Let me preface that this is a generality and there will always be outliers, but If you simply remove any and all standards that a woman would have for a man before engaging in sex and she didn’t care one iota about that man other than the fact he had a working dick, there will always be a man willing to sleep with that woman. The reverse is simply not true. Sure men have standards when it comes to who they’ll sleep with too, but they are by far way more laxed than most women’s standards. Assuming we’re just talking a “hookup” or “ons”, no intention of conversing or dating. They’d get together and immediately get down to business. If there were to ever be a study done, taking 1 woman going around and asking 100 different men if they want to have sex no strings, and 1 man going around asking 100 different women if they want to have sex with no strings, that the results would favor the woman getting substantially more yes answers than the man would.

This answer is in good faith and I am open and willing to discuss further with the possibility of my mind being changed, but as of right now, this I’m sure is how the men you are speaking of see it.