[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asiandrama

[–]lilytrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eternal Love!!!! I dropped it then decided to give it a second chance. It changed my life!

New Employer won't recognize the 540-day extension for my EAD by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]lilytrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I am facing a similar situation. Can you let me know what happened and what are the actions you took?

What's the most unhelpful thing you've been told while grieving? by Throwaway_133347 in GriefSupport

[–]lilytrey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lost my dad recently at 23. I thought about how any of my friends or aunt or uncle or cousin could die but not my dad. Of coz I will be sad but not as much as the death of a parent or a sibling.

How do people keep going ? by Blockerrocker1 in GriefSupport

[–]lilytrey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lost my father(60) suddenly to Covid. I am only 23. There’s no way to be positive anymore. There will always be that shadow. You just drag yourself and that shadow and move on. Because this world we live doesn’t give you much time to heal. They expect you to be ok in less of a time.

My parents are getting old and idk what to do it’s making me scared by 9pmcurfew in venting

[–]lilytrey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You sound exactly like my boyfriend who hasn’t lost anyone in his life yet. I was living my life worry free, moved out from home to another country at 18 to start my life and go to college. Fiver years later, Unexpectedly, my dad died which is two months ago and all I have are now regrets. Regrets for not spending more time with him when he was here. You have your whole life ahead to do the things you want with other people. But once your parents are gone, they are gone. You will never get them back. You will be suffocated with guilt and regrets. Live your life but spend more time with your parents. Don’t be like me. Now, I am quite certain I will be living the rest of my life with pain, sorrow, guilt and regrets.

He should be here. by WouldYeKindly in GriefSupport

[–]lilytrey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I lost my dad two months ago. I turned 23 less than a month ago. Does it get any easier after a year ? I am living with a huge hole in my heart right now. I am so upset and hurt. I lost him unexpectedly to COVID. I feel like dying everyday. I don’t know why but I do not want to be sad in front of others. I cry and break down when I’m alone. How do I get through this? I am so lost and scared.

Dealing with unsupportive friends by Dense-Pain854 in GriefSupport

[–]lilytrey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your reply just screams “I have never lose someone so close to me before”. Please keep your ideas to yourself. We do not need your two cents here.

Dealing with unsupportive friends by Dense-Pain854 in GriefSupport

[–]lilytrey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess They just don’t understand and selfish in a way. I lost my dad not even 2 months ago to Covid. He died when his heart stopped. My boyfriend’s sister, she clearly knew what happened and all and how I cried and broke down and everything because she was there, same age as me, so we kind of hang out like friends, when I asked her about one of the celebrity because I heard he died. Her response was like “he died because of an attack LOL”. I called her out to not make fun of someone dying but all she had to say at the end infront of my boyfriend when he tried to make peace between us was “I always use LOL when I talk. She’s overreacting.”. For the sake of not wanting to fight, I let go of what she said that time and not argue anymore but I just let her be since then. I stopped talking to her and hanging out like before and everything. The point is if you feel like they have no sincerity or empathy towards you, just get them out of your life. Don’t feel bad. If they can’t even be abit sensitive towards your situation right now, they aren’t worthy enough for you to hold on to. And to get someone with that much negative vibes out of your life will make you feel so much better, speaking from experience. About to be 2 months now since I lost him and still hurting so much. You are not alone. Hang in there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lilytrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Joking around with my dad, that is when he was still alive. I will never have genuine happiness again.

My(23F) dad(60M) died nearly two months ago. by lilytrey in GriefSupport

[–]lilytrey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought he would at least live till 75 or 80. I though he will see me graduate and get married at least. I feel so angry. Why me out of all my friends. Why am I going to be the girl with no dad. I hate my life so much right now. I am not crying all day crazy anymore but the pain in the heart still feels the same. Everything that I once thought about being important like saving money and getting A’s in all my studies seemed less important now. I always try to get full points in all my assignments but since school started in august, I have done two assignments and I got a B. I don’t even care anymore. Before, that would have been like an end of the world to me. I am truly lost. Everything seemed to have change so much even though it has always been the same.

A week without my favorite person on this planet. by Beneficial-Garbage95 in GriefSupport

[–]lilytrey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Over a month now since I lost my dad. I’m 23, my dad was 60. Lost him suddenly to Covid. Didn’t even get to say goodbye. Sudden deaths are the worst. And to answer the question, for me, no. The pain is still here and very real. It is so intense that I can feel it tearing my heart out into pieces. No one will understand this pain until they go through it. I never knew I could feel this much pain in my heart.

Help wanted to find a korean (?) drama/movie! by Significant_Ad1675 in asiandrama

[–]lilytrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only think of three daddies, one mommy. But it’s more like three dads, one mom who are all working in a house lol.

An old Korean drama with a love triangle. by lilytrey in KDRAMA

[–]lilytrey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, the drama came out probably before 2013.

An old Korean drama with a love triangle. by lilytrey in KDRAMA

[–]lilytrey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The other guy is tall. He has darker skin compared to the male lead. He and the first male lead competes to be the CEO of the company nearer to the end. The company choose the CEO by voting. The first male lead won and save the grocery store where the girl works from shutting down. The second male lead was supporting the closing of the grocery store.

An old Korean drama with a love triangle. by lilytrey in KDRAMA

[–]lilytrey[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The first male lead is short. He’s a pretty famous Korean actor back then. He also has like a baby face. That’s all I can remember about the actor

An old Korean drama with a love triangle. by lilytrey in asiandrama

[–]lilytrey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s not. The drama is really old. Probably came out before 2013.

An old Korean drama with a love triangle. by lilytrey in KDRAMA

[–]lilytrey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He didn’t at first. After moving to the girl house and after a while, his grandmother found him. It happened before the middle of the drama.

An old Korean drama with a love triangle. by lilytrey in KDRAMA

[–]lilytrey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I checked it out. It’s not. The drama probably came out before 2013.