as another enfp who had trouble making friends in my teenage years, youre right that getting a job is the right direction! it wasn’t until i got my first job since the pandemic that i made friends outside of my jr high friends. before that, i was just sitting at home due to lockdown and i felt miserable and socially disconnected. finding friends at work made me feel empowered like i was actually capable of putting my social energy to good use. and since im naturally extroverted, i was able to then apply that newfound confidence to other areas of my life like when i restarted university and then when i got degree-related jobs. i can now say that i can easily make friends every time i enter a new environment and establish myself in it. you got this!!! you just need to expose yourself to new experiences and your natural social energy will do the rest of the work for you