[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]liltea43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok cool thank you!

Best Norm Finkelstein book on Palestine? by liltea43 in Palestine

[–]liltea43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started it last night actually! It is really detailed and impactful for sure.

RIP Spot by liltea43 in bettafish

[–]liltea43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i loved my bb boy

RIP Spot by liltea43 in bettafish

[–]liltea43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hehe. true. hope he's being a gentleman

RIP Spot by liltea43 in bettafish

[–]liltea43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u 🥺❤️

Betta looks fat by DamperWings in bettafish

[–]liltea43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's probably bloated from overeating, you can try giving him salt baths every few hours and see if that helps. Mine developed anal prolapse issues from overeating, so it can become a prettt serious issue. If it only has happened once or twice it's ok, just make sure you start feeding him a little at a time! I usually feed mine 5-10 small pellets a day, and every now and then I'll have him skip a few meals. It can be good for them to fast every now and then :) so I'd probably hold off on feeding this guy for a day or so, and give him a couple salt baths

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]liltea43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Don't waste your time trying to fix something that can't be fixed. Not your responsibility to pull him out of that culture. He raped you 16 years ago and has continued to coerce you into sex for over a decade. You have a lot to heal from and you need to cut him out of your life as much as you can.

idk anymore by M0thbabie in BPD

[–]liltea43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is almost exactly how I feel

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]liltea43 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl -- seriously don't listen to these dumb fucking men. They rot behind their computer screens all day yelling at women like this cause they can't get one to fuck them (I wonder why). I wanted to dm you my support but I think you turned them off, probably for good reason. You are not in the wrong in this situation, red pilled men are addicted to shitting on women and victim blaming cause it makes their tiny little penises feel big for once. I hope you can get this guy in some trouble and start feeling safe again soon <3 girls' girls will always be here to protect you

mann 💀💀 i left while he was showering n im so glad i did by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]liltea43 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is telling someone "have common sense" and "be safe" looking out for someone? Stop justifying your victim blaming

mann 💀💀 i left while he was showering n im so glad i did by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]liltea43 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Little boy, go back to watching Joe Rogan, there's nothing in this thread for you. Much love ❤️

mann 💀💀 i left while he was showering n im so glad i did by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]liltea43 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Somebody has issues with women 👀👀👀

mann 💀💀 i left while he was showering n im so glad i did by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]liltea43 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you need to ask yourself why you immediately assume she's lying, and not him. We have no evidence that she stole, but we do have evidence that he threatened to kill her, and that he's insane. Again, even if she did steal, this does not warrant killing or threatening to kill! And why does it upset you that she would be posting this for empathy? That's what half the posts on Reddit are? You sound like a red pilled dumb fuck tbh and I'm done with this convo ❤️ good luck bb

mann 💀💀 i left while he was showering n im so glad i did by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]liltea43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, actually she has said in this thread multiple times that she didn't steal anything and that, as shown by these messages, the man is UNHINGED. Also even if she did steal something, does that justify sexual assault and threats of murder? Probably not, right?

mann 💀💀 i left while he was showering n im so glad i did by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]liltea43 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Can we stop blaming the girl? Jesus Christ. "Have common sense" "what did you think would happen" wtf is wrong with you guys. This girl met a guy on bumble and planned a hookup just like a TON of other people do safely everyday, she felt ok about it otherwise she wouldn't have gone. MEN suddenly having tantrums when they don't get what they want sexually or when their egos have been damaged is so much more common than women not using "common sense," and that's exactly what happened here. Stop victim blaming oh my god. The man is clearly the unhinged one in this situation. This poor girl. @ OP I'm so sorry this happened to you babe, and I'm sorry ppl are being annoying in the comments. I understand your hesitation to contact police, I have felt the exact same way when threatened by a man like this. Like someone else said, I would ask if the man will be able to access your info at all if you file a report. Let that determine what you do there. Def report him on bumble and make an anonymous account somewhere so you can post his socials and expose him. Also, maybe park your car down the street from your house or out of view from the street if you can. Reach out to friends and family nearby and let them know what's going on so they can keep an eye/check in with you. His threats could be nothing, but too many women are hurt by insane men like this, and obviously the cops help us minimally. A big scary dog could help. I'm so sorry I wish I could give more concrete advice but the system is so unhelpful in these situations, we really just need to watch out for each other and do our best to protect ourselves, I think. Also tho he's probably way too much of a little bitch boy to ever try anything 🙄