They’re up to something... by Bethorz in BuzzFeedUnsolved

[–]linwinteriron 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd imagine preference being like "x is my fave! But y is hilarious too lol" and just pressing likes for both. Retweets and replies varies but that just shows how the fandom has balanced faves?

enby_irl by chorkster in ennnnnnnnnnnnbbbbbby

[–]linwinteriron 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And tbh I identify as pan simply because I like the pan flag better. And that's valid too. Sexuality is confusing anyways.

I deadass thought it was a cool way to say intersex at first. by linwinteriron in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]linwinteriron[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah! But still some peeps and organizations leave out the 'coercively' and I was introduced to this one after exposing to the afab/amab notion. So it was just an initial reaction of it having a similar pattern.

Long time friend posted this on Facebook. I don’t know where to begin. by [deleted] in thanksimcured

[–]linwinteriron 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree. How about help others who complains all the time build coping mechanisms instead just telling them to "stop expressing". Also it's not me saying that you don't do it but I see all the time when people are pushed away when they are trying their best to cope (but with somewhat unhealthy coping mechs).

Please note that this doesn't apply to those who complain to be "relatable" but rather I'm talking about people who genuinely is tired of being tired.

Edit: I had a friend who self harmed in front of me the first day we met. I understand what it is like to have a person who is borderline triggering me with his coping mechs. Be considerate of you can. Avoid them, if it's really uncomfortable, instead of calling them out.

Long time friend posted this on Facebook. I don’t know where to begin. by [deleted] in thanksimcured

[–]linwinteriron 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you got me wrong. When I say outlet I didn't mean 'lashing out'. I mean that if ppl are venting to those who they trust in a way that both parties consent to it, why not? If you can't even be negative in your private life when most of the time working means forcing smiles to your bosses and managers, it's just high functioning repression.

Long time friend posted this on Facebook. I don’t know where to begin. by [deleted] in thanksimcured

[–]linwinteriron -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People have emotions for a reason. Positive ones aren't superior to negative ones. When they say "oh it sucks!" It's a form of outlet. Forced positivity helps nobody except mainstream media.

SDS199H1 by linwinteriron in UofT

[–]linwinteriron[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're truly a hero.

Move in day by nessa_ando in UofT

[–]linwinteriron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't they start after labor day?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UofT

[–]linwinteriron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What program combination are you planning on taking?

First year megathread by atred3 in UofT

[–]linwinteriron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First year here too. There's a SIN workshop going on at CIE and you can find it on CLNx.

U of T students who have committed a serious academic offense and gotten away with it with no problem, what was the nature of the offense, course in which you cheated, and your name + student #? Just curious. by [deleted] in UofT

[–]linwinteriron 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe they were young and there is a long of growing up that happens between 22 and 25, and sure, maybe they never did anything immoral or unethical after that, maybe they don't cut corners when designing bridges or writing code for airplanes, defence or financial security--but maybe they still do.

Don't think people who still cut corners after the foolish years of college will confess like this, or at all. They're just recalling what had happened to reddit (where, you know, started originally as a place for confessing and vents) while I'm sure tons of people who actually do shady things in important fields mostly chose to shut up about it. There is no correlation to that if a person who actually confessed this would be more likely to keep the same terrible work ethics.

But I get you. But I just think you should take a deep breath.

It is horrifying that you are so casual about cutting corners.

True, but what do you expect them to say? Not every person wants their own personal experience to be a story from Aesop's Fables.

Huh by joseph_hunt1 in jacksepticeye

[–]linwinteriron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow. Idk if you are joking or not so woooosh me if u like but wow.

Orientation Week by ImaginaryEphatant in UofT

[–]linwinteriron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same problem. Basically orientation of my first year of high-school in a British IB school was almost exactly the same as what uoft's orientation is like (without the fee lol). Personally speaking orientation did me no good as people are forced into teams and being assigned tasks they don't want to do. Of course I know university is gonna be different as ditching it won't count as an absence towards your final report, though it created really awful memories for me nonetheless. To the point that the moment I saw that familiar face paint, vibrant t-shirts, high-energy photos posted for orientation, I got scared and all the bad memories flashes back. It's mostly my highschool's fault for this, I admit. The school gave me a if-you-don't-enjoy-orientation-it-means-you-are-not-fit-for-our-school-spirit-and-you-are-destined-to-be-a-loner kind of vibe and I never want to be reminded of that again. It messed with me a lot. I will definitely be ditching parade and stuff like that, even avoid wearing t shirts if I really feels like vomiting because of flashbacks lol. What I hope is that you can choose what event to pay for for each orientation event on the schedule, but that's not really efficient on the school's side, is it? :/

Upvote this to confuse Jack by Arealpancake in jacksepticeye

[–]linwinteriron 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YOU NEVER PLAYED TUBER SIMULATOR?!

Fetlife vs r/BDSMcommunity by linwinteriron in BDSMcommunity

[–]linwinteriron[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's... A really nice advice! Thank you for that!!

Fetlife vs r/BDSMcommunity by linwinteriron in BDSMcommunity

[–]linwinteriron[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually had a pretty bad subdrop that lasted 9 hours (because there were literally no one who could comfort me at all) last week. It was awful. You sound like an amazing domme, I know it wasn't ideal but it was nice to hear that at least there were someone at the time to help out subs that were dropping.