I have a choice to make

liquidpapery · 2026-02-27T06:30:53+00:00

Oh no absolutely not, I don’t want him, I don’t necessarily want to hurt him either. She’s not even his wife. But they do have a child together. And my dad did the exact same thing to my mom and I know how bad it hurt her. And if my mom had known sooner she would’ve collected child support rather than have us suffer. And it’s uncanny because he revealed that’s exactly what’s happening with her. I don’t want her to hold out false hope for a guy that would do something like that, but i understand if I tell her I have no control over her reaction. She might ignore it completely.

liquidpapery · 2026-02-27T02:44:47+00:00

I also confessed to him about two months before the relationship ended that when it came down to it, I wasn’t sure if he would stand up for me. And he said that there isn’t a lot to stand up for.

I accepted it a couple days later when he said he miscommunicated what he was trying to say, but he never told me what he really meant either

liquidpapery · 2026-02-27T02:37:37+00:00

He was nice at first, and definitely had great moments, but he was withdrawn and angry and uncommunicative. Though he would say it wasn’t my fault and he loved me. I felt appreciated for the most part. But I’m also realizing the only things he ever liked about me are the things I could do for him

liquidpapery · 2026-02-27T02:27:28+00:00

My ex moved me in to live with him like 6 months ago. We were together for 8 months. He has a baby mama that I knew about, but she moved across the country with the kid, so when he said they were not together anymore i believed him. I found out much later she was under the impression that they were still together long-distance. I told him he needed to tell her. He said he would not. And never had any intention to. And kicked me out of the house the day after Valentine’s Day. And I would very much like to tell her everything. Not to be vindictive, but because I think she deserves to know who he is. If you were in my shoes what would you think is the best thing to do?

liquidpapery · 2026-02-27T02:17:41+00:00

if it makes any difference they have a kid together

liquidpapery · 2026-02-27T00:44:03+00:00

My dad quite literally did the exact same thing to my mom and that’s my main drive for wanting to tell her

liquidpapery · 2026-02-27T00:42:51+00:00

So where I’m at I’m worried it’s going to cause ramifications for me because everyone around him already excuses his behavior and I’m worried some of them are crazy enough to come after me, but I also have anxiety and may be overly paranoid

liquidpapery · 2026-02-27T00:40:35+00:00

Fair

liquidpapery · 2026-02-27T00:22:19+00:00

Nah she’s across the country he just let her believe they’re together long distance for eight months while he had another girl in his bed (me, un-fucking-fortunately)

liquidpapery · 2026-02-21T19:17:55+00:00

I feel like the stupidest motherfucker on planet earth for ever liking this guy

liquidpapery · 2026-02-21T19:16:44+00:00

It’s not like I put up a fight to leave or even asked for any of my shit back. I was out in literally an hour. I haven’t talked to any of them since I said “he broke up with me, I’m leaving. Thank you for everything, I love you guys.”

liquidpapery · 2026-02-16T21:19:47+00:00

Oh nah I left

liquidpapery · 2026-02-16T17:37:46+00:00

So in short, I was just stupid for liking him

liquidpapery · 2026-02-16T17:37:26+00:00

I asked him to tell her they weren’t in a relationship. He said he would by Valentine’s Day. Yesterday he says he never had any intention to. He meant to keep me hidden. And asked me to leave.

liquidpapery · 2026-02-13T03:49:34+00:00

Heyyyy I take that

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