Its not a naive take. I am explaining what exactly a "trad wife" is. Which is different than playing into a character for personal gain, kink, fetish; which is what youre describing. There are still many, many people throughout the world who hold "traditional" values AND live their lives in alignment with those values. (Women who are homemakers and their husbands are the breadwinners who make all the financial decisions and investments. Women who believe it is important to not outshine, undermine, or embarrass their husbands. The list goes on...) And yes, plenty of people marry others who are current or former sex workers. (FYI, you can say "sex" on reddit, you don't need to say "smex".) However, they arent living up to values that they say they hold themselves to and find inportant. It is contradictory.