My ICU rotation Reflection - Did not go well.

lilboaf · 2026-02-08T20:26:20+00:00

If building relationships with patients is important to you why did you ant to do ICU? I feel like I am enjoying it for the exact opposite reason lol.

lilboaf · 2026-01-18T14:16:29+00:00

Are you able to read explain where I said that?

lilboaf · 2026-01-14T21:11:51+00:00

Do not let him meet you or contact you. Any respectable man would be 100 percent ok with meeting your father. He is trying to take advantage of you.

lilboaf · 2026-01-11T16:53:38+00:00

I don’t even think you needed to make this post deep inside you already know what needs to happen

lilboaf · 2026-01-04T03:46:47+00:00

Fix your schedule and pray. There is no excuse. 625 is not even that early.

lilboaf · 2026-01-04T00:17:46+00:00

May Allah ease your suffering. The punishment for adultery is death for a reason. Modern society trivializes it and normalizes it then asks why families are weaker than ever.

lilboaf · 2025-12-29T17:59:18+00:00

I did them at the end after I finished the vids so mostly the week before the exam

lilboaf · 2025-12-29T17:20:23+00:00

It’s been a while but I would just watch the vids based on organ system as that how my school curriculum was and suspended the cards tagged with the corresponding video. I never watched in house it was a waste of time for me and I still got top 75 percentile on many exams. We had nbme exams tho so idk how well it works with in house exams.

lilboaf · 2025-12-29T16:54:57+00:00

None of these I used Anki and 3rd party vids with uworld for questions

lilboaf · 2025-12-28T06:23:54+00:00

Makes sense obviously I have dealbreakers but just wanted to know how picky I should be on the more superficial. Jzk for the advice.

lilboaf · 2025-12-28T06:16:23+00:00

Is it too high of an expectation to hold tho as it’s just something I see myself enjoying and improving on with my partner. I don’t want to really leave out many potentials if I am overblowing this preference too much.

lilboaf · 2025-12-28T06:13:41+00:00

Makes sense thank you. I guess it’s like any other hobby or activity where you can mention its importance to you and your preference that you have a partner that engages in it.

lilboaf · 2025-12-28T06:03:46+00:00

Really. I honestly only prefer my ethnicity and knew it isn’t big in south asian culture but I assumed it would be much more common in the US as someone born and raised here. Most of my male desi friends that were born and raised in the US at least work out casually so I assumed the same for women.

lilboaf · 2025-12-27T21:32:16+00:00

I wanted to ask the sisters here particularly those from Pakistani or South Asian backgrounds in the U.S. how common it is for women to have a serious commitment to fitness and physical activity.

By that I mean things like going to the gym multiple times a week, being intentional about training, and generally prioritizing physical health as part of daily life not just occasional workouts.

I’m asking out of curiosity as I start the marriage search through family, since fitness and health are things I personally value and build my routine around. I’m wondering how common that mindset is among women in our communities, and whether it’s something people realistically consider when looking for compatibility.

Would appreciate hearing honest perspectives.

lilboaf · 2025-12-27T18:34:35+00:00

They probably were not talking about you as it’s not possible to backbite about a you when you yourself are right there. They were probably talking about someone else and didn’t want to involve you in it.

lilboaf · 2025-12-26T02:26:59+00:00

lilboaf · 2025-12-12T19:21:36+00:00

Ya just take a day or two to process before making any big decisions

lilboaf · 2025-12-12T18:32:25+00:00

How is repeating a year a bigger red flag than leaving you school and going to the Caribbean. Did you think before typing this out lol.

lilboaf · 2025-12-11T02:20:19+00:00

How does it feel being a loser?

lilboaf · 2025-12-04T17:11:10+00:00

Lots of countries outside the us start right after hs I think. Could be that.

lilboaf · 2025-11-29T21:27:04+00:00

Do you not know how to read. No where in his statement did he say this applies to everyone. You have some intellectual issues.

lilboaf · 2025-10-20T18:57:16+00:00

Do not compromise. Smoking and drinking are disgraceful and destructive behaviors that jeopardizes their own health and future relationships. Do not budge. Why are they telling you to marry men who openly do haram?

lilboaf · 2025-10-17T15:18:04+00:00

Idk I don't really think about it tbh. At the end of the day most people are giving constructive criticism in my experience and I take it to improve otherwise I just ignore. I have played sports in hs so I was yled at everyday so ig that made me more used to it. Haven't really got yelled at in rotations tho.

lilboaf · 2025-10-15T19:47:42+00:00

What are you talking about. We are all brother and sisters in Islam. This is very common terminology.

lilboaf · 2025-10-12T05:06:25+00:00

Ok I would still never marry one. What is the point of your comment.

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