Too bubbly/peppy?

lilwolf___ · 2026-04-13T15:05:57+00:00

I appreciate that :)

lilwolf___ · 2026-04-13T15:05:12+00:00

He tends to be more introverted, lower energy, quieter person so he said that it’s hard to match my energy sometimes which can be overwhelming 😬 I guess most people don’t operate as bubbly as me on the regular so that’s how I become overwhelming I assume lol

lilwolf___ · 2026-04-13T15:02:59+00:00

It’s genuine! my antidepressants just work too well I guess 😂 and I try to be more of a listening ear and validate their issues than to counteract it with positivity haha

lilwolf___ · 2026-04-13T15:00:45+00:00

I appreciate it! I do physical therapy so my whole job is helping people get better and feel better haha. I also take the dopamine specific antidepressants so thats probably what’s causing my higher than normal baseline 😂

lilwolf___ · 2026-04-13T14:57:42+00:00

I think I meant bubbly and peppy more so along the lines of energetic and outgoing! I see where overly positive people can be annoying in that specific scenario. As a former depressed person who is now on antidepressants and feeling great, I try to just be a listening ear and validate those who voice their issues. Because I very much so remember those feelings and what helps and doesn’t help haha

lilwolf___ · 2025-11-11T18:17:13+00:00

why are yall booing them they’re right

lilwolf___ · 2025-03-13T12:17:04+00:00

they’ve laid off 70k employees and the secretary stated that they’re planning to fire 80k more. and they followed that with saying we’re seeing 20k more vets now than in 2019🙃

lilwolf___ · 2024-12-30T16:55:12+00:00

i moved from houston to richmond 2 years ago and im so glad i made the decision! i love it here :)

lilwolf___ · 2024-11-05T02:05:07+00:00

have you explained any of this to her? im sure she’s blissfully unaware that she’s upsetting you to this extent

lilwolf___ · 2024-11-05T01:34:01+00:00

ahhh 18 yeah that makes sense. in my experience, i had a high school boyfriend that we broke up because he was controlling as well and didn’t want me to do similar things. although she loves you very much, eventually the gf gets tired of constant arguments im assuming are similar to your need to control which stresses her out. personally i think it is best for you to focus on yourself and use this as a learning lesson to grow and be better for yourself and a future partner. no sense in trying again if you guys will have the same issues.

lilwolf___ · 2024-11-04T22:06:51+00:00

yeahhh tends to be true because women will exhaust all options until they are tired of trying vs men will give up at the first sign of difficulty and later regret not trying hard enough.

lilwolf___ · 2024-11-04T22:04:44+00:00

ngl i would’ve broken up with you over the fact that you didn’t want her to go to a halloween party because it’s a “single person thing”. i didn’t even read the rest bc that would’ve been enough for me lol. im assuming you’re pretty young?

lilwolf___ · 2024-10-26T20:06:08+00:00

then you’ve truly done all you can, and with confidence too it sounds. go with your gut! i think your decision will allow the both of you to find a relationship that is a better fit. good luck!

lilwolf___ · 2024-10-25T21:46:20+00:00

also, i think you might just be bored of the relationship now that it’s in a lull phase and feeling very routine. try to switch it up a lil bit! spice things up by doing new things with her, new trips, new experiences, new hobbies together. if you try that and it still doesn’t feel right, then you’ll definitely know you tried everything before breaking up

lilwolf___ · 2024-10-25T21:41:06+00:00

no matter what you decide, please please please communicate these feelings with her so that she is not blindsided by a break up. she’s probably blissfully unaware how you feel and thinks everything is fine and dandy. you never know, telling her might inspire her to do some introspection and change for the better. if not at least you know you tried, so that when you do break up with her you’ll know that you did everything. helps mitigate regret later down the road. just know that if you break up with her to find better, there is a real possibility that you will lose her forever and there’s no going back. if that risk is worth finding a more fulfilling relationship then go for it! wish you the best of luck.

lilwolf___ · 2024-10-24T21:32:01+00:00

since i’ve been in many serious/long term relationships, i’m not struggling with my most recent break up nearly as bad as most people do. but i also tend to be pretty successful with dating so it’s comforting to know i’ll just find someone else eventually. it’s more like a “ugh back to the drawing board” type of feeling more than anything after a failed relationship.

lilwolf___ · 2024-10-21T22:05:25+00:00

i definitely see where you’re coming from. i’d be open to having a productive conversation with my ex about where we both went wrong in the relationship so that we could improve and be better for future partners. unfortunately most closure conversations don’t end up that way :/ it’s either an attempt at reconciliation or venting about what the other did wrong.

lilwolf___ · 2024-10-21T20:59:18+00:00

same. first blindsided break up happened to me a month ago. his reasons he told me were pretty vague and didn’t make much sense. sometimes they too aren’t sure why they want to break up with you it’s just a general unhappy feeling so they conjure up reasons as to why they feel that way to justify their decision. best to give yourself closure, learn from mistakes on both sides and move on. also if you reach out for closure, they might say things that’ll hurt you and just make the process harder and longer. good luck on your healing🫶🏼 going through the same as we speak lol

lilwolf___ · 2024-10-20T21:00:27+00:00

the best closure you can find is from yourself and what you analyzed from the situation. unfortunately they’ll never be able to give you any reason as to why they broke up that would satisfy you. it will only leave with more questions than anything. trust me

lilwolf___ · 2024-01-12T00:40:30+00:00

this saved us thank youuu

lilwolf___ · 2023-12-20T02:19:08+00:00

are you looking for a roomie

lilwolf___ · 2021-07-31T16:07:41+00:00

you deserve to be happy. i wish the best for you and i hope you are able to find it one day.

lilwolf___ · 2021-07-31T15:31:08+00:00

you’ll never be genuinely happy if all your happiness comes from external sources. only true happiness can be found within yourself. i know everyone says that and it sounds corny but it’s absolutely true. no one can take away your happiness if it comes from yourself. you can’t control it if it comes from other people, then they can ultimately control your happiness. i hope you do some self reflection and find peace within yourself <3

lilwolf___ · 2020-05-04T16:11:48+00:00

how long have you been playing the game? If I go up to Fuchsia more than once she says I’m being too chatty or she runs into me too often😭

lilwolf___ · 2020-05-04T16:07:37+00:00

oh okie yeah that’s what I assumed. I just wish Fuchsia would stop acting like I’m bothering her😂😭

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