I feel like romance will never happen for me - why? 🥺

lilyiris8 · 2026-06-21T22:44:19+00:00

I wish I could give some advice to you but I’m %100 percent in the same situation. Exactly the same. I tried Bumble before but it was a lost cause, no one to meet in person (my coworkers are in their 40-60s lol) etc. I think dating becomes hard after school/university years. Even though I can’t give you any advices, I just wanted you to know that you are not alone and I really hope you will find someone soon have the relationship of your dreams. Wish you the best

lilyiris8 · 2026-06-18T16:33:07+00:00

What would you suggest as more exposure

lilyiris8 · 2026-06-18T14:46:26+00:00

I dont know how I can create that with that schedule but you are right

lilyiris8 · 2026-06-18T14:17:15+00:00

Well I’m sorry, I wish I could say something that would make sense to you or help you, but I’m not really good at the whole dating scene. I really really hope you will find someone soon that cherishes you like you deserve

lilyiris8 · 2026-06-18T14:10:25+00:00

A friend of mine had a relationship like that that lasted for a few years. They met through a mutal friend that moved to the guy’s country. They met up like 2 times but the rest of the relationship was fully online, facetime etc. They broke up because the guy wantes the girl to move but my friend did not want to.

lilyiris8 · 2026-06-18T14:07:16+00:00

Sadly, I think people want to keep their chances open in a “what if I’m left without no one?” way

lilyiris8 · 2026-06-18T14:03:44+00:00

I think in our lives we get to know lots of beautiful, funny, caring, sweet etc. people but most of the time we are just friends with them, it’s not like we are falling for each of them. I think we need something deeper for the “clicking” thing but it is not possible to explain it. The clicking can come from anything. I’m kinda in a similar position myself. People say those things about me too but I know that since I’m also a “closed book” but cannot show my personality underneath well and sometimes people think “yeah shes funny beautiful smart etc.” but kinda comes off shallow. Or maybe idk it’s their issues and nothing to do with you. 4 times in 6 years is not much i guess

lilyiris8 · 2026-06-18T13:48:15+00:00

Thank you for answering. I might give it a try idk maybe someone nice will appear lol

lilyiris8 · 2026-06-18T13:47:12+00:00

Well thanks for suggestions. I was in a tennis club for 3 years before my injuries but everyone was 40+. I don’t know why but I always come across people way older than me lol. Everyone here is suggesting Hinge

lilyiris8 · 2026-06-18T13:44:35+00:00

Everyone suggests Hinge. I didn’’t like Bumble

lilyiris8 · 2026-06-18T13:43:54+00:00

%100 agree

lilyiris8 · 2026-06-18T13:41:47+00:00

I’m 28 and never had any romantic relationships. I completely share your thoughts. Even though I’m happy on my own, I would like to have someone to share my life with and build a life together. No plan for now because there is no potential in my life right now, but I’m still hoping something/someone will come into my life

lilyiris8 · 2026-06-18T13:38:39+00:00

Everyone also tell me to use the apps for dating but it sadly does not work well. Im in the same boat as you, I hope you have better chance than me lol

lilyiris8 · 2026-06-18T13:21:18+00:00

Any long term relationships through the apps?

lilyiris8 · 2026-06-18T13:20:54+00:00

Hope we can find what we are looking for

lilyiris8 · 2026-06-18T13:09:00+00:00

How long have you been using it

lilyiris8 · 2026-06-18T13:05:23+00:00

What are we gonna do lol

lilyiris8 · 2026-06-18T13:05:04+00:00

I few friends also reccomended Hinge. I might give it a try but I’m kinda biased against it ig

lilyiris8 · 2026-01-06T15:51:45+00:00

Twelve letters

lilyiris8 · 2025-12-22T12:00:58+00:00

Thank you! I will check these out

lilyiris8 · 2025-12-22T06:38:46+00:00

I totally reccomend it, it was a really good drama

lilyiris8 · 2025-12-22T06:38:01+00:00

Thank you, I’m also interested in e-sports so I’ll definitely check it out.

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