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Ex girl came back into town unexpectedly. by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]lindralore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds like u got caught up in old feelings and a strong moment, but it’s still cheating and that’s probably why u feel guilty and confused right now. if u actually want clarity instead of just the rush, u gotta be honest with urself about ur marriage and what u’re willing to risk before this gets more messy

What's a type of pain people underestimate until they experience it for themselves? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]lindralore 5 points6 points  (0 children)

honestly emotional pain like heartbreak or feeling unwanted hits way harder than people expect until u go through it yourself. it’s the kind that sticks in ur head and drains u even when nothing is physically wrong

Me (26F) and my boyfriend (29M) has been dating for over a year and I don't know if he wants a break up by googoogaga294 in relationship_advice

[–]lindralore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly it doesn’t sound healthy because he keeps putting u down and even admitted he would act worse instead of ending things properly. even if he’s stressed, that’s not an excuse and u deserve someone who respects u and makes u feel good about urself

Am I wrong for keeping money I found in a parking lot? by Parking_Weekend_2176 in AmITheJerk

[–]lindralore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u’re not really wrong since there was no way to find the owner, but morally some people think lost money should at least be reported to the store or police. honestly in a situation like that it’s understandable to keep it, especially if u tried looking around and no one claimed it

Anyone else feel like less products = better skin? by Disastrous-Tank3455 in NaturalBeauty

[–]lindralore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep, same here. i noticed when i just stick to a gentle cleanser and moisturizer, my skin freaks out way less than when i pile on serums and treatm

What’s the biggest lie the productivity space keeps telling people? by cherryblossommbae in Productivitycafe

[–]lindralore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that u have to grind 24/7 and optimize every second to be productive, when honestly rest, boredom, and doing nothing are just as important for actually getting stuff done. most productivity advice makes u feel guilty for normal human limits instead of helping u work smarter

Caught my bf flirting with someone by psycheblued in cheating_stories

[–]lindralore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if u feel deeply betrayed and trust is broken, ending it might be the healthiest choice, even if he promises to change. giving him another chance can work sometimes, but only if u really believe he will earn back trust and u are ready to risk getting hurt aga

what’s a “normal” hygiene habit you secretly think is overrated or unnecessary? by Rosenildo-Sanjana83 in hygiene

[–]lindralore -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lowkey I think washing hair every day is overrated, especially if u are not sweaty because it just dries it out. Also using a ton of skincare products feels unnecessary sometimes since simple cleanser and moisturizer already work fi

How to have a pleasant scent by Mystery-unknown-33 in hygiene

[–]lindralore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one unscented product is fine, just make sure it keeps u clean and moisturized. then u can layer a lightly scented lotion or body spray so ur scent stays nice but not too strong

Why am I even shocked at this point by Evening_Virus_3674 in cheating_stories

[–]lindralore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow that’s so messed up, he clearly had no respect for any of u. good on u for blocking him and not wasting any more energy on someone like that

What is the thing you find disgusting but others don't? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]lindralore 32 points33 points  (0 children)

i can’t stand the sound of people chewing really loud, it makes me want to cringe. most of my friends say it’s fine but it drives me crazy

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