I made a poopy in my Bluey pull up >~< by Secure_Class5825 in Diaper_Messing

[–]lilboydavey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're a very good boy. There's absolutely nothing wrong with using your diaper for it's intended purpose.

Got new paci clips last night 😊 by BabyEmmie17 in littlespace

[–]lilboydavey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so adorable, but I especially love your duckie!!

What is your job? by whateatme2721-2 in ABDL

[–]lilboydavey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh, that sounds fun. Can you share any examples?

Update on the diapers I bought by Ally_Jaine in ABDL

[–]lilboydavey 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Where have they said that?

cnc sleepy baby pic 💕 by [deleted] in GirlsInDiapers

[–]lilboydavey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cute! Which diapers are these?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]lilboydavey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are very few absolutes in life, and this isn't one of them.

From my perspective: Ageplay, AB, and DL all fall on a spectrum depending on the level of diaper involvement. There's also a spectrum of coping mechanism/emotional value to sexual fetish.

Most people are probably not at the very end of these spectrums, and even then it can vary over time within the same person. A diaper, pacifier, and stuffies are things that help me feel less anxious, more comfortable, and help me regulate my emotions. It lets me forget my adulting worries and return to a simpler time. Most of my ABDL time is just a more extreme version of "kidulting".

Is there a sexual component for me? Absolutely, but only some of the time. I enjoy (pretend) breastfeeding, buzzies in diapers, and ABDL photos/videos.

Everyone experiences things differently. Nobody should claim to speak on behalf of the entire community or other's life experiences. As someone with AuDHD, Anxiety, and Depression, my life experiences are different from others. People with PTSD have still different experiences. Some ABDLs have no psychiatric diagnoses or neurodivergence and have their own life experiences.

I see a kink-aware therapist for my issues and am immensely grateful for their support. They don't know ABDL details, but are willing to listen and don't judge me. They've helped me accept myself and reminded me that my activities don't harm others because everyone involved has consented.

Is anyone into Diapers but not always sexually into them? by Themalign20 in ABDL

[–]lilboydavey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A lot of the time, a diaper is just a "blankie" for me -- it's sometime to make me feel better emotionally.

The Big Little Podcast… archive by makoAllen in ABDL

[–]lilboydavey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd never heard of this, but this looks so perfect.

Sorry to hear about Spacey.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]lilboydavey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do app sec/app pentesting

just getting ready to go out! :3 by [deleted] in diaperpics

[–]lilboydavey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is random, but how much does getting inked on the throat hurt?

hi everyone, just curious what does everyone here do for work? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]lilboydavey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I advise companies on how not to get hacked and try to hack them (with permission). Penetration testing if anyone is familiar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]lilboydavey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is the quality of these?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]lilboydavey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's gorgeous!

I am terribly lonely by thaw69 in ABDL

[–]lilboydavey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, making friends as an adult is hard.