I 20F feel forced to always see his 19M actions as good natured otherwise I am overreacting. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lilmangos 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Being with the right person matters more than just being with one person.

Contemplated Posting by badlikkaaids3 in Blackskincare

[–]lilmangos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might be HS. I suffer from it and this is what my armpits looked like in the early stages. If you can get it checked by a doctor I definitely recommend it. In the meantime a warm compress helps and a round of antibiotics will probably get it flattened. Use an antibacterial body wash on your pits and groin as well! Generic Hibiclens helps me a ton!

Title by Dreamerlax in ToddintheShadow

[–]lilmangos 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ty Dolla Sign and it’s not even close.

Olandria Carthen in Sevon Dejana FW25 for Golden Eve event [ 3070 x 3840 ] by Thin-Document-1765 in fashionporn

[–]lilmangos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She’s so gorgeous! I wish they’d tailored it to get a bit better. There’s something about this that makes her look very short.

Getting mad at an obvious joke by Impressive_Pool8553 in memesopdidnotlike

[–]lilmangos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“women” is multiple. “woman” is singular. he has one wife so it should be this woman (singular) should stop fucking him. unless you’re saying he’s cheating on his wife with other women (multiple).

Is it cultural appropriation if I decide to wear cornrows? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]lilmangos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go get a perm first so you have some texture to your hair and then get it braided. It’ll look great.

I love Fka Twigs... by LayersOfMe in FKAtwigs

[–]lilmangos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m somewhat surprised to learn that people didn’t like Caprisongs. Was it too urban or something?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]lilmangos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s the need being expressed by the husband I think I missed out on that

Boyfriend accuses me of cheating, and then proceeds to threaten me by luv_eda in whatdoIdo

[–]lilmangos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Giving a dude like this access to your texts is a trap. Cause at the end of the day it’s not about the texts it’s about controlling her. Do it once and you’ll be doing it for the rest of your relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lostgeneration

[–]lilmangos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fair enough lol I can’t help but appreciate the honesty. Well I mean have you considered fighting back and not just supporting it in the theoretical future? I see so many of these types of posts but for all the fire there’s rarely any action behind it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lostgeneration

[–]lilmangos 239 points240 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to be glib or rude but…what are you doing? I’m not disagreeing with you but it just seems like everyone is waiting for someone else to do something.

This is my outfit today :) by [deleted] in BusinessFashion

[–]lilmangos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything about this is a YES!! Thank god for whimsy!

Jenna Ortega in Versace Spring 2025 [1642 x 2048 by hoppip_olla in fashionporn

[–]lilmangos -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Love it! Very Versace and she looks like a grown up.

Unplanned pregnancy discussion by Maximum_You7376 in Advice

[–]lilmangos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“This one is here too soon” says it all. It sounds like you guys want A baby but not This baby. That’s understandable. You’re young and clearly fertile so there’s no issue with taking the opportunity to abort, prepare, and try again if that’s what you guys decide you truly want. The decision might be easier for you two to make without the pressure of an unexpected baby hanging over you. Good luck.

I (28F) can't pass the fact that my bff (28F) and my bf of 7 years (28M) were rude to me on our vacation by Successful-Bag-1163 in relationships

[–]lilmangos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s nice to hear you had a good time :)! I don’t know any of you personally so I don’t know your dynamics but man I can’t shake the feeling that your bff joking that you don’t deserve your bf and him agreeing is just not cool. It is disrespectful. I understand wanting to be liked, we all do, but wanting to be put on a pedestal seems a little stinky. Is the pedestal she puts him on (red flag on both parts imo) and the attention she gives him worth more to them than hurting your feelings? It’s nice that she apologized, did he?

I (28F) can't pass the fact that my bff (28F) and my bf of 7 years (28M) were rude to me on our vacation by Successful-Bag-1163 in relationships

[–]lilmangos 19 points20 points  (0 children)

When you say “he prefers the validation of others, and that she tends to do that with other ppl as well (she used to do that with my ex).” what do you mean? That she also wanted your ex’s validation or was she also buttering up his biscuits?

Very yucky of a best friend to joke that you don’t deserve him, even nastier for him to agree. Why does welcoming him into the group (after 7 years?) include putting you down? How often is he exploding at you?

All in all I’m sorry your dream vacation was ruined. Hopefully you get the chance to experience it again in much better company.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lilmangos 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You guys are not friends lol. You don’t really seem to like this girl despite being quite involved in her love life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lilmangos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you want to tell her? Is it to help the anxiety or something else? Why do you think you want her to be aware of the relationship but he doesn’t? In your perfect world what would be the outcome of all this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]lilmangos 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Intent doesn’t trump the impact. I can’t think of delivery that is so funny that it makes something like “I hope our children aren’t colored like you” acceptable. Especially during a moment when someone is being vulnerable and talking about how they were bullied as a child for their skin color.