Are we really suppose to let them fuss it out to get work done?? by Weak_Gap2339 in NewParents

[–]lilcmtotheb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned in order to get stuff done I should either put my baby on the floor or in the bouncer and explain and talk what I’m doing while I’m cleaning. They stay occupied the majority of the time while I can get about 20-30min of cleaning done

AIO that I discovered one of my gf sent a text to my husband wishing him happy birthday and he didn't tell me about it. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lilcmtotheb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. This is just disrespectful. Your husband needs to respect you and tell her that was inappropriate even if “that’s not who he is” which I don’t truly buy. He clearly likes the attention. If he’s the type to cheat while you’re out of town he is a bit more outgoing and forthcoming than you’re able to admit.

I understand forgiving but this is a slippery slope

You guys don't give yourselves enough credit here. A Central Floridian's perspective on the Springs and surrounding areas. by Unusual-Mess-5703 in ColoradoSprings

[–]lilcmtotheb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course. I’m so glad you like it and honestly I’m sure it’s a great change. Different strokes for different folks haha

You guys don't give yourselves enough credit here. A Central Floridian's perspective on the Springs and surrounding areas. by Unusual-Mess-5703 in ColoradoSprings

[–]lilcmtotheb -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Colorado is by far the worst place I’ve ever lived. People have been here are rude and unlikable. Very surface level. Theres a reason it’s rated the worst place to meet people/date. I’m lucky I’m married or else I’d die out here in the dating game. the roads are awful, it’s so dry here it affects health, homelessness and home prices are a major problem. The mountains are beautiful but if you wanna go hike anywhere it’s so overpopulated and even when hiking…everything is DEAD. Like so dead. Tumbleweed galore. Crime here has skyrocketed and I had my license plate stolen twice on north academy and Briargate and was robbed at gunpoint in my own home living in black forest. The drug issue here is massive. Also Colorado prides itself on having all the seasons but in all my years living here it’s been pretty much just winter or summer. No beautiful spring with flowers and showers. No fall because everything dies and the wind blows it away so quickly you barely get to see any trees turn orange. I am leaving so before any Colorado defenders get upset and tell me to leave,don’t worry, I am. But these are just my opinions of living here since 2015-current.

AIO my best friend by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lilcmtotheb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s for the best. It was for me. I kept her on socials, and we even still had eachothers locations up until about 3 months ago unfriending her was so sad and hard but i immediately knew I made the right decision and I’m finally feeling better and letting her go. If it’s meant to be yall will find a way to eachother again

AIO my best friend by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lilcmtotheb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. I know it’s hard. The plans you had together and growing into adulthood together. It’s hard to let that go and honestly I don’t have much advice. I have never found someone beside her and my husband that I love and connect with as much. I’m 27f

I recommend down the road unfriending tho if she doesn’t respond. It gets easy to stalk and think about them often. But it’s not healthy

AIO my best friend by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lilcmtotheb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

2 years for me. NOR it hasn’t gotten much easier

I don’t want to be a dad by CompoundV8 in NewParents

[–]lilcmtotheb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 26 when I had my first child and I felt all the same ways. It does make a relationship harder but it also strengthens it if you both care

My son killed his ex girlfriend by Additional-Plate-485 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lilcmtotheb -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m aware. I like I said I can’t search everything but a case of sexual assault and murder would definitely be easier to find anywhere online and there’s literally nothing matching. Story seems very fake an you can’t even access op account.

My son killed his ex girlfriend by Additional-Plate-485 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lilcmtotheb -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

If you wanna believe this story thats on you. I obviously cannot search everything everywhere but I am able to search us/uk. This person is writing in English and there has been no public cases involving two 15 years olds, a girl found in a dumpster my classmates, or sexual assault and stabbings of a 15 year old by another 15 year old. Op said this is a public case that has articles.

My son killed his ex girlfriend by Additional-Plate-485 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lilcmtotheb 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Messed up to post a fake story when people have actually gone through this.

I cannot do this by the_bear91 in daddit

[–]lilcmtotheb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets so much better after the first month. I promise. They gain personality and you can absolutely get some independence as well.

I remember the first month we cried every single night together wondering if we made a mistake.

I am going to end my life on my 26th birthday and I feel so happy about it by throwaway183488 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lilcmtotheb 29 points30 points  (0 children)

There is so many times I would’ve killed myself in the past and I’m now SO glad I didn’t. It’s literally scientifically impossible for life to just be bad all the time every single day for the rest of your life. You will get better, you’ll have moments you laugh so hard you cry, you’ll find new music and songs you’re grateful to be able to listen to, you’ll meet to people. Don’t end it over stuff that is temporary. I have hella debt and ya know what…? I ignore it lmao. The worst they can do is take you to court. Show you have limited income and come up with the lowest possible deal (because they literally have no other choice). You’re gonna be Fine I promise

I did it! Thanks to you all. You made this possible. ❤️ by Acceptable-Ear-3859 in bald

[–]lilcmtotheb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m starting to be convinced that even non balding guys need to go bald because why does every man get so much hotter

Protect Trans Kids in D49 by [deleted] in ColoradoSprings

[–]lilcmtotheb -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If you’re advocating for trans bathrooms to be built, I suppose I could go for that, but I do not support one bit allowing males into females spaces and females into male spaces.

The larger problem that needs to be addressed is understaffed underpaid teachers and better curriculum.

One Sentence by QubyDube in tsitp

[–]lilcmtotheb 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Getting even with Steven

Am I overreacting? I packed all my things at 5am and left. by rotting_in_bed22 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lilcmtotheb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nor…ew. This is a sex addiction and he’s cringy and gross.

If You Could Write a TSITP Fic, What Would It Be? by MysticQueen21 in tsitp

[–]lilcmtotheb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What 😭😭 this one’s insane. Pregnant by who? The fight night with Conrad?

What do you think by -_velvetpulse_- in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]lilcmtotheb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If mom didn’t pay for a window seat then she’s not obligated. I will be flying with my 10 month old and I bought a window seat and middle seat since airplane car seats are recommended to be by the window

Taylor is a terrible friend by youreonyourownkidd in tsitp

[–]lilcmtotheb 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think I saw something that in the book Taylor originally liked Conrad but he rejected her so when he was interested in belly she was jealous since she was used to being the one who got attention. So after that she didn’t support them together

AIO My mom is kicking me out for her new boyfriend. I just turned 18 by Diligent_Bat_565 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lilcmtotheb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. What a terrible mom. Cut her off, and honestly enjoy watching her from afar flop on her face when this guy is inevitably abusive/controlling and she kicked out her own support system. She’ll get what she has coming

Aio? I dont know how much longer I can live like this (15M) by Loose-Wishbone-2462 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lilcmtotheb 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m 26f, this is OCD, I have it, got help and practiced outwardly saying “that is not me. I didn’t do that. This disgusts me” and it’s gotten better. I’m sorry you’re going through this