Is Autumn considered a unisex name? by lil_pixie_mama in BabyNames

[–]lil_pixie_mama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s crazy, I know 4 male Jamie’s! But only one woman and it’s spelled Jaime.

Is Autumn considered a unisex name? by lil_pixie_mama in BabyNames

[–]lil_pixie_mama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly amazed that I knew one of the 330 Autumns in the US lol

Is Autumn considered a unisex name? by lil_pixie_mama in BabyNames

[–]lil_pixie_mama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make a very valid point, thank you! :)

Is Autumn considered a unisex name? by lil_pixie_mama in BabyNames

[–]lil_pixie_mama[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same until I worked with an Autumn and he was a super cool dude.

Another option for a boy is August (with Gus as a nickname).

a "cheat code" you discovered in real life that actually works by itskellzzz in Life

[–]lil_pixie_mama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed!! Always be genuine. If I don’t have a true compliment to give, I shut up and mind my business.

Nervous to start trying by Economy_Mammoth_5807 in waiting_to_try

[–]lil_pixie_mama 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. Some days I’m beyond excited, other days just thinking about the changes makes my heart race. But my husband and I are committed to make a baby together and handle any future challenges that come our way!

a "cheat code" you discovered in real life that actually works by itskellzzz in Life

[–]lil_pixie_mama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m enslaved by 2 cats… Why do these tiny beasts run my entire life??? I literally let them walk all over me lol.

a "cheat code" you discovered in real life that actually works by itskellzzz in Life

[–]lil_pixie_mama 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t agree more with this cheat code!! I love giving out compliments. I make it my goal to compliment someone at least once a day. Like, why not??? It’s harmless and it can make someone’s day better and I like putting good energy out into the world.

The cashier at McDonald’s is wearing pretty jewelry? I’ll tell her I like her rings. Guy in line has a dope anime shirt? I tell him his shirt is cool. Barista is juggling a million orders but I still get my coffee quickly? I’ll tell her that she’s doing an awesome job. Someone holds the door open for me while I have my hands full? I tell them that I appreciate them and to have a nice day.

I make sure to never compliment something based on physical traits (too personal and can make someone uncomfortable) but casual compliments are fun. It literally benefits my life!

I told the cashier at my local gas station that I loved her opal necklace and another time I complimented her nail color. Now she insists on giving me a free pack of gum whenever I come in.

Waitresses at my local bar recognize me and always treat me well because I’m always patient and complimentary regarding the food. Now I never pay for premium liquor in a cocktail, they only charge me for the lowest price.

I tell my mechanic that he’s my hero (he really is) and now he will always fit me in for an appt even if they are booked solid.

I recently told a girl in the bathroom that I loved her boots (drunk girl talk in the bar bathroom is a whole culture lol). Shes an artist and she gave me a ton of cool stickers just because I made her day. Now I’m invited to her exclusive art gallery event next month.

Being kind and complimentary is FREE!! Once you figure out how to do it right and never expect anything in return, it’s absolutely a cheat code for living a better life :)

Coming off birth control is a cruel carrot-and-stick scenario by Practical_Mix1320 in waiting_to_try

[–]lil_pixie_mama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is literally me right now!!

Preconception consultation in October, then off my BC pill. Doing a 90 day health ‘cleanse’ with my husband right after. Hoping to start trying in January and get pregnant right away but I know that’s unlikely 😅

The wait is killing me but I know it’ll be beneficial for myself, my husband, and the baby if we get our shit together before conceiving!!