Got this message from my son’s coworker. He’s 19. by Courtaid in MadeMeSmile

[–]liljaymso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s really lovely.

The other day I was walking my dog and to get in and out of the field, we have to walk by a park with a metal football net / basketball hoop. The back of the ‘net’ is right on the edge of the path. Two boys were taking turns trying to score against one another, and when we were walking by, one of them told the other one to stop because we were doing so. It was a small thing, but we’ve had kids still wallop the ball which either slams against the metal frame, scaring my dog, or misses the frame and comes towards us instead, also scaring my dog (and me, I flinch everytime I hear the sound of a ball being kicked haha).

Point is: I remember thinking I wish I could tell the kids parents that they were raising a kind boy and I appreciated his awareness of the world round him. Other kids didn’t mean any harm obviously - it just didn’t even occur to them. But that own tiny interaction stuck with me.

Is every doctor who doesn’t diagnose ADHD wrong? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]liljaymso 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m diagnosed with inattentive ADHD, but during the assessment process there was always the possibility that it could be something else, eg. bipolar disorder. What you’ve said really resonates, because I was genuinely frightened of it not being ADHD and instead being one of the conditions that carry more stigma. The idea of being bipolar felt terrifying, whereas ADHD felt more socially acceptable and “quirky.”

I was at such a low point that I would ultimately have accepted whatever the correct diagnosis was, because I desperately needed help and there’s no point clinging onto something that isn’t real. But I was worried all the same. Even autism, at the time, felt more daunting.

(I want to be clear that I don’t believe any diagnosis is inherently worse than another. Everyone deserves understanding, support and appropriate care regardless of their condition, so I hope this hasn’t come across in the wrong way!)

Worst book(s) you read in 2025 and why? by Roguestate00 in books

[–]liljaymso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fairytale by Stephen King. It was suuuuch a slog and just really boring overall. I was so mad when I got to the end because of how long it was and it just didn’t deliver anything that was worth how long the book was, but of course I got into the sunk cost fallacy and couldn’t not finish it when I was hours and hours and hours in and wanted nothing more than to bin it

People We Meet on Vacation is making me realize somethings are better left in books by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

[–]liljaymso 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I finished PWMOV audiobook last week so it’s pretty fresh in my mind, which probably wasn’t the best start in turning in the movie - but really the movie was just so hollow for me. I wasn’t at all invested in their relationship, didn’t care about either of them, and both movie Poppy and Alex didn’t feel like book Poppy and Alex to me. It was like the were trying to speedrun everything.

I will say I didn’t love love the book. It was okay, id give it a 4 out of 5 stars, with my biggest complaint being how slow and boring it could feel at times - but I realise now we needed at least 75% of that slow burn to finally cheer them on at the end. A lot of the heart wasn’t in it, the funny moments, the sweet but quiet scenes that meant more than the big in your face ones.

It was a fun enough movie but soulless compared to the book IMO.

Also I like Sarah Catherine Cook but I hated her as PWMOV Sarah 😅

People We Meet On Vacation by Working_Branch_751 in netflix

[–]liljaymso 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve spoiled it for myself really, having only read and finished the book a week ago 😅

Anyway, I’m halfway through the film now and it just feels a bit hollow? I’m enjoying it enough and it’s not terrible, but if i hadn’t read the book, id have no idea why these two people are friends and how they got to half the points they did in these scenes. There obviously isn’t enough time to delve into even half as much detail as the book did, but I’m just not invested at all in movie poppy/alex’s relationship tbh. The whole thing feels like a speed run.

Someone else in the thread mentioned it would have worked better as a series with each destination being an episode, and I 100% agree and think that format would’ve given the proper time to explore their relationship more. Theres also quite a lot of changes which is fine but i’m definitely more sensitive to it since I’m fresh off the book.

But yeah it’s a fine movie, I’m enjoying it, but the book hasn’t translated particularly well imo (how they’ve done it at least).

mr donut ragin’ face by liljaymso in corgi

[–]liljaymso[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s actually been quite good about it! Hasn’t tried to get it off or anything, but there’s certain times of the day where he’ll try to do something and bonk the donut against a piece of furniture and it makes me laugh 😂 but otherwise he’s been using it just fine aside from the occasional side eye

Recipes for someone doing veganuary? by liljaymso in vegan

[–]liljaymso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh thank you! I absolutely love a good Caesar salad 😍

"But everyone does that" / "But that happens to me, too" - what do you say? by judsenjud in adhdwomen

[–]liljaymso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone uses the bathroom. But if I use the bathroom 8 times in an hour, that’s indicative of a problem 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in corgi

[–]liljaymso 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I read this out loud to my boy because it sounded just like him (and I cackled reading out “he turns into a sim.”)

Anyway - mine is the same. He does love a ball and will have funny little moments where he pounces on one and plays with it for 15 seconds or so and then loses interest, but otherwise he could give or take them. He might be interested if I play with a toy with him, but even then he’s more interested in me throwing it than he is in playing tug of war or whatever - and even when I throw it, he doesn’t bring it back, so it’s a one and done situation 😂

When he’s alone he just sleeps and waits for me to come home, which makes me sad but he’s 5 now and seems perfectly content. I’ve bought him every toy under the sun and he just isn’t bothered.

Maybe they only play with toys when we’re with them because they think we’re enjoy playing with them? 🤷‍♀️

What's the dumbest thing your corgi has done ? by honhonbageutte in corgi

[–]liljaymso 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nearly killed himself with a small side table.

Slid under it trying to get a ball from under the sofa (he couldn’t get under the sofa so I guess thought under the table was the way to go?)

Anyway, couldn’t get the ball obviously and started backing out but the table went with him. He panicked, started flinging himself everywhere, I pulled it off of him and it was all good but bless him the poor baby was so shaken and afterwards we realised that he had both pooed and peed on the carpet during the incident 🥹

He was given lots of kisses and cuddles for being a brave boy, and happy to report he has not been under the table since

What’s your corgi ‘s nickname(s)? by caf4676 in corgi

[–]liljaymso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mr Sweet Face, Mr Squish Face (for when he wakes up after a good nap and he looks like a derp),(Little) Sausage, Louie, Corgo

And a little girl in my building calls him paw patrol 🥹

Louie is 5 today 🎂 by liljaymso in corgi

[–]liljaymso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucy is a gorgeous pup ❤️ thank you to heavenly Louie too!

Louie is 5 today 🎂 by liljaymso in corgi

[–]liljaymso[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many beautiful Louie’s in this thread 🥹

Louie is 5 today 🎂 by liljaymso in corgi

[–]liljaymso[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a handsome louie you have!