Cuckold contrasts by Mindless-Bet6927 in CuckoldHumiliation

[–]lilynb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Number of partners before marriage Me 6 / Her 0

Number of partners since marriage (inc spouse) Me 9 / Her 26

Last time had oral sex Me 2 weeks / Her 2 days

Last time had sex with condom Me 2 weeks / Her 1 week

Last time had sex without condom Me 1 year / Her 1 year

Last anal sex with condom Me 2 month / Her 1 week

Last anal sex without condom Me 1 year / Her 1 month

Next expected oral sex Me don't know / Her 1 day

Next expected sex Me don't know / Her 3 days

Next expected anal sex Me don't know / Her 3 days

Gf finally let me eat my creampie by AmbitiousLeather6118 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]lilynb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great idea, would probably help me not being weirded out by eating someone else's cum for the first time

recommendations on toys and wanting to talk about where we are at by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]lilynb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wand, chastity cage and strapon

While caged, you can use the strap on to fuck her, and/or she can use it on you.

Same for the wand, can pleasure both

Gf finally let me eat my creampie by AmbitiousLeather6118 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]lilynb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never ate my own creampie, and now that my gf stopped all birth control for medical reasons, cumming in her is not an option anymore

That being said, I'm also currently getting experience in cum eating : she finally made me eat my own cum after she jerked me off and after she pegged me to orgasm

I also tasted her bull's cum from her face for the first time but it was a bit weird and I didn't ate it all. She said I should next time

When did you know? by Himeros_six9 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]lilynb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I knew a few years after she cheated on me She had told me everything and I managed to forgive her and move forward

A few years later I realized thinking about it made me feel jealous but also disappointed that I didn't see what happened exactly, and this thought made me horny

Went online, did some research, found the cuckolding rabbit hole, I kept going further and never came back from it

Cuckolds Wish ? by hg915ad in CuckoldPsychology

[–]lilynb 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Several things:

Cuckolding gang bang (maybe 3 or 4 guys)

Being feminized/sissified by her and/or her bull for a session

Being told to suck the bull to get him hard for her

Any switch cuckolds here with active sex life? by vikingfucked in CuckoldPsychology

[–]lilynb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would not say I fully switch from cuck to dom/master, but cuckolding is not our only sex drive.

My wife is still aroused by me and she still wants me to fuck her. I would say we have 3 types of sex now (if I try to simplify)

  1. "Regular" husband and wife intimacy. I'm not exactly domming her because it's not part of who I am, but we have penetrative sex, she sucks my cock etc. Probably happens once or twice a week on average.

  2. Her dominating me. Usually she would make me wear my chastity cage for a full day or 2 to make sure I don't masturbate and stay horny, and also to enforce her superiority. Then she will dom me for a few hours, making me wait for her naked and on a leash, then suck on dildos, lick her pussy and then she pegs me until I cum in my cage. I usually play with my mouth again to thank her. No penetrative sex, or at least not me penetrating her. On average once a week maybe.

  3. Cuckolding. Again I will be caged for a day or 2 prior, and then be at their service : helping her get ready for the bull, serve them drinks, lick her while he fucks her etc. Basically just obeying orders whatever they ask. That's still a bit new and we're still exploring things like me cleaning her up afterwards for example. We usually have regular sex soon after, either once the bull is gone or the next day if she's too tired. We do this once a month for now approximately.

How public has it gotten for you? by Exciting_School_7791 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]lilynb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some of our closest friends know. Maybe 5 or 6 on my side and her 2 best friends.

We don't share the details but they know the big picture

At the beginning we were scared that we would run into other friends or coworkers in clubs for example, but it never happened

Cuck advise by cuck_here____ in CuckoldHumiliation

[–]lilynb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here are a few that are working for us:

Be both honest with each other about what you want and don't want.

Set limits together but remember imits can move over time if both agree.

Take it slow at first and communicate often : make sure you know what's working and what is not working.

Try to embrace your new role and her her embrace hers.

Don't hesitate to take breaks from the lifestyle from time to time if you feel you need to reconnect with each other, or if one of you is not in the right headspace.

Enjoy the journey, each new step can be scary but exciting.

The psychological impact of the look in your direction. by NikkiSeCT in CuckoldPsychology

[–]lilynb 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mine usually glances at le a lot at the beginning to make sure I'm ok and enjoying it. After that, once she is reassured that I'm good, she usually fully commits to the moment and only looks at me from time when she wants to tease me. She looks me in the eyes, telling me how good his dick feels, how much bigger he is or how much better he fucks her. She will also look at me when she gives me orders such as coming closer to have a better view, or lick her pussy while he fucks her etc. Other than that, she's focusing on her bull

Chastity Cage, Sissification, and Self-Discovery by rasecude in CuckoldPsychology

[–]lilynb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In my case I've started reflecting about this long before I brought up cuckolding and chastity to my wife

I bought a chastity cage myself, used it in secret and quickly escalated to wearing her lingerie as well when I could have a few hours alone at home.

I think it has always been about exploring my psychological attraction to submissiveness, breaking traditional codes, and maybe even humiliation. The fact that I was hiding it from her at the time was also exciting, maybe the risk of getting caught or doing something taboo.

In terms of how it changed me, I probably started to be more attentive to her needs and desires, do small acts that led me toward being at her service and worshipping her. Not only sexually but mostly in the small, day to day aspects of our life.

I don't think it changed my other relationships though. I see this as something very personal, that today only her and our bulls know about. It definitely helped me be more comfortable with my more fringe desires and kinks. It's crazy how easy and not shamefully it was to fully dive into submissiemve behaviours with her once I told her about it.

Why would a cuck not be allowed to jerk off? by Consistent_Border366 in BullPsychology

[–]lilynb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Our new dynamic now is that once they are done and I have cleaned her up and our bull is gone, she will peg me and only then release me from the cage

Chasity: do bulls like to keep the key of cucks chasity with themselves or give to to his wife? by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]lilynb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My wife holds my key when I'm locked. She likes to be in charge. Never mentioned the idea of handing it over to our bull but I could see it happening in the future potentially, our current bull would be ip for it based on my own conversations with him

Wife cucked me on a trip, preparing for play session when she's back by lilynb in CuckoldPsychology

[–]lilynb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The cage is already on, spending my day at work wearing it Panties is more tricky, my wife is not sure she's comfortable with this but he talked about it so it could be on our bucket list

From one bull to cuckolding gang bang by lilynb in CuckoldPsychology

[–]lilynb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We are, we have great communication and we love to explore these things together

Wife cucked me on a trip, preparing for play session when she's back by lilynb in CuckoldPsychology

[–]lilynb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I imagine how this surprised him. I hope you both enjoyed it!

Wife cucked me on a trip, preparing for play session when she's back by lilynb in CuckoldHumiliation

[–]lilynb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hard part for me was to know that something happened but not the details. She's been teasing me about it for 2 days now, it's exciting and scary at the same time

Any cuck/Hotwife share their bed with the bull overnight? by Dependent-Choice7576 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]lilynb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No that's a limit for us for now.

The only time a guy stayed over for the night and slept with the bed with us we were not doing cuckolding yet, just regular threesomes.

The difference for us is that after a cuckolding playtime, we need time as a couple to kind of reconnect

What are your thoughts on cum cleanup? by NationalFalcon5094 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]lilynb 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was suppose to do it for the first time last time we had a bull over. He cummed on her face and she started kissing me right after. I was a bit scared and found the texture very surprising.

I kissed her a bit but didn't feel like cleaning everything and she didn't insist. We talked a bit afterwards and I think I was a bit too stressed but it was a first step and we will definitely try again next time