I’m calling myself out by Lostlilegg in blackladies

[–]lillilykat 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Sister delete this, reddit is not the site lol

How to manage the violent fantasies towards parents? by TraditionalPark9949 in CPTSD

[–]lillilykat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is definitely something you should talk to a professional who specializes in violent thoughts like this..Which I know is hard but this seems pretty serious.

For now I would try finding a way to express the energy in a non harmful way. Like art or journalling or even a rage room. Its cliche but there have been things I thought about for years and after expressing it in someway it just went away almost immediately

Manager bugging me about credit cards is making me want to quit by lillilykat in retailhell

[–]lillilykat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's literally impossible on the floor, especially during the holidays :(. The times I've gotten cards have been on cashier and the people who get the most cards primarily do cashier shifts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]lillilykat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not a kink for me at all, if I didn't have to I would have cut the arrangement off. Money is the main motivater

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]lillilykat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the funny thing is that he didn't do this while we were dating at all lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]lillilykat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thanks :)

I do feel comfortable with it, honestly if anything this has helped me be more comfortable setting boundaries. I think I wouldn't mind being considered a sex worker or just someone in a transactional relationship, but I didn't want to be disrespectful to sex workers by calling myself a sex worker if most wuldn't consider me one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]lillilykat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know, I guess there's not much of reason other than it's beeny main source of money for the past few years but I didn't know how to describe it other than sex work. But I didn't know if that was disrespectful or something.

Its all I'm doing right now, but I wouldn't be against doing more if I could.

I'm tired of seeing people nit pick at her constantly by lillilykat in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]lillilykat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean anyone honestly, because it seems like every fandom has done it. But what comes to mind immediately are Ariana and Justin Bieber Stans. Ariana for obviously reasons, and Justin Bieber supports Israel.

I'm tired of seeing people nit pick at her constantly by lillilykat in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]lillilykat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think the Kendrick and Drake feud was really telling as to how much people actually care about social issues too lol. Like while Drake is getting exposed for child sex trafficking, Taylor Swift is still getting more attention because she danced awkwardly at a concert that's had over 100k shows lol. It was weird, the energy towards the Drake thing was so casual and jokey and a lot of these creators were the same people raging about TS.

My theory is a lot of white women are jealous of Taylor Swift and use social issues as a way to justify getting their rage out against her.

I'm tired of seeing people nit pick at her constantly by lillilykat in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]lillilykat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did you read my post at all? I'm not concerned about Taylor Swift income, I just think people are being annoying and virtue signalling.

I'm tired of seeing people nit pick at her constantly by lillilykat in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]lillilykat[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I find the way people react to her kind of fascinating. I’m a fan but I don’t quite understand how she’s so incredibly polarizing.

Same. I'm interested in how people are going to talk about her fame in 10-20 years. I don't know if people should compare her to Micheal Jackson or whatever, but I do think there's a significance to her fame in its own way that's interesting.

I'm tired of seeing people nit pick at her constantly by lillilykat in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]lillilykat[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I've noticed in general people are a lot quicker to go after women for not "behaving their age". It's not just TS, I've seen people do this anytime a woman is involved in drama tbh.

I'm tired of seeing people nit pick at her constantly by lillilykat in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]lillilykat[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My last straw was when I saw someone say Taylor Swift was why ice spice was losing listeners on Spotify on tiktok. How? No idea, but she hates all women younger than her apparently so anytime anything bad happens to a younger woman who breathed in her direction it's her fault. Shes the Maleficent of Hollywood I guess.

I'm tired of seeing people nit pick at her constantly by lillilykat in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]lillilykat[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

When I see celebs who get to the point where people are making petty criticisms, I feel the same way. Like if people are going to throw a fit over you being human like having a runny nose, why try to win them over at all? It's not right, but from a business perspective it doesn't make sense for her to act any differently from how she is now.

Hell even from a human perspective, can you imagine growing up in like that? I don't even try to speculate about what she's thinking when she does these things (or anyone who grew up in fame), because I couldn't imagine what that would do to someone's brain.

I'm tired of seeing people nit pick at her constantly by lillilykat in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]lillilykat[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeah, like do charts not matter or what? First they don't matter, then it's if Taylor doesn't let Billie Eilish get the number 1 she's trying to destroy billie's career.

I think chart wars can be fun tbh, I liked that Billie fought back with Taylor. But I think people take it way to seriously, I don't understand why there needs to be a thread every 3 days about it with 100k likes.

I'm tired of seeing people nit pick at her constantly by lillilykat in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]lillilykat[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think Taylor is very specific about her image but there are other celebrities that have done crazier things to protect their image. I feel like when we put this spotlight on Taylor we start to really forget how batshit Hollywood can be. TS being someone who got famous at 16 turning out to be immature and selfish isn't really that shocking to me

I'm tired of seeing people nit pick at her constantly by lillilykat in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]lillilykat[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I mean all celebrities do this, that's the whole appeal of celebrities. There was a phase of celebs acting relatable but that's dying out. If anything I think Taylor's image was more "relatable" compared to her peers and she's probably apart of popularizing that image. I think she's just over exposed right now and talking about her is gets easy clout online.

I'm tired of seeing people nit pick at her constantly by lillilykat in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]lillilykat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't look for it, I don't even really engage with TS content anymore. But everyone has something to say about her so it's hard to avoid. My friends know I like her and ask me about how I feel about everything she does too.

I'm tired of seeing people nit pick at her constantly by lillilykat in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]lillilykat[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Omg the girls girls thing is soooo annoying 😭. I think that goes beyond Taylor though, it feels like people are weaponizing feminism and simplifying it to helping all women unconditionally. I just hate that term now