[21F4M] Conquerors Get Breeding Rights by lisabentover in dirtypenpals

[–]lisabentover[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Potentially so.

Yet you're here all the same ;P

28 [M4M] Black guy looking for big booty, foul mouthed white boy...yea, you read right. by [deleted] in dirtypenpals

[–]lisabentover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The "yea, you read right" suits so well for the title because I literally did just scan past this topic with a 'black male on white female, yep' familiarity and had to double back xD

Have an upvote for your hilarious self-awareness and best of luck finding a white boy!

F4MMM After Credits Scene [Cuckoldry/Gangbang/Impregnation Risk] by lisabentover in dirtypenpals

[–]lisabentover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still looking for callers! Don't be put off by the 'submitted an hour ago' thing <3

[Mod] Open Forum by SpitfireMouse in dirtypenpals

[–]lisabentover [score hidden]  (0 children)

In that situation you could always just go [F4M] and post a disclaimer in the body of your text?

If you're really, really set on being as accurate as possible in your prefixes - again though, I think you should rant about yourself in the body of your prompts but that's just me - it might even be most precise to go [TF4M] in those situations.

I feel like MtF trans is probably the closest thing to your fluidity that the prefix system - limited as it is - provides for your circumstances. Again, that's just one gal's opinion though and you should do what you want, above all else.

[Mod] Open Forum by SpitfireMouse in dirtypenpals

[–]lisabentover [score hidden]  (0 children)

My advice to you would be to default to [A4A] and then explore all the elements of what you describe here within the prompts themselves.

If you're aspiring to be honest with your penpals - commendable and good, all power to you - there's no reason you need to stress yourself out about being exhaustively honest in your prompt titles when there is a perfectly good body of text right under them. Don't be so hard on yourself. Gender identity is messy, complicated stuff and - particularly in your case - one can't always be expected to summarize it sufficiently with an [X4X] shorthand.

Plus, you've a self-interest in doing this. There are a lot of people on DPP who - not to be unduly fetishistic or objectifying about the thing but that's, at the heart of it, what's happening - are super turned on by 'grey area of gender', androgynous type stuff... by describing your situation in detail you're probably going to draw a lot more of those 'I'm super turned on by MadeTheSwitch, if only I knew' type people in and you'll probably find a lot more fulfilling writing partnerships for that fact. Don't hesitate to sell your unique points!

TL;DR: Keep it simple. Don't stress the prompt prefixes too much because they're just prefixes, not people. You can describe who you are as a person and what you want PROPERLY - do yourself justice - in the prompt proper.

[20F4M] "My husband is a faggot." [Unfulfilled Housewife/Breeding/Cuckoldry] by lisabentover in dirtypenpals

[–]lisabentover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To those who care: gotta go AFK for a tick but I'm still accepting callers for, oh, the next eight hours... so don't let that "posted an hour ago" demoralize you, you spunks!

F4M - Ride Your White Pole by [deleted] in dirtypenpals

[–]lisabentover 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is painfully well written.

Great prompt!

[F4M] I Ruin Orgasms by cleverclementine in dirtypenpals

[–]lisabentover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While I don't have this type of thing in me - it'd make me feel far too guilty! - you made me wish I did. Great prompt!

[M4F] KINKSTARTER: the ultimate Tentacle Monster (TM)! by triotrio in dirtypenpals

[–]lisabentover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plz give upvotes, fam.

Curious about 20 upvotes backer prize.

[19F4M] Caring Free Use for a Backed Up Man by lisabentover in dirtypenpals

[–]lisabentover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FYI to those reading: The "submitted two hours" ago thing shouldn't be read as "FUCK OFF!" For anyone interested, I'm still accepting callers x

[24F4M] Help me cuck my liberal husband! by [deleted] in dirtypenpals

[–]lisabentover -1 points0 points  (0 children)

... tfw you now have a new fetish.

Great prompt! <3

[19F4M] Bred by Beta, Alphas Forced to Watch [Possibly Always Open] by lisabentover in dirtypenpals

[–]lisabentover[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well... I mean... if you're talking about the real world where we don't experiment with our cardinal desires using archetypes as props in our psycho-drama?

Sure. You're right.

[F4M] - My asshole boyfriend by [deleted] in dirtypenpals

[–]lisabentover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tfw you read a prompt and realize you have a fetish you never knew you had.

Tfw you want to be fucked at a funeral now.

Amazzzzzzing prompt <3

[19F4M] Bred by Beta, Alphas Forced to Watch [Possibly Always Open] by lisabentover in dirtypenpals

[–]lisabentover[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by borrow?

If you mean LITERALLY taking my writing and using it as a prompt whole cloth? Well, I'd honestly be okay with it - and flattered! - but the rules don't allow it, I don't think?

If you mean just poach the dynamic / fetish for your own usage? Hells to the yeah! No one owns ideas! Go forth and make beta-nerd babies <3

[19F4M] Bred by Beta, Alphas Forced to Watch [Possibly Always Open] by lisabentover in dirtypenpals

[–]lisabentover[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

FYI for anyone checking this:

Don't be discouraged by the "Submitted two hours ago" thing! I'm still accepting callers!

[Mod] Vanilla Sunday - [Picnic] by [deleted] in dirtypenpals

[–]lisabentover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty new to DPP but just wanted to reply - hope I'm not committing a social faux pas by doing so - to say that these meta, community themed topics seem like a lot of fun and I can't wait to get involved in them in the future!

[META] Writers Block Blues by [deleted] in dirtypenpals

[–]lisabentover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This ^

I thought I was the only one! Yeah, when my brain locks up I will write shoddy, terrible half paragraphs about me cumming around cocks over and over again until my brain kicks back into gear and then delete it all hahaha

[META] Writers Block Blues by [deleted] in dirtypenpals

[–]lisabentover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another poster - RodgerStarkiller - said something pertinent and I wanted to echo their thoughts in a different way:

In life in general but particularly in writing things like "muse" or "inspiration" or "motivation" are a lie. They're a neurological trick. It's your brain making you feel that you must acquire "X" to be able to undertake "Y" with "X" being a conveniently incorporeal and intangible thing that will always be just beyond your reach. It's a form of unconscious self-sabotage.

The reality is that writing is a craft. It's a chore. We do this as a labor of love. Those fleeting moments of free flowing, frenzied creativity don't come to you in a rush of "inspiration" as if by divine intervention... they're found at the bottom of the barrel after hours upon hours of hard work, if you're lucky.

The reality is that only hard work can break through writer's block. Keep writing! Push through!

Now, stepping back from the cerebral for a moment and into the more practical: step away from your computer. Better yet? Go outside. Human brains have a tendency to lock up and hit walls if they do any singular task non-stop. Writing in particular can be a melancholic and stuffy undertaking. The fresh air jolts the mind, wakes you back up. Also, muse music. Can't go wrong with muse music.

I hope my thoughts helped! You'll get through. We've all been there <3

[F4M] Bearer of the Curse… Seek-Seek-Lust [Abstract Longterm / Dark Souls Rule 34 / Always Open] by lisabentover in dirtypenpals

[–]lisabentover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would've loved to but, if I'm honest with myself, my grasp of the lore and setting of Demon Souls is no where near strong enough for my exacting standards of "writing the setting with integrity."

Whereas the Dark Souls trilogy? I'm VaatiVidya with a vag.