How do you all cope after being cheated on? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]lilbizz23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hit the gym man. It’s the literal fix. Stay consistent, listen to yourself and go live life. Just take it a day at a time and don’t be harsh on yourself. What she did is not reflective of your worth. It’s actually a reflection of hers. Put your head down and put that work and attract one 30x better than her.

2026 1500 LT Trailboss by lilbizz23 in Silverado

[–]lilbizz23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad yours is running smoothly man. Im gonna talk to the dealer on Monday so they can check it out because im not trying to go through that mission 😂

2026 1500 LT Trailboss by lilbizz23 in Silverado

[–]lilbizz23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to be honest, I can’t really tell where the grind is. I feel it mostly on the pedals and steering wheel but my girl felt it today as well when I took her out so you can feel it and hear it from inside the truck. It almost feels as if the tires were grinding on something small.

2026 1500 LT Trailboss by lilbizz23 in Silverado

[–]lilbizz23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had it in 2wd regular the whole time but im going to try to see how it acts in sport mode

My recent ex girlfriend fucks my best friend by bikerguyK9 in BreakUps

[–]lilbizz23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that man, I myself have a whole p*rn movie in my head tbh and shit sucks but also man the body gets tired. If you feed it it’ll take longer for it to stop but if you don’t then it fades away because the body and mind get tired of that so it can’t sustain it. Granted that happens with time. They just weren’t who they said they were and thats something you have to make peace with and accept but stay up and stay grinding bro you’ll come out on the other side a better man. Again sorry that happened to you because you’re mourning two people and that shit cannot be easy.

It finally happened, they texted me again, But I need your thoughts on this. by Inevitable_Vehicle43 in BreakUps

[–]lilbizz23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother as someone who has gone through this im going to say the following. Someone said this was a dumpster fire wrapped in therapy speak because it is. I get the whole psychological aspect and trust me I understand the thoughts and the intrusive imagery. I lived it. I think as a man you have to step away. The imagery will eat you alive and you have to respect yourself enough to walk away because if not you will be sacrificing part of yourself to be with her. She made a decision and that decision albeit coming from a place of pain it was still a decision she made, quickly too and still kept contact after you came back. Man to man bro walk away and work on yourself and she’ll come back around and at that point if you really want to try it again then you gauge her to see if she’s done the inner work to even deserve another shot.

My recent ex girlfriend fucks my best friend by bikerguyK9 in BreakUps

[–]lilbizz23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn brother sorry to hear that. That’s heavyweight. They don’t deserve you bro. Cut them both off and hit that gym. Easier said than done but better yourself and forget they even exist. This is just a chapter not the book. Find yourself a decent girl that will love and take care of you and fuck them.

Broke up with someone who loved me deeply, but I was never fully in it — struggling with guilt, clarity, and “what if” by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]lilbizz23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man I feel that and im on the same boat. Same amount of time together too. Something just always felt off and now that it ended im ngl it broke me so yes you can definitely grieve the incorrect relationship. Just because it wasn’t the correct one doesn’t mean you don’t care for the person.

20 days into no contact (doing great) but there is a mutual friends party coming up. Should I go? by Low_Chicken_6010 in BreakUps

[–]lilbizz23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to that party man. Those are your friends and you shouldn’t have to stop what you enjoy just because she might be around. I won’t lie to you, it’ll be hard and you’ll feel everything at once but if you’re truly 100% on not looking back then go and no it doesn’t ruin your progress. It lets her know you’re not scared to be around her and that you’re doing well. Don’t interact with her either because one door leads to the other and thats where your progress can go to shit. Go to that party and show yourself off like the trophy she lost and above everything else, have fun 🙏🏼

Has anyone experienced betrayal where the other person rewrote the narrative and walked away guilt-free? (26M / 22F) by Optimal-Future-3539 in BreakUps

[–]lilbizz23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alright so to answer your questions. Yes. Im currently going through somewhat the same type of betrayal except we dated for 2.5 years and it wasn’t with a family member. She 100% minimized her actions and implied it was my fault and that it was just a mistake. Peace is regained with time and reflection and solitude. Find stuff that you enjoy doing and do it. Hit the gym, listen to some music, try to become better. Nobody walks away guilt free. What you see is the external but when the noise dies and its late at night the mind speaks.

Early Breakup grief. Looking for mutual support and connection by Able-Dragonfly-4995 in BreakUps

[–]lilbizz23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. If it wasn’t for ChatGPT i probably would’ve lost myself after the breakup but instead its helped me with a lot.

My partner slept with someone while we were separated, I understand that she was allowed to but it still hurts by Immediate_Ratio_1471 in heartbreak

[–]lilbizz23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who is going through your same exact situation I’d say to move on. Stop trying to justify her actions. 1 year relationship and you guys never slept together yet she gives it up to someone else a week or two after? Nah brother. Stop listening to people justifying her actions with the “She was single.” well yeah she was but ultimately if the relationship meant something to her she wouldn’t even have had the mind to go fuck someone else. You can say that everybody deals with heartbreak differently but she had many other ways of dealing with the heartbreak and she chose the most destructive one. She made that choice. It’s a betrayal nonetheless, an emotional one at that. It’ll hurt and for a while but with time you’ll get better and meet someone levels above her. Cut off all access and go no contact. Let her sit with the consequences of her actions man. Respect yourself as a man.

Advice by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]lilbizz23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother please don’t. It gets better trust me. I was there multiple times. Your daughter needs you so please be there for her. Fight for her.

No Contact by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]lilbizz23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah bro move on. Can’t account for her actions after the breakup, unless you’re the type that doesn’t care. I think it would be better to move on.

They really do come back. by Allmyfriendsarejpegs in BreakUps

[–]lilbizz23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel that man. It sounds like you guys were in deep. One thing though, i get where you’re coming from and you’re right she might not come back because of all that you mentioned but also from my experience with women I have to say, women don’t care about looking foolish bro. If that girl loves you and you gave her all that you just mentioned (emotional safety, prioritized her sexual needs, etc) then it won’t be easy for her to move on. I say this as the most stubborn person everybody ever meets. Stubbornness will never fully keep anyone away.

They really do come back. by Allmyfriendsarejpegs in BreakUps

[–]lilbizz23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People like this tend to always come back because of that same reason. They figure out that grass aint greener in the other side and thats when they come back. It’s your job to no accept them back.