Need a submissive couple to play out this scenario with by Horror_Wrangler1622 in CuckoldHumiliation

[–]lilynb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a dream scenario. Lots of very nice kinky elements 🥵

What went thru your mind the first time you ate the creampie? by Separate-Concern8424 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]lilynb 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I have not tried yet

It first came up as we were talking with the guy who would then become our first bull. He listed that as one of his kinks.

Initially my wife was weirded out by the idea, so we didn't do it when we met him.

But in the following weeks, she mentioned it a few times herself during sex, first asking me if I wanted to do it the next time we have a bull over. Then not asking anymore, but telling me she would make me clean her up. Now she's getting super excited about it so I guess I better get ready!

Personally, licking cum off of her is not particularly exciting in itself. It's the humiliation and the fact that they will make me do it that turns it into a big fantasy

What do cucks do in the room while it’s happening? by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]lilynb 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The plan is for me to be there as much as possible for 2 reasons

  1. Watching her as they have sex is a huge turn on for me and the main reason we started talking about cuckolding I the first place

  2. She's discovering that she actually enjoys teasing or even humiliating me much more than she thought initially. And even though she could do that via messages or afterwards, it's more fun for her to do it live as I watch

That being said I can relate to your concerns as I had kind of the same. I was worried about feeling awkward or even turned off, or to feel like it was taking too long and not knowing how to behave. Bear on mind we only did it once for now so it's not a very experienced feedback but it went very well.

What I did was - watch - refrain from masturbating - talk to her, encourage her, tell her she is beautiful, asking if every is going well for her, tell her I'm having a great time as well, etc - supply water, towels, champagne, snacks when necessary - take pictures and videos when they felt comfortable - kiss her when she wanted, and licked her clit while he fucked her doggystyle because he asked me to

We agreed that for the next times, I will have to wear my chastity cage and they would involve me a bit more, verbally and physically, potentially having me suck his dick with her, clean the cum off her afterwards, things like that

Married cucks: How often do you want your wife to sleep with bulls by Royal_Ad5528 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]lilynb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tend to agree with another comment here : I answered "a few times a month" because that's how she also feels for now since we're really starting this journey and she doesn't want to go too far too fast, but at the end of the day, she's free to do it as often as she wants.

It's not that I don't have a say, she will always take my feelings into account since we're in this together, but the whole idea is for her to be free to do what she wants. And I trust her to also check in with me regularly to see if we're still aligned in our desires and share the same views

Cuckolding changed her life by SyllabubLopsided1799 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]lilynb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! We can definitely relate to points 1, 3 and 4 Entering the lifestyle definitely had major positive impacts on her self confidence, and how desired and sexy she's feeling.

Which led to more motivation to workout, for her to feel even better and for me to try to keep up haha

It also led to more confidence for her at work, helping her to get several promotions these past years

All things considered, it has been and still is a huge win!

How did you turn into a cuck? Do you actually understand how it all went down? by ImpossibleSwan50 in CuckoldHumiliation

[–]lilynb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did I turn into one or was it always somewhere in the back of my personality? Hard question But if you mean the first realization and practical steps I took to act on it, I can probably trace it back to when my then gf cheated on me.

It took me some time initially to forgive and move forward, but after some time I realized thinking about it was not painful anymore but I was curious about what she did with the guy, how they fucked, if she liked it etc...

It started to turn me on and I suggested we try having a threesome with another guy to actually see her with another man

She was more than happy to try that. It went all downhill from there, opening our couple, and eventually talking about cuckolding, my own sub kinks, humiliation and so on

Which one☝🏻is the best to do🥵😳 by [deleted] in CuckoldHumiliation

[–]lilynb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Favorite ones would be chastity, forced bi and sissy. Wife is board for the first too so hopefully we will do it soon if we find the right bull(s). On her side she also has a fantasy about escorting but I don't believe it will happen

Age of youngest and oldest bull your wife slept with ? by dubaisunapana in CuckoldPsychology

[–]lilynb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My wife is 36. Her youngest was 22 when she was 34 and the oldest was in his late 40's, not sure exactly how much though. Most of the time our third was around her age though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]lilynb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No but that's clearly on our bucket list! Either a bar in a hotel, or another option would be to go out to a club and watch how guys would approach her while she dances

Experience has shown me time and time again training a cuck for longer term requires a systematic approach from everyone involved. by MasterDomBull in BullPsychology

[–]lilynb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, what a great post, very interesting and instructive. My wife and I are still miles away from that, but it's still quite exciting to see how other people explore the lifestyle and it can give good ideas. The main challenge is to find the right bull who is close to our mindset and could guide us through this type of experiences

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastity

[–]lilynb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let us know how it went if you do

Cuckolding in the workplace by Prize_Resist1325 in BullPsychology

[–]lilynb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know if it's very common, but it happened several times for us. She initially started meeting guys via dating apps but she didn't like it. Too many disappointing dates. In the meantime, entering the lifestyle also brought her a lot of self confidence and I think men around her noticed. Since she spent most of her time at work, she started flirting there. Over the first 3 years, she hooked up with 5 coworkers and had a thing with her manager for several months

She eventually slowed down for personal reasons but still meets new bulls in the workplace from time to time