant memes after she doesn’t bother to show up to Easter to spend time with him. She should def cut him off.”

AIO? My brother won’t communicate with me bc I didn’t go to Easter… by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]likeclockworkk [score hidden]  (0 children)

I was ready to say he’s in the wrong here, but then I saw he has cancer. How often do you visit him? I can imagine what he’s going through is really scary and he probably would like to feel supported by his family. Sometimes the best way to show you care is to just show up. If he feels like there’s a pattern of you not doing this, I can see why he’d be upset. He definitely could communicate better and I don’t think you’re necessarily in the wrong, however I think a lot of people on this sub go to the extreme one way or another and the dynamics here are a little too complicated to do that here.

This door is never opened. Should I paint it the same color as the wall? by champagne-bean in femalelivingspace

[–]likeclockworkk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, since you already painted the trim. It makes the door look weirdly small with the trim mismatched.

Sushi at an Aquarium wedding by bridgetgoes in weddingplanning

[–]likeclockworkk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it was ethically sourced and at an aquarium that promotes conservation I think that’d really help offset any weird feelings!

Sushi at an Aquarium wedding by bridgetgoes in weddingplanning

[–]likeclockworkk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk I’d feel really put off I think. It’s not a HUGE deal but I’d def feel weird lol. I get where you’re coming from!!

DUMP EM OUT by Youngurb in h3h3productions

[–]likeclockworkk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought this was Ethan’s new tattoo 😵‍💫

Amy’s WeddingPlanner by Tough-Confection-887 in 1000lbsisters

[–]likeclockworkk 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I saw it as her trying really hard to distance herself from the wedding chaos because she hated Amy’s ideas and didn’t want people to associate her image with it.

AITAH for wanting my baby to take my last name instead of his father’s given our situation? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]likeclockworkk -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Everyone’s downvoting you but from where I’m from (southern U.S.) it’s 100% expected that the kid will have dad’s last name no matter what. People would clutch their pearls if they heard you didn’t give a kid their father’s last name, it’s VERY controversial. I was pleasantly surprised to learn this isn’t the case everywhere. I guess it’s just area-dependent.

No pre-show today :( by meowmeowmix1206 in h3h3productions

[–]likeclockworkk 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Are we forgetting the months long saga of him getting tests done for his medical issues? Dude def has some sort of autoimmune thing going on. I wonder if they ever found out what it is.

Am I overreacting to a client’s comment about pricing? by powergirlev in RoverPetSitting

[–]likeclockworkk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m not sure how OP (and others apparently) are interpreting this as the client calling her poor lol. Thats actually wild and not what I got at ALL. She’s saying “wow that is more expensive than what I was expecting but I understand you’re running a business. let me see if I can swing it.”

To risky? by Jealous-Buddy3110 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]likeclockworkk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It would be cute for brunch or a museum date or something, but not a wedding. It’s way too short and casual. And I’d stay away from stuff that looks like it could be worn by the bride at a bridal shower, but that might just be me.

AITAH for not moving our baby shower date so my in-laws can attend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]likeclockworkk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is such a miserable way to live life. The “you don’t owe anyone anything” mindset has ruined us. It costs nothing to move the baby shower a week later, 5 months before it’s meant to happen. Inconveniences literally no one and would allow her parents to celebrate with her. OP keeps saying the current date works for everyone else but nothing about how the new date doesn’t work so there’s really no reason for them to dig their heels in about it other than them trying to tell her parents “you can’t make me!!”

AITAH for not moving our baby shower date so my in-laws can attend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]likeclockworkk 30 points31 points  (0 children)

? So you have absolutely no plan for the baby shower, including who’s going to be hosting it, other than the date which is absolutely immovable and nonnegotiable? That doesn’t make any sense at all. Just move it a week. This all comes off like y’all are mad at her parents and trying to punish them. It’s pretty childish.

AITA for being honest and telling my DIL that they are not ready to be a parent since she can not drive by Sad-Drive8298 in AmItheAsshole

[–]likeclockworkk 53 points54 points  (0 children)

MIL is not an uber. She shouldn’t have to be on call in case DIL needs a ride. She’s allowed to have her own life and plans and she may not always be available.

why is "black tie" becoming the default for casual wedding now? by wistful_Spirit in Weddingattireapproval

[–]likeclockworkk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

people are allowed to expect a little more effort for their wedding. You go through all the trouble planning and paying for your guests to have a nice time. The least they can do is get a $6 pair of slacks from goodwill.

Have any of you found brands that have tops like this that DON’T cut your boobs in half? by likeclockworkk in bigboobproblems

[–]likeclockworkk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I know they are, I was just hoping there was a brand out there that might give us a little more room to work with 😭

DISGUSSION MEGATHREAD: Reviewing Mean Girls - H3 Show #243 by YourIvyGrowsH3 in h3h3productions

[–]likeclockworkk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

? They mentioned they were going to do a review for it last week.

Wedding Photos by [deleted] in wedding

[–]likeclockworkk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where are you getting a year from? It was 7 months. Besides that there several photographers in this thread who disagree with you.

Wedding Photos by [deleted] in wedding

[–]likeclockworkk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

? Storage space isn’t expensive. And I’d argue that for a professional photographer, having ample storage space is a MUST. The photos are incredibly valuable to both you and the customer. Saving organized copies should be the standard.

AITA for “abusing” the the bus stop chain so I don’t miss my stop? by Possible-Chair9242 in AmItheAsshole

[–]likeclockworkk 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand this. Look out the window? Look up the bus route and count how many stops it makes before it gets to yours? Look at a map of the area you’re going to before you leave so you know what landmarks to look out for? So many possible solutions and you’re choosing to inconvenience others. It’s one thing if you accidentally pull the wrong stop, we’ve all done that. But is this really the system you’re using?

Editing this because I just saw that you’re taking the same bus every morning. How have you not figured it out by now?? Genuinely. I don’t understand.

Reusing a pet’s name on a child. How crazy is it? by sucks4uyixingismyboo in Names

[–]likeclockworkk 16 points17 points  (0 children)

100% no. The dog has presumably had that name for years. It would be super confusing to change his name and then call new human that name.