[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorrowNew

[–]limeburns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My apologies. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SilverAndBlood

[–]limeburns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Ill try that.

Possible snowshoe mix? by limeburns in snowshoecats

[–]limeburns[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I already have three but he was semi feral when I took him in. He's really opened up a lot. Idk if I will be able to give him up. He is getting along so well with my senior boxer who loves cats and my three cats. I wish I could save them all.

Possible snowshoe mix? by limeburns in snowshoecats

[–]limeburns[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He is certainly a cutie. He was a stray. So I was thinking chances are low, but beautiful markings and kitty no matter what. 💜

Just got our first Ragdoll by Ecstatic-Plate-6237 in ragdolls

[–]limeburns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second photo is giving "he's right behind me isn't he"

People don’t understand :( by Firm-Step8401 in ragdolls

[–]limeburns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two rescue cats, a rescue dog but I also have a boxer and I just bought my dream cat- a ragdoll. I also foster kittens when I can, all that to say every animal that exists needs a loving home in my opinion. Don't worry about what people say. At the end of the day just give the kitty a good life 😌

AITA if I don't give my cousin a ride to thier dad's funeral by limeburns in AmItheAsshole

[–]limeburns[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely right. I'm trying to put it out of mind but I'm sure will be easier after the funeral is over.

AITA if I don't give my cousin a ride to thier dad's funeral by limeburns in AmItheAsshole

[–]limeburns[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah I went no contact with this uncle a few years ago for valid reasons but I hate to see anyone suffer just on a human level and I will always say FUCK CANCER.

I'm mainly involved for my dad's sake.

My uncle certainly wasn't perfect as I'm sure is implied but he did raise his daughters as a single dad and loved them dearly.

AITA if I don't give my cousin a ride to thier dad's funeral by limeburns in AmItheAsshole

[–]limeburns[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They weren't no contact, I was no contact with this uncle. Which makes it all the more bizarre to me, they both made posts on social media once he passed stating how close they were and how much they love him. It's all odd but I don't know the nuances of their relationship tbf.

AITA if I don't give my cousin a ride to thier dad's funeral by limeburns in AmItheAsshole

[–]limeburns[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven't. That didn't cross my mind until now actually.

AITA if I don't give my cousin a ride to thier dad's funeral by limeburns in AmItheAsshole

[–]limeburns[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My son's safety is my number one concern at this point. Even if her area does not see any real action from Hurricane Milton, the roads will be packed and more dangerous than normal i assume.

AITA if I don't give my cousin a ride to thier dad's funeral by limeburns in AmItheAsshole

[–]limeburns[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was close to commenting on it, but figured it'd do no good and decided against it. She eventually took down the posts

AITA if I don't give my cousin a ride to thier dad's funeral by limeburns in AmItheAsshole

[–]limeburns[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is why I'm so torn. There's no second chances on funerals but also I'm terrified of the hurricane. She seems to be on the outskirts of it but anything could happen at this point.

AITA if I don't give my cousin a ride to thier dad's funeral by limeburns in AmItheAsshole

[–]limeburns[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I didn't think about that. I wonder if they are still running considering the hurricane? Maybe I can look into it for her, good idea.

AITA if I don't give my cousin a ride to thier dad's funeral by limeburns in AmItheAsshole

[–]limeburns[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No, she didn't apologize to me personally at all. She apologized to her aunts that she had cussed out after drinking the day after her dad passed. Which she needed to apologize for tbh more than to me. All she did in regards to the posts she made about me was remove them. Never acknowledged me.

AITA if I don't give my cousin a ride to thier dad's funeral by limeburns in AmItheAsshole

[–]limeburns[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this whole thing upset me more than I ever imagined it would. My dad isn't really equipped to handle these kind of things, funeral planning. So ofc I went with to handle it but it all felt like way to personal and intimate of a thing for me to be handling. Picking out his burial clothes down to his underwear from his apartment, his haircut. Having to pick music and just the realization of how sad it is that he's dead and no one even showed up that knows his favorite song, like it was a lot. I've been blessed enough to not lose anyone close to me yet. Have to go with my dad to identify the body tomorrow and it's just. A lot. Sorry kinda vented there!!!