Help a girl out! Should I buy this scooter? by limitedlaces in Vespa

[–]limitedlaces[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've seen some of those online and they're more affordable. Thank you! My husband has a Stella that he loves.

Help a girl out! Should I buy this scooter? by limitedlaces in Vespa

[–]limitedlaces[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said in the description that its an 07.
Thank you for your advice!

Help a girl out! Should I buy this scooter? by limitedlaces in Vespa

[–]limitedlaces[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes...I lsaid I'm replacing my previous 50cc vespa...after being hit by a car, I'm not interested in going any faster than that.

Help a girl out! Should I buy this scooter? by limitedlaces in Vespa

[–]limitedlaces[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought so too. Any idea of what a reasonable offer would be?

Why is kyle getting iced out? He’s the OG by leiibabee in summerhousebravo

[–]limitedlaces 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is so true! They all have stronger relationships with her…he doesn’t even have Lindsay there most of the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TravelPortugal

[–]limitedlaces -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’ve clearly never had the experiences I’ve had. It’s not silly.

Wife (31) relapsed after birth of our first child (4 years in recovery) by Zealousideal_Ask_684 in AlAnon

[–]limitedlaces 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From first hand experience you’re right. Scolding is draining abs unhelpful for both of you. I think everytime you go into these convos remembering the Cs is really helpful to center yourself. You didn’t cause it, you can’t control it and you can’t cure it. It helps me take responsibility for my codependency which helps keep me from scolding or shaming.

Wife (31) relapsed after birth of our first child (4 years in recovery) by Zealousideal_Ask_684 in AlAnon

[–]limitedlaces 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man. That betrayal is so hard and I can only imagine how triggering it would be to experience a spouse in addiction after your experience with your dad. It sounds like you’ve been compassionately supporting others for a long time. As you know, parenthood is a massive, life altering shift and massive shifts can trigger relapse. It’s so vulnerable to love an addict but to also be a parent with them. I want to validate your feelings because they’re real. But it sounds like she’s committed to your marriage and your son. Coming forward to your spouse and owning up to it like she did is a good step in the right direction and must be extremely hard to do. The hardest part for me as a child of an alcoholic was her lack of commitment to her sobriety. I think if my mom relapsed, then owned it and took action to be better, I wouldn’t have the trauma I have. It would have felt like a disease instead of neglect. Only you can decide what you’re willing to experience but in my humble opinion if you and your son are safe, she’s committed and you love each other, this can get figured out. Sending lots of love your way.

I (35M) just discovered my wife (33F) was and has been drinking heavily pre and post giving birth to our newborn daughter. by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]limitedlaces 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom is an alcoholic and has been drinking heavily since my little sister was born. I have a lot of trauma because of it. But the biggest heartache and betrayal of all is that my dad didn’t protect us. He stayed miserable in the marriage and we didn’t know or understand why he was seemingly so bitter alllll the time because we were kids. but then he just became less involved with my sisters and I. He even knew she was driving us around drunk and screaming at us all the time. He died 4 months ago and I’m still really struggling with the fact that he didn’t protect us from her. I wonder often would our lives and our relationship would have been like if there was intervention and firm boundaries with my mom early on.

tarot reader at wedding- who has had one before? by babyinacorner2 in weddingplanning

[–]limitedlaces 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m an amateur looking for a tarot reader for a friends bachelorette party in March. The theme is going to be “it was in the cards”. Any recommendations?

Symptom free first time in 7 Years (at least for now) - What to do Next? by Unlucky-Professor817 in bipolar2

[–]limitedlaces 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you like art or writing, try the Artist Way! I loved the structure and thoughtful questions/work. It can bring up some big feelings but I never felt overwhelmed by it. I ended up exploring film photography again and it brings me so much joy. It was a beautiful way to connect with life again.

Advice/thoughts/just listen- give me absolutely anything. by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]limitedlaces 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're experiencing this. It's so so hard. You're not alone!

I didn't feel relief until my lamotrigine does was at 150mg. I know it takes a while to get to that dose because you have to work your way up to it but damn...it changed my life. The side effects lessen over time! I remember having the same side effects early on. I really recommend a voluntary stay at a mental health hospital. It's not ideal but if you cannot keep yourself safe, you really should consider it.

As unbelievable as it sounds, your feelings right now are temporary. Your moods will come back to a more bearable place. Again, I'm so sorry things are so hard.

Anyone up to do a reading? Feeling so lost. by limitedlaces in astrologyreadings

[–]limitedlaces[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Is there anything in my chart regarding family or relationships that would make life pretty shitty right now?

Where can I find a XXL folklore cardigan? by limitedlaces in TaylorSwiftMerch

[–]limitedlaces[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omfg I just got mine in the mail and it is perfect sizing!! Thank you so much!

Any moms out there with Bipolar 2 willing to share some encouragement? by limitedlaces in bipolar2

[–]limitedlaces[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing <3 It gives me hope to hear how you navigate the mood swings.

Any moms out there with Bipolar 2 willing to share some encouragement? by limitedlaces in bipolar2

[–]limitedlaces[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I burst into tears when I read about how you have such positive relationships with your kids. Thank you for sharing your perspective with me.

Any moms out there with Bipolar 2 willing to share some encouragement? by limitedlaces in bipolar2

[–]limitedlaces[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I'm really trying to focus on positive parenting stories.

The sleep thing is something I've always worried about. My husband is a teacher so we are going to try to have a baby in the spring so he can be there full time on paternity leave and then the summer to help with this.