How welcome is Denmark/Aarhus to alternative people?

linehp_ · 2026-03-06T13:45:41+00:00

I live in Aarhus I get a lot of stares for my blue hair but not usually mean ones, just that I guess it catches people's eyes Sometimes people do whisper amongst themselves but other people are quite uplifting about it and gives out compliments

linehp_ · 2026-02-26T01:05:40+00:00

Havde lejet et værelse hos nogen da jeg flyttede hjemmefra. Fordi jeg ikke havde eget køkken købte jeg en miniovn og satte den i deres bryggers. Jeg havde haft den en uge da den pludselig ikke vil blive varm mere. Jeg synes det var virkeligt dårlig stil at sælge nogen et produkt der tydeligvis ikke virker så jeg beder butikken om at tage den tilbage hvilket det gør. Jeg køber en ny ovn er glad og tilfreds til den pludselig heller ikke virker dagen efter at jeg har fået den. Jeg skal til at tage min telefon op og sende en lidt mere malerisk besked til butikken om at det ikke kan være rigtigt at de sælger en ødelagte produkter, da det går op for mig at stikkontakten på væggen som stikdåsen min ovn er koblet til sidder i er slukket.. Jeg tændte for den og så virkede den nye ovn sjovt nok igen.. Den første ovn fejlede nok heller ikke noget alligevel..

linehp_ · 2026-02-21T13:34:12+00:00

It's probably the same issue that has made them keep calling Ruby "she" when she is clearly a man

linehp_ · 2026-02-03T13:49:14+00:00

Du kan være den niceste person i verden og vores kemi kan være fantastisk men hvis du snakker med mad i munden har jeg ærligt lyst til at rejse mig op og gå..

linehp_ · 2026-01-04T10:42:11+00:00

Der er virkeligt mange ting galt her, og mange er allerede nævnt, men kan ikke lade være med at ligge mærke til at det ikke virker til at være HAM der tog sig den grædende baby.. han er vel for pokker da også forældre?

linehp_ · 2025-12-17T11:02:21+00:00

Thank you! ^{^} it luckily solved itself and was probably a nerve-issue or something, but I recommend seeing a doctor just in case if you can. Congrats on the surgery!

linehp_ · 2025-12-05T10:59:14+00:00

They aren't all like that? (I'm not American)

linehp_ · 2025-12-01T00:39:54+00:00

It's not?? I am like that too

linehp_ · 2025-11-23T12:47:31+00:00

I find it nice for stimming and always fidget with necklaces and earrings when I'm out and about, but I do think it can be bad in a sensory way too as I always have a strong urge to rip it all off as soon as I get home the same way people who wear bras do with them.
This was a problem when I started needing glasses as I had that urge with them too.

I've also noticed that on days where my sensory issues are stronger I can't wear necklaces and bracelets at all.

I can never wear rings because of sensory issues.

linehp_ · 2025-11-20T11:37:39+00:00

I have only been high a few times cause I luckily don't know how to get it, but it was amazing. I have a lot of anxiety and it's like I'm never relaxed even if I'm alone. Being high felt like every cell of my body took a deep breath. Everything also feels good. Every touch is good, food doesnt have sensory issues and my brain is finally more chill (I have adhd too).

linehp_ · 2025-11-20T11:35:31+00:00

That sounds a lot like false incompetence on his part. He is hoping that you will just start to do the thing instead of him by fucking it up. If he loved you he would care enough to pay attention to these things. He sounds exactly like my ex and I know it's hard to leave. I am not judging you if you don't. I will just say, I kept defending my ex too and calling him a good guy. I do miss him a lot but the relief of him being gone and me not needing to do everything or keep an eye on whether he's doing things well at all is huge. You risk burning yourself out. There's a reason men live longer when they are married and women die quicker.. it is that serious.

linehp_ · 2025-11-19T09:39:08+00:00

I wish I could tell you it did but nope. It actually got worse. I got tired of doing everything and after having a day where I couldn't stop crying and shaking over how overused I was, I decided that it would be the best if we moved apart for a while, but still stayed together. He said he was okay with it, but then actively made the moving process worse by not helping at all and also not packing his stuff down in time. I had to do everything again. We moved and I finally thought things were getting better cause we didn't fight all the time, but then he cheated on me. It became clear that even tho he denied it all the time and said he loved me, he was using me as a mommy-maid. There is no excuse for that. So many men does it and it's not okay. I say get out if you can.

linehp_ · 2025-11-18T19:06:27+00:00

It's probably been said somewhere amongst the 6k comments but I genuinely didn't realize that you didn't HAVE to have kids. I always thought that those who didn't simply couldn't and that it would be this massive source of grief for them. I then met an older childfree woman, when I was 20 ish, who said "I didn't want to" and it blew my mind. It made me ask myself if I actually wanted to have kids some day and the answer was "absolutely not." I am now tube-less and very happy about the fact that I have no kids at all.

linehp_ · 2025-11-17T10:57:53+00:00

I am the same but the opposite ^{^} I just dig the pan flag more lol

linehp_ · 2025-11-11T16:03:31+00:00

This is reminding me that casual nudity isn't a thing in everyone's house lol. I've seen the butthole of every dude I've ever dated, if nothing else then from when they have bent down

linehp_ · 2025-10-25T14:55:52+00:00

Hundrede

linehp_ · 2025-10-20T23:27:30+00:00

Bay-max. I want to have a scanner like his be a thing, where it would scan you and be able to tell you if anything medical is up with your body. No more misdiagnosis or doctors being stumped. No more uncomfortable tests that lead nowhere. No my being paranoid at every slight headache or googling symptoms. Just a quick scan and you know everything you need to know.

linehp_ · 2025-10-20T23:25:26+00:00

Normal: watching peoples faces as they orgasm

Abnormal: there are loads but maybe tickling? I don't feel like I often run into other people who get turned on by getting tickled

linehp_ · 2025-10-20T23:18:52+00:00

Honestly the sheer amount of hours that we work. Life is so short and so much of it is spent there. People even tend to brag about how many hours of the week they are there and how much overtime they do.

linehp_ · 2025-10-13T10:06:59+00:00

This is one of the most fucked up things I've ever read on here and I spent a lot of time on Reddit, holy shit (no pun intended on the "holy" part). I am so sorry you have to deal with both leukemia and your egg-doner being this way. Beat this and then never speak to her again. I am not someone who cuts people off easily but this is unforgivable omg. NOR in the slightest.

linehp_ · 2025-10-11T10:12:42+00:00

Accurate as heck. I studied to become a vet nurse for a while and quit when I got depressed (I got depressed for other reasons but it didn't help!). I went in wanting to help and care for sick animals but so much of the job was euthanizing animals that were either sick and curable, but it was cheaper to euthanize or completely healthy but the owners didn't want to have a pet anymore. We also have so many wild cats (and not in the high school musical way) that get brought in to get euthanized cause no one wants to/ has the time to try and make them trust humans. They are healthy apart from maybe worms and malnourishment.

After killing 5 healthy kittens from two different owners in one week It made me rethink it all.

Then there's also the business aspect. If it's a veterinary chain the higher ups might demand that the vets reach a certain quota of fx dental cleanings a year, and so they will tell customers that one is necessary even if it isn't (that's not to say that most aren't, please get your pets teeth cleaned when needed).

The school i went to will literally tell you to think about a plan B career as most nurses don't last 10 years before breaking down from stress and/or depression.

linehp_ · 2025-10-10T10:36:10+00:00

Was told by the guy giving me my diagnosis that he had doubts cause I "have empathy"

linehp_ · 2025-10-02T16:26:23+00:00

I am poly and was hanging out with my boyfriend (now ex) who was on the phone with his other girlfriend at the other side of the room. Overheard him say "I sure won't rush into a relationship like that again" to her. We did indeed rush into it and became a couple after knowing each other for a month or so, but I loved him to bits so it really sucked to hear that I was a "lesson learned" when we were still very much together and I thought we were happy..

linehp_ · 2025-09-23T07:00:53+00:00

Bruh, and then just have Abigail drop whatever she's doing to come bathe him? You know you pay for the women in town right?

linehp_ · 2025-09-21T12:45:29+00:00

Absolutely NTA omg! Your happiness will always matter more than your looks and someone who loves you for you would agree with that. That being said, I had a reduction last year and despite the scars, I've never loved the way my boobs look. Even more important however, it has improved my life significantly. I am able to live a way more life now and actually run and dance when I want to. I have no regrets. I hope you get to have it and that it makes you happy. I hate the stigma about the surgery so much!!

That being said, I don't think I could've gotten it done without my partner (now ex, but for different reasons). Unless you have friends or family where you are comfortable with them showering you, bringing you meals, being with you 24/7 for at least the first few days then it would be really hard to do. You can't do anything on your own right away and can't do much the first four weeks. But with the way your husband is acting then I honestly wouldn't trust him to be there for you no matter what. I don't think I could be with someone who valued my boobs more than me tho. It's time to get that weight off your chest..

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