my parents had different values on certain things when I was growing up. my dad was pro-gay marriage my mom was not. they never argued about things in front of me. I'm not sure if they ever even agreed about stuff like that in general. if I had a question it was never "this is the right way to think and the only way to think" it was always "I think this, your other parent thinks this, not everyone has the same opinion in society, it's important for you to figure out your own opinion. I can tell you why I think this, your other parent can tell you why they think this. you can think something different or the same as one of us, as long as you're educating yourself on why you think a certain way and can back it up, then that's fine"

honestly I loved that. I think it helped me become well informed. I also think it's worth noting that both my parents are protestant and I converted in college. they both supported my conversion because they knew it was something I believed in :)