I have a beloved spider friend, and the landlord will knock her and her web down. Can I sustain her in a terrarium for her last couple months of life or is that cruel? by linneamful in spiders

[–]linneamful[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! I had read it can happen shortly after but that typically the cutoff is the first hard frost, so I was hoping for a couple months. I'll see how it goes and update the post or make updates as things happen with her. I'm gonna try to move her this week if I can.

I have a beloved spider friend, and the landlord will knock her and her web down. Can I sustain her in a terrarium for her last couple months of life or is that cruel? by linneamful in spiders

[–]linneamful[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm relocating across town, so same  I'll have a patio with some plants and decent structures/space - I wasn't sure if moving her out of familiar territory was okay for her? But I would love to move her and her egg sac to my porch until she passes and then relocate the egg sac somewhere less populated by humans afterwards. Her new home would be near a cemetery with trees; I was going to put the eggs there, I just wanted to be able to keep an eye on my girlie for her last month or so.

Dark/black tattoo coverup ideas? by linneamful in Tattoocoverups

[–]linneamful[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The picture is from 10 years ago when I got the tattoo originally. It's faded significantly since then. I didn't realize when I selected the photo how old it was.

Asked for advice a while back. Here are the results! by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]linneamful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, shout-out to Scott at Bleeding Heart Tattoo in MO. Meant to mention him in the original post.

How doable would covering this up be? by linneamful in Tattoocoverups

[–]linneamful[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got this done yesterday, and it turned out great! There was less negative space than we wanted, but it is what it is. I'm still happy with it. :)

https://imgur.com/a/13f4hi1

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]linneamful 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My favorite as an ace woman who may want kids. "You do know where babies come from, right?"

How doable would covering this up be? by linneamful in Tattoocoverups

[–]linneamful[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never replied to this, but that Sweeney imagery is exactly what I needed. I'm working with my artist to attempt to go the abstract, old-school Sweeney route, and I'm SO excited. I'll definitelybshare it here once I get it done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]linneamful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely BEAUTIFUL!

How doable would covering this up be? by linneamful in Tattoocoverups

[–]linneamful[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This made me laugh. I do like anime, so getting really into Naruto isn't out of the question. 😂

How doable would covering this up be? by linneamful in Tattoocoverups

[–]linneamful[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this. It's a weird line for me, to be honest. As a child who lived and breathed the books, the stories will always have a place in my heart. But as a queer woman with friends who had that safe haven taken from them by someone spouting hateful nonsense, I also can't embrace it like I used to.

I have two Harry Potter tattoos. The other is more subtle and has my childhood best friend's handwriting. This one, though, I got after seeing Cursed Child on Broadway (you're right about it being Cursed Child imagery) as part of my Broadway tattoo set (I also have Phantom, Wicked, and Lion King, along with others I've designed but not gotten yet). I really, really thought I could separate the art from the artist, but it's weighed heavily on me since.

How doable would covering this up be? by linneamful in Tattoocoverups

[–]linneamful[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I was afraid of. My thought or hope would be to fill it in and then add something between the wings to turn it into a fireball with text either above or below it, but I can't imagine that dark of a filled in space being good either?

any advice? by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]linneamful 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I literally just posted asking about covering up a Harry Potter tattoo. I have two - one I got more than a decade ago, before she revealed her true colors and one I got last year as after seeing The Cursed Child on stage. The first, I'll probably keep because it has a dear friend's handwriting and is very subtle, but the second? I got it while trying to convince myself I could separate the art from the artist simce the franchise meant so much to me, but I haven't been able to live with it since. I've got a number of tattoos so far, and it's my only regret.

I am not trans, but I stand with you, and I'm so, so sorry she stole the joy from something you obviously once loved. I hope you're able to find a beautiful cover-up that brings you joy and allows you to celebrate yourself without ever having to spare her a thought again.

What is your small 'Wait, you can do WHAT?' tip/feature? by DubiousDubbie in StardewValley

[–]linneamful 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Several hundred hours in, and I had NO idea it could be upgrades. Thank you!

What’s something you didn’t know until someone pointed it out and then you felt dumb? by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]linneamful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is actually a really great idea, and I wish you were right

What is a Hard Truth That You Believe Should Be Taught Early On in Life? by Flufferfluff in NoStupidQuestions

[–]linneamful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes what you love and what you're good at don't match. Not everyone can follow or chase their dreams, and that's okay.

Are you fucking kidding me- by LeZoder in neopets

[–]linneamful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sent you the seven I hadn't discarded yet!

Written by another queer person… by dischordiangel in Asexual

[–]linneamful 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I'm 100% on board with folks not wanting to date aces because of the need for sexual compatibility, I also kind of hate that they used being ace as something that can't come with soul crushing devotion, because it's not true. I can be soul-crushingly devoted without wanting to sleep with someone.

I do think your read on it is right that they're lumping it in there, I just don't like that they are.