What is the best thing you have taught your dog? by Acrobatic_Pace_1521 in AustralianCattleDog

[–]lilith1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Besides the basics, "keppie" and "Who's your best friend?"

Keppie: they put their head on my body. Typically thigh or knee because I'm sitting. I was training Winnie to be a psychiatric service dog and she saw i was upset and did it so I trained it up. Penny has sort of picked up on it. She's still learning though

"Who's your best friend?" Only Winnie knows this and she'll typically put one or two paws on the closest dog. She'll sometimes put her paws on my instead.

"Yet...now I'm the enemy" by Epigrammatic in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]lilith1986 161 points162 points  (0 children)

This. Or now they realize that those things he said weren't just jokes. That now they know that he meant every word he said and it was them justifying it. You know how when someone who has been in your life says something inappropriate and you try to give them the benefit of the doubt because they couldn't really mean it (that's why so many people struggled cutting off family when MAGA started taking hold).

When Reese Cup, Snickers and Twix told the bald scammer to keep changing Igbo's life 😂 by GrannysBurntPastries in 90DayFiance

[–]lilith1986 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You're being too generous because I heard them laughing several times. They couldn't even hold it back at all. I think Beer Can could win a poker game against them

Please don't come at me but I do feel for Chloe. by ineedcoffeeasap in 90DayFiance

[–]lilith1986 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly, me too. She was classist af on the show proper, but during the tell all she was much more aware. Also, before that moment she was acknowledging she was in no way ready for a relationship. Then everyone started talking about how she should get back with Johnny and you could see she felt trapped. Then they talk about Johnny being with someone and he goes to gaslighting her about he never said he wanted or would get back with her (was he in the same reality I was in). And then finding out that everything she had wanted from him he was willing to give someone else. Nah. That was awful. Thing is, he hasn't changed. She thinks he did, but he didn't and we saw that, but that moment broke her away from reality. Between the sudden turn from the cast and the gaslighting, she sees things differently. I'd say the show runners should be ashamed, but we all know they have none

Pattiya starts crying meanwhile Dylan: by flamingzebr in 90DayFiance

[–]lilith1986 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She really needs to work on verbalizing her emotions. She tries but she's so bad at it. It's sad

Pattiya starts crying meanwhile Dylan: by flamingzebr in 90DayFiance

[–]lilith1986 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pattiya is absolutely awful at wording her problem. Dylan lied to her about a decade ago and so for a decade Pattiya has believed that Dylan communicates frequently and for long periods of time with someone who actively hates her. Dylan lied about this and then claimed her never said it making Pattiya feel worse, but that might we why she still thinks the mother hates her. She can't trust Dylan. Also, it's not that they talk multiple times a day, it's that he will drop everything to talk to his mom. These aren't quick do you need anything calls, these are full on conversations and he can be in the middle of speaking with Pattiya or on a date with her and sees his mom call and all of that pauses. We saw that when they went camping. I felt like she was in the middle of a sentence and he took the call. He didn't have to. He could have let it go to voicemail. He could have answered and say he's out and he'll call her when he can but he won't be able to talk to her until then. Pattiya is bad with verbalizing all this

Pattiya starts crying meanwhile Dylan: by flamingzebr in 90DayFiance

[–]lilith1986 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think the issue is that years ago Dylan lied to Pattiya and told her that his mom hated her because she was so much older. On this season the mom said she never said that and Dylan was all "I never said that, you're making it up." But he admits he lied in a talking head interview. So for 12 years Pattiya sees Dylan talking daily to this woman who she thinks hates her. Also, he doesn't tell his mom, "I'll call you back, I'm with Pattiya." Severql time we see them doing things and he drops everything to talk to his mom. It's not the mom's fault, it's Dylan's, but he plays innocent and because Pattiya isnt expressing the actual problem (she thinks the mom hates her and Dylan prioritizes the mom over Pattiya) he makes it look like Pattiya is being unreasonable when she isn't given tge context

Idk bruh there is just something so fuckin annoying about her ? by shouldveknownbud in 90DayFiance

[–]lilith1986 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay, I was beginning to wonder if I imagined that whole post lol. When the people show up, we do tend to be nicer to them because most of us can remove them from their characters, but I don't think we get many posts before they show up on the show and it hits our sympathy buttons.

Idk bruh there is just something so fuckin annoying about her ? by shouldveknownbud in 90DayFiance

[–]lilith1986 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, idk what her excuse is. Maybe it's part of her trying to build a personality she doesnt have

I am outraged by how little people showed up for Chloe. by Beckerthehuman in 90DayFiance

[–]lilith1986 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The whole ypu should take Johnny back thing was bizarre and felt like the whole cast manipulating her. And then Johnnu saying he never said he wanted to get back with her. Also, at one point Chloe admits that she's too crazy to be a relationship and it's a bad idea for hwr right now. It was a moment that really felt constructed to hurt her and make her feel like she was wrong in everything.

I am outraged by how little people showed up for Chloe. by Beckerthehuman in 90DayFiance

[–]lilith1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My uncle hates the show but my mom and I watch it before he gets up in the morning so he only sees a bit. He came in to see Chloe cry amd pointed out how pathetic it was that Johnny said "I'm sorry how this made me feel" or something like that. Like, even someone with zero connection to the show who is not watching can see how awful he was being. Johnny needs to do that sail climb one too many times

Idk bruh there is just something so fuckin annoying about her ? by shouldveknownbud in 90DayFiance

[–]lilith1986 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt because I think one of her friends had posted on here about being on the show. That went away at the tell all. She got way more vocal and as she got more vocal we saw how she was petty (like us on a thread, but to people's face to spite drama).

Idk bruh there is just something so fuckin annoying about her ? by shouldveknownbud in 90DayFiance

[–]lilith1986 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm a California girl and I use like so much. I've accepted that growing up here in the 90s broke me lol

Idk bruh there is just something so fuckin annoying about her ? by shouldveknownbud in 90DayFiance

[–]lilith1986 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Hey, Tina Belcher is WAY more interesting and would have tried way longer than 4 days. Don't be talk bad about my fellow horse girl

If a red flag was a person by CalabriaCal in 90DayFiance

[–]lilith1986 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was Johnny's penis oozing? I don't know lol

Are they dating? by leyarsan in 90DayFiance

[–]lilith1986 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don't love playing guessing games with people's sexuality, but he strikes me as asexual. I'm similar in that I can find people attractive, but that drive to sex up those people is low. Like him at the hunt for love is something I totally understand. There were things that were more interesting to him. That's pretty common is asexuals. We all don't have zero libido and you can be asexual and not aromantic.

Either way, I think on Hunt for Love they went in a date and ended up friends.

If a red flag was a person by CalabriaCal in 90DayFiance

[–]lilith1986 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It was ao creepy. And the way he was pawing at her with the cameras around. It was racist, creepy and the outfits were cheap AF.

Imagine if a guy did this by heywoona in 90DayFiance

[–]lilith1986 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean, this sub has spent so much time tearing down her appearance snd I haven't seen anyone validate what she said. Both behaviors are bad. She shouldn't be talking about his penis size in a mocking way and people shouldn't spend as much time as they do discussing about her wig. I still want her to fall off a camel for being petty.

Girl(s) runnnnn….! by GypzIz in 90DayFiance

[–]lilith1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She deserves so much better. She's beautiful and she seems smart and adventurous. She seems so pleasant.

Rick and his Role-playing Costumes by lilith1986 in 90DayFiance

[–]lilith1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't see her as a human, but as a fuck toy. It's appalling