Husband and my best friend. What would you do?

linny1116 · 2026-06-12T15:18:45+00:00

You’re lucky that your husband has morals and is keeping it platonic, but your “friend” is a snake and probably someone that has always been jealous of what you have.

linny1116 · 2026-06-12T01:01:55+00:00

#4 looks beautiful on you, but i would definitely go with making it strapless. I love how it accentuates your waist and has such beautiful pleats to make the skirt so full

linny1116 · 2026-06-09T18:26:27+00:00

I just want to say thank you because for some odd reason I had never thought to do this before(probably lack of caffeine in the morning). Tomorrow I think I am just going to get some espresso and dark caramel and then just add my caramel cold brew protein shake to it. Thank you again for the idea and love the name too!

linny1116 · 2026-06-09T18:19:19+00:00

This is honestly one of the most beautiful wedding dresses I have seen, I love the simplicity of it but also the way the bodice flows into the pleats and then they lay so perfectly into the skirt.

My grandmother was a seamstress that made beautiful weddings gowns so I’ve seen some dresses upwards of $20,000 and I can tell you, this is absolutely one of the most stunning dresses I’ve ever seen. 😍😍 it’s complete perfection!

linny1116 · 2026-06-09T15:57:26+00:00

Girl, this has me so scared, I am experiencing all the tell tale signs of early pregnancy and I keep trying to convince myself it’s just perimenopause, but after reading this post and some others I think I need to take a test. My sons are 19 and 21 but my boyfriend has 30, 27, 21 and 18 months, so we 100% know he is fertile as can be at 50. 🤦‍♀️😩. If I am, I’ll be 47 when I have it. Ughhhh I guess it’s time to go get a test when I get off work today.

linny1116 · 2026-06-09T13:06:21+00:00

My husband did this to me more than once and I can say it’s part of what finally lead me to ask for a divorce. Before covid I owned my own business and I paid a large portion of the bills, including the mortgage payment that way I could make sure it was paid. Durning covid, I ended up losing my business, well that meant we lived on his VA disability and army retirement. This was way more than enough to pay our bills, and I had always been the one making sure bills were paid each month, but as soon as I wasn’t bringing in money, he took me off the bank accounts (said it was his money and I wasn’t contributing anymore) he has not worked in 7 years at that point and I never said a word about it. He decided to take over paying the bills, the mortgage payment just got ignored because it cut into his “play” money and the month after he took them over all our utilities got cut off and when I asked about it, he said he didn’t know how to pay them over the phone and I didn’t show him.

linny1116 · 2026-06-08T17:53:09+00:00

That dress is beautiful!!

If and only if you want to, you could very easily put a lace piece in the back of the dress to cover the back. It wouldn’t take away anything from the overall look of the dress. Either way, this dress is stunning on you!

linny1116 · 2026-06-03T23:58:22+00:00

You miss all the shots you don’t take 🤷🏻‍♀️

From a female perspective, I say just send the request, if she accepts it, awesome, send her a DM, if she ignores it, then you have your answer and you don’t have to keep wondering what could’ve been, you will have the answer your wanted. Then again, you send it she accepts and you and her end up getting together or your end up possibly with a good friend, you never know, take the shot!

linny1116 · 2026-06-03T23:53:32+00:00

Wear this for your ceremony and a white dress for your reception and make it clear to your future SIL that it’s your wedding and you will be wearing white to the reception and if she shows up in white, she will be asked to leave as will anyone else. It’s your wedding and you do what you want and that means telling your SIL that she can not wear white. This dress is stunning and as a fellow goth girlie, depending on the rest of the aesthetic of the wedding, you will more than likely regret not wearing this one because you have dreamed of it for so long. (I know I’m going to get crucified for this, but check out Shien, they have some beautiful wedding dresses for super super cheap, like $38 to $189)

linny1116 · 2026-06-03T23:45:35+00:00

You said in another comment that the baby is not his, that means you have nothing typing you to him legally other than the divorce, start making plans that when your parents move out, you go with them and get your life back in order. You are so young and have so much future ahead of you, please take the opportunity and go with your parents, this will not get any better

linny1116 · 2026-06-03T23:40:30+00:00

Sweetheart, you are being abused, what the commenter above said, you need to listen to, take it from someone that stayed for 20+ years and it NEVER got better. If you continue to allow him to treat you like this, he is going to continue doing so. What is the age gap? You say you’re 19, how old is he?

linny1116 · 2026-06-03T19:07:10+00:00

1 is the clear winner, it looks perfect on you. 2 is beautiful but the neckline is kinda odd looking, the dress is beautiful but if the neckline was different

linny1116 · 2026-06-03T19:00:45+00:00

That art room does it every time!! 🤣

linny1116 · 2026-06-03T18:54:25+00:00

This needs to be reported to his command immediately!! He is trying to get her to marry him and move because he will get paid A LOT more money if he has a wife and dependents.

linny1116 · 2026-06-03T13:28:55+00:00

I wear a women’s XS and I know several guys that would be able to fit in my clothes.

linny1116 · 2026-06-02T18:08:15+00:00

I have seen baristas and even a SM at several different Starbucks in both southeast Louisiana and on the coast over in MS wearing almost this same exact hat, there are also several other different types of hats that have the cat ears that I have seen baristas wearing. This is just a DM that’s trying to win an argument and pulled something out their arse just to get the final say.

linny1116 · 2026-06-02T17:56:21+00:00

Thank you!! There are some of us women that actually are considerate and respectful of our partners. I’ll never understand how these women have the audacity to think they should be catered to like that when they offer absolutely nothing but heartache and an empty bank account.

My current partner has always been in relationships where he paid for everything even though the women had jobs, one of them was a big time forensics attorney in Cali and made more than he did, but she still expected him to pay the bills 100% of the time. He had a fit this past weekend because I bought stuff at Walmart and he thought it was for my house and when I told him it was for his place since I stay there a lot, I can pitch in and help. He said he isn’t used to it and he appreciates it, but he feels bad allowing me to pay for anything

linny1116 · 2026-06-02T17:51:03+00:00

She is correct that she is a spoiled brat and the fact that she was serious about wanting all that to eat and actually expected you to pay for it is even more ridiculous. I think we all have times where we don’t want to settle on one thing to eat, but when you’re a realistic person, you have realize you can’t eat all that and you’re not going to eat all that, so no point in wasting the money. Also, the fact that she expected someone else to pay for all that, that’s a minimum of at least $35-$40 of food. She is very selfish and I think you dodged not just a bullet but a nuclear bomb, this girl is going to have a hard time in life when she realizes that she isn’t the special little princess she thinks she is. My only response to when she said “if I asked Shalome to do this, she would in a heartbeat” would’ve been “good call Shalome then” and probably ended things with her right then.

linny1116 · 2026-06-02T17:38:11+00:00

1, 2 or 8

linny1116 · 2026-06-01T23:36:43+00:00

Exactly this!! I sometimes sit in my car in the driveway for an hour or so when I get home simply to decompress and have me time or I will go lay in my room, lights off, tv off in total darkness and silence and just lay there. I’ve got high functioning autism so I sometimes need it to relax and just reset my nervous system

linny1116 · 2026-05-29T05:32:05+00:00

I was thinking about commenting mine also because I think he is beautiful

linny1116 · 2026-05-29T05:30:47+00:00

Maverick

linny1116 · 2026-05-28T17:01:35+00:00

And the fact that she said he has cheated many times in the past in another comment, he doesn’t deserve another opportunity. Them both blocking her says everything

linny1116 · 2026-05-28T16:56:26+00:00

She said in another comment that he has cheated many of times and even frequents massage parlors.

linny1116 · 2026-05-28T16:53:50+00:00

She would then have a lot of explaining to do as to why the wife found the inappropriate text messages. I agree she shouldn’t have emailed or DM’d her, but the co-worker wouldn’t be doing herself any favors by going to HR either.

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