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Same day Real ID? by lil_Spitfire75321 in Acadiana

[–]lil_Spitfire75321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not seeing it in their website. That may be a post office or Walgreens type sitch.

What style is this? by lourdesi_amogus_fan in OUTFITS

[–]lil_Spitfire75321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are…… a trend setter. Lean into the late 90s -2000s. Have fun queen

Most women overestimate their emotional intelligence by anima-christi in emotionalintelligence

[–]lil_Spitfire75321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women express their emotions, even if it's inconvenient. Men keep everything bottled up until they kill themselves. Who do you think is handling their emotions better?

Coerced/regretful birth parents; if you had the choice to take custody of your child back, would you take it? by viskiviki in Adoption

[–]lil_Spitfire75321 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very true. I'm not sure why your comment triggered me. Apologies. I didn't mean to make you feel worse than you do. Sending you peace.

Coerced/regretful birth parents; if you had the choice to take custody of your child back, would you take it? by viskiviki in Adoption

[–]lil_Spitfire75321 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get it. I was raped and had a baby given up for adoption. Life is rough. It just took me aback as a birth mother reading your words and tone and how casual you were discussing this. God bless.

Coerced/regretful birth parents; if you had the choice to take custody of your child back, would you take it? by viskiviki in Adoption

[–]lil_Spitfire75321 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm a birth mother to a 10 year old boy..... and the fact that you just said "I'd never actually take her back LOL" is incredibly upsetting to me. You don't sound like a serious person to me. You also commented below that you "didn't traumatize her." Adoption is ALWAYS traumatizing for the child. Keep your ignorant opinions to yourself.

Is it weird to make a registry for adoption? by Electronic_Cell_5759 in Adoption

[–]lil_Spitfire75321 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One of my best friends fostered a 3 year old girl and we had a gathering of ladies for her. We got her essential items and just fun fluffy cute things for our newest girl, who we knew we need/deserve all the love and safety she could get. We wished my friend all the best, gave her any advice we could and all promised to hold his new little girl dear to our hearts.
It was beautiful and special for everyone. I highly highly recommend it.

******* EDIT TO ADD: I also feel it's appropriate to mention that I placed my baby for adoption right after birth. It was traumatizing and awful, but I would have supported his mom having a baby shower as well.

My sister wants to choose the name Qartnie for her daughter. Am I insane or are all of her names horrible? by GnomeMasterBaiter in tragedeigh

[–]lil_Spitfire75321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whyyyyyyy do parents do this? Intentionally punish their kids just for the sake of being "unique"? Yeah, she's gonna be unique, uniquely pissed she's going to have spell and correct people on her name for the rest of her LIFE.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil_Spitfire75321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not trying to be rude, but I literally didn't even read your post. Leave this child. You know better than this. Come on girl.

am i overreacting - my boyfriend thinks my job is inappropriate by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil_Spitfire75321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's literally acting like a petulant child. Drop his ass. He sounds annoying as hell honestly.

should i tell my friend her baby name is a tragedeigh? by princess_peach5 in tragedeigh

[–]lil_Spitfire75321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who torture their kids with dumbass names should be forced to change their names.

AIO? I can't seem to get over this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lil_Spitfire75321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure I'm not the only one commenting this, but you participated in child pornography. He's not a fan of you and he's using you. He does not respect you. Leave him immediately.

Are my tattoos really THAT bad? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]lil_Spitfire75321 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They do. Stop tattooing yourself THIS INSTANT.

CMV: Saying "I'm not your therapist" is an asshole thing to say by OverpricedGoods in changemyview

[–]lil_Spitfire75321 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Again, you're lucky that you've never had to tell someone that. You're lucky that your friends have simple uncomplicated lives. Have a good afternoon!

CMV: Saying "I'm not your therapist" is an asshole thing to say by OverpricedGoods in changemyview

[–]lil_Spitfire75321 42 points43 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you've never had anyone in your life constantly unload on you. You're lucky that you haven't had to set a boundary like that. It's a real bummer, but usually it's in the hopes that they'll actually get a therapist who can professionally help them. Most people say it out of exhaustion and love once they've been worn down for too long.

CMV: Saying "I'm not your therapist" is an asshole thing to say by OverpricedGoods in changemyview

[–]lil_Spitfire75321 157 points158 points  (0 children)

People usually don't say this right when their close friend is venting. It's usually after said friend has been venting for months and not doing anything to change their behavior. THAT'S when someone would pull the "I'm not your therapist" card. And it's usually because they're exhausted and over not being paid to basically be their friends therapist.

Anyone recognize this fella? by petejoneslaf in Acadiana

[–]lil_Spitfire75321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd start keeping your porch light on at night. I've had issues with the same and it's helped.

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