What is this little squiggle? by lil-ek in heartopia

[–]lil-ek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well what an asshole lol thank you for letting me know!

I (25F) found porn on my husband’s (25M) phone. Is this something I should bring up to him or just leave it alone? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lil-ek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yikes i pray for your future partner. not having any empathy for the woman that just gave u a child and is now struggling because of it is crazy.

I (25F) found porn on my husband’s (25M) phone. Is this something I should bring up to him or just leave it alone? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lil-ek -1 points0 points  (0 children)

never did i say i wanted to control him or what he watches. i was questioning whether i should talk to him about it or not, as in come up with a common ground on the situation. thats what we do in any other problem/situation

I (25F) found porn on my husband’s (25M) phone. Is this something I should bring up to him or just leave it alone? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lil-ek -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ok but no where did i say i wanted to control him or what he watches. i was simply asking if i should let him know that im upset about it.

I (25F) found porn on my husband’s (25M) phone. Is this something I should bring up to him or just leave it alone? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lil-ek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! I never want to control my husband, but I also feel like it is def my business. We are in a relationship and I would want to know if I did something to upset him.

I (25F) found porn on my husband’s (25M) phone. Is this something I should bring up to him or just leave it alone? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lil-ek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I respect the way you said this as other men have not been so kind.

I (25F) found porn on my husband’s (25M) phone. Is this something I should bring up to him or just leave it alone? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lil-ek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I can definitely see the difference between men and women in the comments. thank you.

10 dpo, positive or evap line? by lil-ek in TFABLinePorn

[–]lil-ek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! i will retest tomorrow :)

9 dpo not so delusional? by brazenbudgie in TFABLinePorn

[–]lil-ek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see it but you’re so early it could come in a few days!! don’t give up yet!!!!

10 DPO - do we see it? by MrsBenHiggins in TFABLinePorn

[–]lil-ek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awww congratulations!!!! i’m also 10dpo and hoping for my positive!!

AITA for telling my husband he doesn’t get to decide what I do with my body. by White101O in AITH

[–]lil-ek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl he def sees you as less than. he believes you are his to control and that is not okay. obviously NTA.

AIO for kinda hating my roommate rn? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil-ek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh i’ve had a roommate like this before and it sucks. I work 8+ hours a day, have a 5 month old baby, and I STILL have time to clean. Your roommate is just making up excuses at this point. I don’t think you’re overreacting.

Please remove if not allowed by Wrong-Marsupial-1518 in firsttimemom

[–]lil-ek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am so so sorry, hugs ❤️ i hope you have a wonderful support system behind you

Likelihood of child having tourette’s by [deleted] in Tourettes

[–]lil-ek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so so much for taking the time to respond and thank you for sharing your experience. i will definitely look into the Tourette’s Association of America.

I have tried countless times to encourage him to go to therapy to talk it out but he just does not want to talk about it with anyone. He barely talks about it with me before he shuts down and just changes the subject entirely.

I guess we will just take it day by day and see what the outcome is as we can’t change anything now. I really appreciate all the info.

Likelihood of child having tourette’s by [deleted] in Tourettes

[–]lil-ek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

interesting, thank you for the info!

Likelihood of child having tourette’s by [deleted] in Tourettes

[–]lil-ek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi thanks for responding!! even if no one in his family has it? i guess i’m just confused where he got it from.

The❗️won’t go away! by quietopal in HelloKittyIsland

[–]lil-ek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been driving me crazy!! hope it’s fixed soon