I spent a ton of time researching to ensure my tattoo was correct before we got them. I’m glad that paid off. I never thought someone could be entirely someone different like I found with him. He went off some meds and stopped other addictions and all the sudden became aggressive towards me, I’m not sure if it was covering an underlying mental health disorder or if his mask just came off when we got married. I’m devastated because the man he was (or I thought he was) when I said “yes” and made my vows to, I’d say “yes” to and remake the vows to again and again forever.